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A Romantic Alys Beach Wedding With One of the Prettiest Color Palettes Ever

No doubt about it, I need to get my booty to Alys Beach. Time and time again, I see gorgeous galleries of weddings there and my heart pitter patters faster and faster. And the latest, this gem from Brandon Chesbro and Pure 7 Studios, is no exception. Shelby Peaden Events and Myrtie Blue came together to create an organic, romantic celebration with one of the prettiest color palettes ever. See more right this way!

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From the Bride… Jordan and I met while we were both in college and next door neighbors. We dated for nearly five years before he proposed while we were on vacation in Mexico. Although we live in Tennessee, we immediately knew we wanted to do a destination wedding in Alys Beach, Florida. The beautiful architecture of the pristine white houses made for the dreamiest backdrop for our wedding. We’ve been vacationing in or near Alys Beach for several years, and I always thought it would be the most amazing place to get married – and it was!

We knew we wanted to keep our wedding relatively small in order to have a more intimate feel to our ceremony and reception. Our vision was to have a natural, organic, and romantic feel to our wedding. For me, the florals were the most important part of the decor. I was so lucky to find Fort Walton Beach’s best floral and event designers, Myrtie Blue. Co-owner Brian Watson took my request of “loose romantic florals” and created something more beautiful than I could have ever dreamed. My bouquet was out of this world, and weighed more than you can imagine.

In addition to picking out florals and decor, one of my other favorite parts of planning was working with my talented calligrapher, Katie Hyatt of Signora e Mare. She makes the most beautiful handmade paper, and I knew I had to have her create our invitation suite. Katie created an organic “B” design that we incorporated not only on the invitations, but also the seating chart, cocktail napkins, and in a couple decor items. For example, we had a moss covered “B” that hung behind the main bar, and a few pillows that were arranged on lounge furniture at the reception also displayed our unique “B” design. This personal touch really made our day feel so special, and we now have the pillows and moss “B” displayed in our house now.

There are so many great memories from our wedding day, but if I had to pick my favorite, I think it would be our first look. We had been hanging out with our bridesmaids, groomsmen, and family separately all morning, and there were a lot of nerves to be calmed getting ready. Once I saw Jordan, everything else went away and I could focus about the day being about us.

I will never forget the love and support we felt from our friends and family on that day. When I started to walk down the aisle with my father, I could not hold back the tears once I saw all of our loved ones who traveled near and far to celebrate our love. Although I thought I wouldn’t cry walking down the aisle, that feeling of love was so overwhelming, that of course I cried the whole way. To top it off, my stepfather officiated our ceremony, which was an experience I will never forget.

We know that our wedding day would not have happened without our talented wedding planner, Shelby Peaden. I’m also so grateful to our photographer, Brandon Chesbro, and our cinematographer, Alan LeBlanc of Pure 7 Studios for perfectly capturing our wedding. Without a doubt, November 5, 2016 was the best day!

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Photography: Brandon Chesbro | Cinematography: Pure 7 Studios | Event Planning: Shelby Peaden Events | Floral Design: Myrtie Blue | Wedding Dress: Rue De Seine | Cake: Confections On The Coast | Shoes: Chloe | Rings: Rhapsody in Gold | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Aidan Mattox | Bridesmaids' Dresses: J.Crew | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Jenny Yoo | Catering: Cafe 30A | Hair + Makeup: Eulanna Bloodworth | Calligraphy: Signora E Mare | Band: Big Night Dynamite | Groom's Attire: Nordstrom | Groomsmen's Attire: Nordstrom | Wedding Venue: Alys Beach | Ceremony/Cocktail Music: Blackbird Pickers | Groom's Ring: Northwood Rings | Groom's Shoes: Cole Haan | Paper Goods: Signora E Mare | Rentals: The Big Day Event Rentals | Veil: Sara Gabriel

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A Bride’s Guide to the Boho-Luxe Look

Give me the prettiest al fresco wedding with a boho-luxe twist and I’ll be one happy blogger. Add in the creative talents of Carlie StatskyGoing LovelyMintedLa Tavola and so many more and it results in the inspiration shoot we’ve got right here at your fingertips. Think shades of lavender accented with metallics and mustard plus unstructured floral design for a truly bohemian look. Consider this gallery your guide to a wedding unlike any other with even more right over here.

 

From PJ Dunn of Going Lovely Events… Earlier this year, I got together with Carlie Statsky and we bonded over our love of all things boho and how excited we are that bright color palettes are making a comeback in wedding design. We had been dying to work together and decided putting together a boho-luxe editorial shoot would be the perfect opportunity to collaborate!

We partnered with Minted on this shoot and used their Gilded Shore invitation as the inspiration behind the color story – pairing shades of lavender with metallics and mustard.

The shoot took place at Gardener Ranch, which is tucked away in beautiful Carmel Valley. It had rained the day before our shoot, so the grounds were extra lush and a perfect setting.

The bride wore two gowns from Daughters of Simone paired with vintage inspired Jewelry from Trumpet and Horn. She looked lovely as can be walking through the venue grounds and styled in the vintage lounge.

Michelle Lywood outdid herself and adorned the ceremony tree with the most stunning flowers that looked like they were growing out of the bottom of the tree.

We set the table with La Tavola’s bayliss rain linen and velvet runners and kept the place settings modern with gold glass chargers, gray ceramic plates, and gold flatware. Adding the mustard yellow taper candles were a last minute decision and I’m so glad we did! It really made the yellow in the centerpiece pop and provided a lovely contrast against the lavender hues.

Using the minted wedding invitation texture as inspiration, Amanda from Just Bakecause crafted up such a unique cake! Can you say cake goals!?

I feel so lucky to be able to collaborate with such talented vendors who put in their time, product, and creative gifts to make this beautiful editorial shoot happen. From the location to all the boho luxe details, the day was a total dream and I hope inspires engaged couples planning their wedding this season!

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Photography: Carlie Statsky | Event Design: Going Lovely | Floral Design: Michelle Lywood | Wedding Dress: Daughters Of Simone | Cake: Just Bake Cause | Stationery: Minted | Jewelry: Trumpet & Horn | Hair & Makeup: Melissa Hoffmann | Calligraphy: Blush Type | Venue: Gardner Ranch | Bridal Shoes: Aquazzura | Linen Rentals: BBJ La Tavola | Model: Cora Snowden | Rentals: Classic Party Rentals | Vintage Rentals: Pieces By Violet

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Step Away From the Pumpkin Spice and Make This Instead

September 21 is the official beginning of Fall. To us that means sweaters and boots on rotation, cozy gatherings and a whole lot of comfort food headed our way. This simple tablescape crafted by Laine & Layne and captured by J. Layne fits right in with all of that autumnal goodness and bonus points, it doesn’t have an ounce of pumpkin spice. Instead it’s all about the figs. Get inspired to whip up the perfect recipe for your next get-together with this delicious and gluten free Fresh Fig Galette.

 

Gluten Free Fresh Fig Galette Recipe

(modified from myrecipes.com)

To be honest, we had never really eaten figs… But they are always so lovely to photograph and remind us of fall so we grabbed some at our local market and decided to modify a galette recipe and give them an actual try. Needless to say, we were obsessed and I baked with them for 3 days trying various recipes and this one was by far our favorite! This GF dough is so good as well and tastes like a cookie!

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1 Cup Gluten Free Rice Flour (we use Betty Crocker brand)
4 1/2 Tablespoons Almond Flour (Bob’s Red Mill)
2 Tablespoons Sugar, Divided
1/4 teaspoon salt
1 Stick Cold Butter (Kerrygold Butter)
3 Tablespoons Vegetable Oil
3 Tablespoons Ice Water
Approx 1 lb Fresh Black Mission Figs (or Brown Turkey, but we found the Black Mission were sweeter) stemmed and quartered lengthwise
2 Teaspoons Lemon Juice

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1. Spoon flour into a dry measuring cup; level with a knife. Place flour, almond flour, 1 tablespoon sugar, and salt in a food processor; pulse to combine. Scatter butter into processor; pulse until mixture resembles coarse meal. Drizzle in oil; pulse to combine. Add ice water; pulse just until combined. Turn mixture out onto a sheet of plastic wrap; pat into a disk. Wrap in plastic wrap; refrigerate 1 hour.

2. Preheat oven to 400°.

3. Place figs in a large bowl. Sprinkle with remaining 1 tablespoon sugar and lemon juice; toss gently to combine.

4. Unwrap dough. Roll dough on plastic wrap into a 12-inch circle. Arrange dough on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper. Spoon figs onto dough, leaving a 2-inch border. Fold edges of dough over filling to partially cover. Bake at 400° for 35 minutes or until fruit juices bubble and crust is browned. Remove from oven; sprinkle with almonds. Cut into 10 wedges.

*If dough is crumbly when you remove it from the fridge, roll it tightly into a ball and begin working it into a circle on your parchment paper. Just have patience, it will stay together and fold over

VANILLA BEAN HONEY GLAZE

1 Cup Powered Sugar
2 Tablespoons Hot Water
1 Tablespoon Honey
1 Vanilla Bean, sliced lengthwise and seeds removed (discard pod after)

Whisk together the powdered sugar and honey. Slowly stir in hot water until a thick glaze is created. Add in vanilla bean and stir until mixed in. Drizzle over Galette, serve warm, & enjoy!

Photography: J. Layne Photography | Interior Design & Styling: Laine & Layne, The Home Co.

“Same-Sex Marriage Is Not Legal in Our Country, So We Married in the U.S.”

This is the kind of story that makes me eager to log on to SMP every day. It’s not about the details, no, it’s a pure dose of LOVE. Because love is love, and nothing (not even a country) can deny that. Seth and Jacky are brave, strong and admirable for their journey to say I Do. Alisa Ferris‘ imagery paired with their story below is bound to brighten your day.

Seth and Jacky are not able to enjoy the simple luxuries that many couples take for granted. They can’t hold hands or kiss in public. Cozy Instagram pics? Posted with caution. The couple is from Indonesia where same-sex marriage is not recognized, and even worse, neither is homosexuality.

The two met online when Seth was just 19 and Jacky was 16; they maintained a friendship for 4 years before venturing into a romantic relationship. Fast forward eleven years, and the couple have pretty much done it all; here’s the scoop on these savvy business owners, parents and gay rights advocates.

“In Indonesia, homosexuality is not widely accepted, and gay marriage is non-existent,” stated Jacky. “After more than ten years together, we grew weary of the subterfuge and felt that we deserved to have what so many others already have.”

That mindset sent the two packing for NYC where gay marriage is legal. Their elopement in NYC was followed by a quick Honeymoon in D.C. (and a Beyoncé concert, of course!). The result was a 3-day photo session around Washington D.C. and New York City that is an emoji heart feast for the eyes.

“We have Style Me Pretty to thank for our photographer, Alisa Ferris. When we read about how she saved another couple from wedding disaster (READ: “Their Photographer Didn’t Show Up! Here’s What Happened Next), we knew we had to have her,” said Seth.

Now that their nuptials are legal, the pair are becoming recognized as gay rights advocates in their home country. “Not only did we want to get married for ourselves, but also, to set an example for our son, Jasper,” commented Seth. “We wanted to show him to stand up for what you believe in.”

“What we didn’t realize was that so many others would be inspired by our actions. Since we’ve become more open about our relationship,” Jacky continued, “I’ve received messages from many young kids telling me they were on the brink of suicide until they heard our story; now they have hope of living a life of love and happiness.”

 

Having overcome such challenges has made this power couple even stronger. Seth, the mastermind behind the couple’s advertising agency, and Jacky, a prominent fashion designer, whose clothes have been spotted on the likes of Neyo and Lance Bass, now look forward to the future with a relaxed heart.

From Alisa FerrisWhen I heard Seth + Jacky’s story, I knew instantly I wanted to document the story of their love. Sadly, even in the U.S. wedding industry, you will encounter vendors who don’t support same-sex marriage. In my role as a photographer of same-sex marriages, I’m not merely an artist, I also consider myself an activist.

Photography: Alisa Ferris | Location: New York Public Library | Location: Central Park | Location: Library Of Congress

I Spent 25% of My Salary on Destination Weddings Last Year

I grew up in Tennessee, went to college in California (Fight on!), and moved to Texas for work. That means my best girlfriends are literally all over the map. But, in my opinion, that’s a huge perk!

So when the invitations came to be in their bridal parties – whether it was Napa or Nashville – I was obviously going to say yes!


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I call 2016 my “Year of Weddings.” I successfully supported my friends in six destination weddings (and three destination bachelorette parties) without over-drafting my bank account. It wasn’t easy. But here’s how I did it…

Planned Ahead with my Annual Bonus
All my friends got engaged well ahead of their wedding dates. So I had a pretty good idea going into 2016 I’d need extra travel funds more than the YSL handbag I’d been eyeing all year.

I put every penny I could from my annual bonus into a separate savings account for “wedding-related expenses.” I also prepaid for the resort in Napa and bought two bridesmaid dresses. It felt great to check those larger ticket items off the list early!


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Auto-Deposited into an Earmarked Savings Account
After my bonus, I changed the auto deposit settings for my paychecks. I directed 5% of each paycheck into that wedding expense bank account. This decision was crucial for me, since I tend to spend everything I see in my “disposable” account on dinners and drinks with friends. Because I didn’t have to personally transfer funds each month, I didn’t even miss the extra cocktails! It’s amazing how fast 5% adds up…

Made a Strategic Outfit List
Next to food, I spend most of my money online shopping. It’s crazy how many things I think I’ll NEED next season! (Can I get an amen?) I sat down and made an actual list of the outfits I needed for each wedding—rehearsal dinner dress, bridal luncheon dress, bridesmaid dress, Sunday brunch outfit, etc. First, I shopped my own closet to see what I could wear again for future events. Next, I made a list on my phone of the things I still needed to buy (bright colored club dress for bachelorette party 1, black bikini for bachelorette party 2, etc.). Then, I added in the specific bridesmaid dresses.

As I shopped, I checked each item on the list. This protected me from my usual habit of buying 10 “options” for the same event. If I loved it, I kept it. If I didn’t, I returned it for something else I loved. Bonus: I saved money AND streamlined my closet!

Learned the Flight Game
FYI, flights are always cheaper on Tuesdays and Wednesdays – which is a convenient brain break in the middle of the work week. Booking off-peak times, like Thursday or early Friday, can also seriously reduce fares.

I took advantage of “working remotely” whenever possible. For one wedding in Washington, D.C., I saved $200 by flying in early Friday morning. I found the cutest local coffee shop in the city, and it ended up inspiring one of my best campaigns of the year! I didn’t have to take a vacation day AND had some time to relax before the rehearsal dinner.

Made It a Girls Trip
Sharing a room with girlfriends was hands down the best way to cut costs. I loved the extra quality time with friends I rarely get to see. Plus, when you’re looking at resort prices for the weekend, paying one-half or one-fourth of the room makes a huge difference.

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Prioritized my “Plus One”
Sometimes the resort prices are worth it. Most weddings, I deferred my “plus one” to cut costs and room with my friends. Let’s be honest, when you’re in the wedding, you barely have time for your date anyway. But I prioritized bringing a guest for one super-romantic beach wedding. I knew everyone there would be in couples, so it was worth the investment to bring my date along.

Minimized Meal Splurges
The good news is when you’re part of the wedding, you’re usually invited to the rehearsal dinner, a bridal lunch, and the reception. That’s at least three meals already taken care of! Food and drinks at destination locales can easily blow your budget. By minimizing my “fine dining” to one brunch or dinner, I still got to experience amazing restaurants without breaking the bank. PS – Cocktails by the pool add up! Check yourself before ordering that third round.


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Had to say “no”
Missing a wedding is the absolute WORST. I still regret having to say “no” to a special friend’s wedding in Florida last fall. But the only way I could make the weddings I was in work, was to cut out traveling to weddings where I wasn’t included in the bridal party. It seems like a brutal standard when you read it, but it was honestly the only way I could draw a line for my budget.

I wish I had all the money in the world to spend going to weddings. They’re some of my happiest memories – where love, friendship, and a beautiful location all come together for a perfect weekend. Each one is truly a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

But the reality is, I ended up spending about 25% of my salary on weddings in 2016. Although it required a serious strategy, stricter budgets, and a few sacrifices, it was totally worth the investment.

And I know when it’s time for me to walk down the aisle, every one of those girls – near and far – will be right by my side.

Style Me Pretty Contributor – Madeline Littrell is a corporate PR strategist and freelance writer. Born and raised in the South, she loves big hair, country music, and chicken fingers. Madeline lives in Dallas with her Sheltie puppy, Tennessee.

An Organic, Minimalist Wedding With Italian Inspiration

Chris and Alysha wanted to bring the romance of Italy to their Salt Lake City wedding and with one look at the images by Isabel Johansen… I say mission accomplished. They used simple, organic elements as the foundation of their design and brought on with Amber Reverie to work her floral magic. Prepare to be whisked away to a wedding you’d swear was set in Rome and find even more in the gallery.

From the Bride… Chris and I met 11 years ago. After having dated for so long, our wedding was not just a special event for us, but also for our families that had long awaited for this day to happen. My husband Chris remembers while he was waiting for me to walk down the isle how many people were emotional.

This particular day was also special because it was the only day that was available and would work during the summer for the two venues we wanted, and it so happened to be Chris’s parents’ anniversary day as well. I think it was almost fate because in a way we’re following in their footsteps. From the way Chris and I met which was the same way his parents met- at a party where Chris was playing the guitar and singing. And now by pure chance, we get married on the same date, 40+ years later. What’s more, the wedding ring we got for Chris looks almost identical to his dad’s original wedding ring, which he had lost years ago and Chris had never seen.

The weather and temperature couldn’t have been any more perfect for our beautiful outdoor wedding. We both love nature and being in the outdoors, so having the wedding outside was important to us (thank goodness Mother Nature decided to cooperate). That’s why we chose the Montage Resort up in the mountains of Park City, it provided a gorgeous backdrop for our ceremony. Then being outside in the courtyard of the luxurious Grand America Hotel in Salt Lake City for the reception was magical. Going along with natural and outdoor inspiration, I wanted to make sure that our floral arrangements had an organic and natural feel. Our florist did an amazing job of doing that, from the loosely shaped/arranged bouquets, the naturally draping ceremony arch, the greenery running down the center of the tables at the reception, to the Italian Ruscus sprigs adorning each table setting.

A few years ago Chris and I visited Italy and fell in love with it. I mean who wouldn’t, right? Well, while I started planning for the wedding and looking through a lot of Pinterest boards I found myself pinning a lot of Italian inspired weddings. There’s just something very romantic and elegant, yet simple and organic about Italian inspired weddings. So we agreed to incorporate some Italian inspirations to our wedding, such as: Italian themed invitation suite, Rosemary salt party favors with “Grazie” tags (which means “Thank you” in Italian), lots of Italian Ruscus used in floral arrangements, and the hotel courtyard where we had the reception felt like we were somewhere in Rome.

We wanted our guests to have a memorable experience, so we did some of the traditional things but also mixed in some things that were a little more unique and fun. For example, I chose to have both my mom and dad walk me down the isle, I felt like it was more special that way. Instead of doing wedding vows, I wanted to do something that was romantic and symbolic of our new journey as husband and wife, so I surprised Chris with a dove release right after we said our “I dos”. Doves symbolize love, peace, happiness, and prosperity. For entertainment, we had a String Quintet playing all the way through the First Dance, after which we had fun singing karaoke and dancing to dance video games. Chris is in a band called All Hope Contained where he is the lead singer. His fellow band member, Robbie, was the Best Man, and my sister-in-law Heidi was the Maid of Honor.

I’m so lucky to have several talented family members that helped me with the DIY aspects of our wedding. One of my very talented sister-in-laws did all the calligraphy and made all the signs. Another sister-in-law did my hair and makeup. My mother-in-law added sleeves to my beautiful Pronovias dress. My husband Chris is an artist and painted all the insides of the envelopes with an Italian landscape. My parents helped me make the party favors. I made the menus. It was so fun having family help.

Our wedding was a dream come true. I loved everything about it. The only thing I would’ve done differently and the advice I would give a bride is to hire a wedding planner, it possible. Even though I would’ve still probably been very involved in all the details and decision-making (because that’s my personality), it would’ve been nice to have somebody that could help me keep track of everything and coordinate with the vendors as well as keep me more at ease the day of the wedding knowing that someone is in charge of overseeing everything.

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Photography: Johansen | Floral Design: Amber Reverie | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Vow To Be Chic | Hair and Makeup: Heidi Johansen | Calligraphy: Sonja Natalia | Suit: Hugo Boss | Groomsmen Attire: Menguin | Hotel: The Grand America | Bridal Shop: Mary's Bridal | Doves: White Dove Release Utah | Photo Lab: The Find Lab | Resort: Montage Deer Valley | Ribbons: Silk and Willow | String Quintet: String Love | Wedding Cake and Catering: Grand America Hotel | Wedding Dress Designer: Pronovias

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Why Every Bride Needs To Think About a Prenup

Talking with your friends about whether you need a prenup is awkward. It’s like asking, “How much money do you make?” (which is never socially appropriate). But the word “prenup” does seem to be popping up more often in pop culture. Maybe you’ve even wondered if it applies to you.


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To protect your good manners, we talked to Dallas-based family law attorney Hayley B. Collins to get a quick lesson on what a prenup is – and whether you might need one.

A quick disclaimer here: Laws regarding prenups vary state-to-state, so it’s important to consult with an attorney in the state you live in if you are contemplating a prenup.

What’s a prenup?
Prenup is short for prenuptial agreement. It’s an agreement between future spouses to make decisions in advance about property during the marriage and in the event of a divorce.

For example, in some states, without a prenup, the income one spouse receives during the marriage is considered marital property, which belongs to both spouses. In a prenup, future spouses can agree that a spouse’s income will remain that spouse’s separate property during the marriage. That means the income will not be marital property.

A prenup can also define future spouses’ roles during the marriage. For example, future spouses can include in their prenup how they’ll divide household responsibilities.


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Do you need one?

Is this your first marriage?
Prenups are far less common for younger couples and couples entering their first marriages. Hopefully, you’re planning to grow your wealth and estate together forever! Hopefully, you’re also planning to tackle challenges together as a couple during your marriage. If that’s is the case, you probably don’t need a prenup.

Older couples and couples entering their second or third marriages might consider a prenup, especially when one or both spouses have already accumulated substantial property – or if they anticipate receiving substantial income during the marriage. Couples with children from previous marriages might also think about a prenup to protect  their potential inheritance.


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Have you accumulated substantial wealth?
Although laws vary by state, “It’s a common misconception that if you have a lot of family money or if you expect a large inheritance, then you need a prenup. A prenup may be helpful to further define property rights between spouses and in the event of a divorce, but property owned before marriage and inheritance will not be awarded to your spouse in the event of a divorce in Texas. This type of property is protected under the law even without a prenup,” Hayley said.

A common reason for a prenup is to redefine income received during the marriage. A prenup can decide in advance if any income will remain separate, so a Court can’t divide it in the event of a divorce.

For example, a doctor with substantial income is getting married for the third time. She may want to clarify that the money she earns during the marriage will remain her separate property, so, if they divorce, she will leave the marriage with the money she earned during the marriage.


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Are you starting a business?
Hayley said if a client tells her, “I own a startup and I want to make it big and keep this money as ‘my’ money,” she’ll say, “Let’s do a prenup.”

If you own your own business and have no interest in sharing the profits with your partner in a divorce, then you might want to consider a prenup.

In deciding whether to have a prenup as a business owner, it IS wise to also consider the time, energy, and support your partner is investing in your business as your spouse, even if his name isn’t on the door.


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Do you have plenty of time before the wedding?
Hayley’s biggest advice for clients: “If you’re going to have a prenup, make sure you’re working with an attorney so that it will be valid and enforceable.”

A prenup must be in writing – and signed by both parties. And you can’t enforce it if the other person can prove they didn’t sign it voluntarily or consciously. So don’t give your fiancé the prenup after sharing two pitchers of margaritas!

You want to do it as far in advance of your wedding day as possible to avoid potential arguments. If you wait too long, you are leaving the door open for a spouse to argue that, because of timing, they felt pressured to sign it. Hayley won’t even touch a prenup within two weeks of the wedding.

Additionally, future spouses should each have their own attorney review the prenup – they should not share an attorney.


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Do you know his financial situation?
Before you sign a prenup, both future spouses must receive a full financial disclosure of their partner’s property and financial obligations.

For instance: One future spouse is a retired basketball player who now works as sportscaster ESPN making $1 million a year, and the other spouse is a retired social media model who makes less than $50k a year. If the retired model does not know how much money her future spouse has in the bank, she may agree in the prenup that, in the event of divorce, she receives less money than she would have agreed to if she had a true and full disclosure of his assets.

If you’re considering a prenup in your marriage, meet with a family law attorney ASAP. They’ll talk you through the options in your state and help you decide if it’s something you really want to pursue. Also, talk with your fiancé. Honest conversations around finances are always important as you prepare for marriage.

If your fiancé brings up a prenup agreement, be cool! Calmly ask, “Why do you believe we need one?” His explanation would be important – and give you both the opportunity to address any future concerns.

Style Me Pretty Contributor – Madeline Littrell is a corporate PR strategist and freelance writer. Born and raised in the South, she loves big hair, country music, and chicken fingers. Madeline lives in Dallas with her Sheltie puppy, Tennessee.

You’ll Wish You Were Invited to This Whimsical Wedding in Italy

This is one of the best wedding week itineraries ever – welcome dinner on Monday, horse race on Tuesday, pool and pizza party on Wednesday, wine tasting and a masquerade rehearsal dinner on Thursday, and wedding day on Saturday. An epic week like this could only be accomplished with the skills of the incredible team at Italyweddings, with florals by Le Petit Jardin. Check out the snaps by David Bastianoni, and you’ll be wishing you were invited to this fun-filled celebration!

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From the Bride… It was not entirely about getting married, being Bride and Groom, or wanting to be together forever. We had already committed ourselves to each other in all the ways that mattered to the two of us. We met in college when we were 18 years old — before we could understand how deep our paths were intertwined. When we graduated, we moved across the big pond to Japan and proceeded over the next five years to travel all over the world together. We lived an adventurous existence where it was just the two of us. It was when we were going to lose our last grandfather that we realized we needed to do something for our families.

None of this would have been possible without Martina and the Italyweddings team, including the ever-talented Marisa and Ben. From the very first email, we knew we were in the best hands. We wanted to change the traditional paradigm for weddings, and our ideas were embraced with enthusiasm. With five catered events over six days, Martina’s planning acumen was tested. She delivered everything with calm, grace, and perfection. Martina was one of our closest friends as we planned the extravagant Italian wedding, and it will always be to her that we are eternally grateful.

From ItalyweddingsMalory and AJ have always been close to their grandparents. When Malory’s grandfather was dying after years of battling cancer, they decided that the last worthwhile gift they could give him and their grandmothers would be to get engaged. They made it back to the US a week before he passed and for his last birthday. They got to show him the ring they chose together and let him know that they would be alright. To honor AJ’s grandfather, who was his hero as a kid, AJ married with his grandfather’s ring — a gorgeous, engraved signet ring.

For the love of their family, Malory and AJ got married. But they had lived abroad for so long that marrying Stateside didn’t fit. They had the choice between a 300 guest wedding in the US or 60 of their most treasured in Italy. It wasn’t really a difficult decision. For their wedding, Malory and AJ wanted a week full of family, friends, delicious food, fine drink, and unlimited excuses to live la dolce vita like you can only do in Italy. They worked with the our team to create a week of events culminating in a wedding, to celebrate love with family.

The week started with a welcome dinner on Monday, hosted by Malory’s parents at Borgo Stomennano. On Tuesday, the wedding party went to Siena to join the revelry of the Palio di Siena horse race. Wednesday was dedicated to pool and pizza, with the most talented pizzaiolo making fresh pizzas all evening. On Thursday, they toasted Bacchus with a wine tasting and spent the night feasting and dancing under the full moon for the masquerade-themed rehearsal dinner. With a week to celebrate with family and friends, all the stress of the wedding day melted away. In the shade of a beautiful olive grove below a grand Tuscan villa, the moment can only be remembered as perfect.

The ceremony was officiated by Malory and AJ’s brothers, one older and one younger, the flanks to their relationship. The Best Man read from Haruki Murakami’s “Wind Up Bird Chronicle”, chosen by the Groom. The Maid of Honor read from “Captain Corelli’s Mandolin”, chosen by the Bride. Malory and AJ wrote their own vows and the words to the wine ceremony that would bind them. With two magnum bottles, one red and one prosecco, they mixed old tradition with their own beliefs to create vows that they wrote together.

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Photography: David Bastianoni | Event Planning: italyweddings | Floral Design: Le Petit Jardin | Wedding Dress: Jennifer Gifford | Reception Venue: Borgo Stomennano | Bridesmaids' Dresses: J.Crew | Lighting: italyweddings | Groom's Attire: Brooks Brothers | Ceremony Music: Traditional Tuscan Trio | Bridal Shoes: Rocket Dogs

A Couple That Dances Together Stays Together

When I heard this couple met and fell for each other while tango dancing, I couldn’t wait to browse the gallery of their love-filled wedding day! Located in the backyard of the bride’s childhood home, this gorgeous garden wedding included elegant white details and a tented reception with pops of vibrant florals designed by Erin McLean Events. The intimate celebration ended the only way it should have, with a tango performance by the bride and groom of course! Browse the entire collection all captured by the talented Anagram Photo.


From Erin McLean Events… The Italian and Southern traditions may not have a lot in common but one thing is warm hospitality and a knack for romance. Elise, a native of Raleigh, North Carolina met Marco, a native of Milan, Italy met tango dancing. Yes,tango dancing, the most romantic dance in the world. Their relationship grew over the love for global adventure, family, and fantastic cuisine. When Marco asked Elise to be his wife, it was quickly decided that they would marry their heritages with the things they loved wrapped into a beautiful evening of celebration. They chose to celebrate their wedding day at Elise’s childhood home in the heart of Raleigh’s historic district, which had been in the family dating back over 65 years, in fact 2017 marked the home’s 100th anniversary, a date not lost on their family.

With this beautiful, quintessential home as the backdrop surrounded by friends and family from all over the world the 2 cultures came together in their appreciation for family, love, and amazing good. Dinner was served under a billowing white tent family style, with the hum of laughter and love floating through the April evening. The party, which was in the midst of Elise’s mother’s meticulously manicured garden, was designed to seamlessly flow with its surrounding. The tent was filled with greenery draped chandeliers and blooms dripping with colors of spring. The poppy was the catalyst for the bright color infusion, which can be found covering the fields of Marco’s home country but can also be found in a painting in the living room of the home Elise and her father before her grew up in.

Elise and Marco surprised their guests with a fantastic tango dance under the stars, complete with a custom made “bridal inspired” tango dress Elise donned. They even had a custom logo created inspired by photo of the two of them dancing tango. The evening was the perfect marriage of not only a much in love couple but also their two world intertwining much like one of their favorite tango moves.

Photography: Anagram Photo | Event Design: Erin McLean Events | Event Planning: Erin McLean Events | Floral Design: Artfully Arranged | Wedding Dress: Alexia's Bridal | Ceremony Venue: White Memorial Presbyterian Church | Catering: The Catering Company of Chapel Hill | Hair and Makeup: Makeupforyourday | Band: Klaxton Brown Band | Transportation: Eco-Style Transportation | Artwork: Lynn Tichenor | Gown Designer: Monique Lhuillier | Linens: Party Tables | Paper : Wiregrass Weddings | Private Home: Family's Private Home | Rentals: Party Reflections

Calling All Tassel Lovers! You Must See This Rooftop Wedding Inspo

Tassels have been popping up everywhere – from handbags to shoes – and if you’re like me, you’re probably completely obsessed with this trend. So when this modern Chicago inspiration session captured by Natalie Probst Photography came across my desk, I couldn’t wait to share it with you all! The Bride’s loose up do by Gia Tovar showcased her DIY black tassel earrings, which added just the right amount of oomph to the romantic, off-the-shoulder Samantha Sleeper gown. Get scrolling to check out all the tassels, which also make an appearance on the back of the reception chairs – the coolest detail maybe ever!

From Natalie Probst PhotographyWho says tassels are just a fashion accessory? Tassels are popping up everywhere, from earrings to hem lines, and there’s no sign of this trend slowing down soon. We’re excited to share some chic, modern wedding inspiration with you that includes this year’s hottest accessory.

The Ambassador Chicago is a favorite destination for couples who appreciate and know good design. From the rooftop views of the Ava terrace to its modern, crisp white suites, The Ambassador Chicago is the perfect place for a rooftop wedding, rehearsal dinner, or getting ready location. Envision your guests dining with the Chicago skyline as the backdrop, watching the colors change on the buildings as the sun goes down. And at night, imagine the twinkle of the city lights bringing a romantic glow to your evening. A first dance 17 floors up? Epic.

This Rory gown by Samantha Sleeper is the perfect example of relaxed elegance, with its off the shoulder draping and front button detailing. Paired with long black tassel earrings (a 60 second DIY project!) this look is perfect for the bold Bride with personal style to spare. As for him, we think a Groom can never go wrong in a white dinner jacket and black bow tie. A look that will never go out of style!

Elysia Root is a genius when it comes to desserts, and this 5-tier white wedding cake with geode rock detailing brought a modern twist to the traditional wedding cake. Magnificent Milestones provided the classic, monochromatic paper goods, and May Floral never disappoints, providing the gorgeous floral centerpiece and bridal bouquet. Last but not least, Gia Tovar and Joanna B Artistry brought our vision of a chic, relaxed Bride to life through hair and makeup. Thank you to this amazing vendor team!

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Photography: Natalie Probst Photography | Floral Design: May Floral | Wedding Dress: Samantha Sleeper | Cake: Elysia Root | Reception Venue: Ambassador Hotel | Makeup: Joanna B Artistry | Hair: Gia Tovar | Groom's Jacket: Men's Wearhouse | Paper Goods: Magnificent Milestones

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Glamorous Warehouse Wedding Overlooking the Dallas Skyline

For this classic Dallas wedding, an industrial warehouse was turned into a glamorous affair at the hands of Grit + Gold. Together with Oh Deery Floral they crafted a Fall celebration sparkling with chandeliers and layered in a palette of gorgeous jewel tones. See the full day captured beautifully by Charla Storey, plus even more right here.

From the Planner… With a moody jewel tone palette, lush blooms and stunning bride, this wedding has so many romantic vibes. Mercedes and Carter’s beautiful ceremony at the ornate St Thomas Aquinas Catholic church was followed by a city chic warehouse reception overlooking Dallas’ skyline. Tons of candles and twinkling chandeliers made the night shimmer. Beautiful bold colors to create a dramatic feel from blue tones in the cake, silver-grey lamour linens, and watercolor paper details.

photography: Charla Storey Photography | cakes: Dallas Affaires Cakes | calligraphy: Pretty Post Calligraphy | DJ: Astounding Sounds | Floral: Oh Deery Floral | Invites: Confetti Gray | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Planning + Design: Grit & Gold Event Co.

An Insanely Chic + Stylish Bali Wedding Film

Holy moly this wedding is amazing! There is no other way about it. It’s glamorous, chic, bursting with beauty and the couple saying “I do”? They could be celebrities with that kind of style. But enough with my chit chat; dive in and see it all for yourself with Axioo Bali’s beautiful film!

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From Robb of Axioo Bali…  A wedding is the height of all joyous occasions; and what better way than to celebrate it at the #1 wedding destination in the world – Bali? For Jared and Mia, it’s an intimate union of not only the couple themselves, but the joining together of the two families and friends involved in the ceremony and party. It’s a celebration filled with so much love, awesome speeches, Greek circle dance, tears of joy, and more. For one of the best Bali weddings we’ve ever seen, from this Perth couple, we wish that their happy marriage is even more beautiful and warm than the glorious wedding. Now let’s enjoy the reel and creative works from Axioo Bali, along with a snippet of words from the head of photography himself…

Jared and Mia is one of the most beautiful couples I’ve ever had the privilege to capture on camera. This gorgeous Perth’s power couple tied the knot in beautiful island of Bali. There are two things I especially loved and found exceptionally memorable about this simple yet elegant and intimate wedding. First, the speeches. Second, the Greek folk circle dance.

While the first one is something that I’ve seen and heard often, all these speeches blew me away. They were just so much genuine and heartfelt words sent this couple’s way – adding to the overall warm ambiance that everyone surely felt that evening. As for the Greek circle dance itself, that’s definitely quite rare! All the guests got up from their seats toward the dance floor, to stand arm in arm in the Greek circle dance. Opa!

At the reception, one of Mia’s uncle came up to me and asked me if I was any good at what I do. I smiled as I struggled to find the answer. But before I could say anything, he told me that I must be good because Mia, the perfectionist, hired me to document her wedding. I politely thanked him. In fact, I should have told him that the honor and pleasure was actually all mine to have been invited to capture such a beautiful wedding and witnessed the extraordinary love of Mia and Jared.

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Cinematography: Axioo Bali | Event Planning: Paper Diamonds | Cake: Butter Bali | Wedding Venue: The Ungasan Clifftop Resort

A Fall Wedding in Texas With Secret Garden Style

The beginning of September signals our official kick off to All.The.Fall.Things. Think cozy sweaters and pumpkin spice lattes plus the most stunning autumn weddings we can get our hands on. We scoured the Internet for the best of the best fall affairs and Kendall and Tyler’s big day perfectly fit the bill. They tied the knot at Clark Gardens in Texas with beautiful nods to the season all throughout the day. Birds of a Feather planned and styled, Charla Storey photographed, and it’s all waiting for here.

This is a gorgeous, secret garden fall wedding. The tones are deep and complementary to the season while keeping your favorite garden colors, and the venue. This venue has not had an event on this part of the property, so it was refreshing to use an area that fit the aesthetic desired. Live acoustic music and dinner al fresco made for a gorgeous fall Texas evening for Kendall and Tyler.

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Photography: Charla Storey Photography | Event Design: Birds Of A Feather Events | Event Planning: Birds Of A Feather Events | Styling: Birds Of A Feather Events | Floral Design: Max Owens Design | Cake: Sugar Bee Sweets | Catering: gils catering | Food: Babe's Chicken | Hair + Makeup: Meg B Makeup Artistry | Hair and Makeup: Meg B | Calligraphy: Harts And Quills | Venue: Clark Gardens | Film Lab: Goodman Film Lab | Furniture Rental: Taylor's Rental Equipment Co. | Lighting and DJ: Le Force Entertainment | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Paper Goods: Minted | Photo Booth: Flock Together Fotobooth | Ribbon: Silk and Willow | Table Top Rentals: Posh Couture Rentals

This Venue Looks Like It Was Made for the Bride

Can a venue be made for a Bride? We certainly think so after seeing Eliza Morrill Photography’s bridal portraits of this gorgeous gal, with her stunning red hair and porcelain skin shining against the backdrop of the gorgeously aged walls of Illges House. P. Hasting Design and B. Andreson Floral customized the space to the Bride’s vision, and the final look could not have fit the Bride more perfectly. See it all in the Vault!

From Eliza Morrill Photography… What happens when a NICU nurse falls in love with a captain in the Army? A sweet, dreamy wedding day that will have us drooling for years to come. Ivey and Michael met on Tinder, of all places, and immediately hit it off on their first date over Thai food and a trip to the shooting range (what else would we expect from a military man?!). There’s no doubt these two were made for each other, and the rest is history.

Ivey and her team of vendors did an exceptional job of seamlessly marrying tradition with whimsy, creating a unique twist on the classic southern wedding. That said, she didn’t want to overdo it in the planning process. “Prior to planning our wedding, I envisioned a relatively small, intimate gathering of family and friends,” Ivey told us. “I had been a Bridesmaid in ten weddings prior to my own, and I knew after experiencing the planning process with these friends, I wanted to be able to enjoy each moment of the planning and each day of our engagement.”

When asked about her vision and style for the day, Ivey remarked, “The style I was going for initially was farm-to-table. I knew from the beginning I wanted things to be simple yet elegant. It all seemed to come together when I met with my floral designer, Brooke Anderson. I began telling her my visions to include lots of greenery. She immediately caught on to the style and thought of the potted herbs as centerpieces. I chose my favorite colors for the overall color palette. I referred to them as dusty rose and dusty blue. After choosing our reception venue, the Illges House, I knew the color scheme would be perfect.”

The Illges House, indeed, offered the perfect color scheme – an antebellum home full of unique and modern decor, and exposed patina plaster served as an incredible backdrop for Ivey’s porcelain skin and red hair. Seeing her seated on the emerald velvet sofa reminded me of Boticelli’s Venus! Ivey and her Bridesmaids – her sister and her best friend – carried bouquets of peonies, ranunculus, and anemones with a long, blush ribbon trailing from Ivey’s hands. “The flowers were by far my favorite part of the decor. I told Brooke I wanted everything to be very loose and natural, and that is just what she provided. It was magical!,” Ivey said.

Ivey’s gown, by designer Tara Keely, was seemingly made for her, and the Bridesmaids’ blue tulle skirts and simple, white tops were the perfect amount of playful and elegant. Michael wore his traditional dress blues and showcased his many medals (some of which he earned while he and Ivey were dating!) and had one of the sweetest reactions to seeing his Bride that we’ve ever photographed. To say that he loves his wife would be the understatement of the century, and watching the subtle ways he doted on her throughout the day had us melting. The feeling was certainly mutual: “My favorite moment of the whole day was walking down the aisle to my husband. I chose to have my mom and my stepdad walk with me, and I was immediately overcome with emotions as the doors opened to the chapel. From seeing Michael’s face to seeing all of the friends and family who had come to celebrate with us, it was the most joyous moment. I could not have been more thankful in that moment for all of the incredible people we have in our lives.”

The two were married in the same chapel where Ivey’s parents tied the knot years before and were married by a dear family friend. They entered their reception through a traditional saber arch (and cut the cake with a saber, too!).

Rather than traditional centerpieces, Ivey opted for potted herbs that also doubled as gifts for her guests. Classic southern fare was served on vintage china while a keg of craft beer flowed nearby. Guests danced the night away to music played by close friends of the couple before exiting through a tunnel of glowsticks. As for Ivey’s advice to other Brides? “For anyone planning their wedding, I would say to remember to enjoy each moment. It is easy to get caught up in the little details, but those details don’t matter at the end of the day. Remember the reason for your wedding to begin with. At the end of the day, you get to be with the one you love, forever!”


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Photography: Eliza Morrill Photography | Coordination: P. Hasting Design | Floral Design: B Anderson Floral | Wedding Dress: JLM Couture | Cake: Tara Van Etten | Invitations: Wildfield Paper Co. | Ceremony Venue: St. Luke United Methodist Church | Reception Venue: Illges House | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Revelry | Catering: The Farmhouse Ellerslie | Hair + Makeup: Anne Robertson | Beverage Services: It's Your Day Catering | Bridal Boutique: J. Andrews Bridal | Reception Music: Cracker Jack Prize | Rentals: Outdoor Events

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5 Things Your House Guests Shouldn’t Have To Ask For

We’ve talked about how to style your guest bedroom before, but making sure your guests have everything they need, is just as important. From extra toothbrushes to a glass of water before they turn in, make sure you check off this list before your visitors arrive!

Extra Toiletries

We’ve all done it. Forgotten our toothbrush! It’s especially embarrassing when you’re a guest in a home versus a hotel. Uhh, do you have an extra toothbrush I can use? Don’t make your guests ask you that. Have a few extra toothbrushes and convenient toiletries like soap, tooth paste, mouthwash, q-tips, shampoo and conditioner, etc. in plain sight.

Fresh Towels

This is a no-brainer but absolutely something you should never forget to leave our for your house guests! Include wash cloths as well. I know people who don’t use them but I personally do every single day to wash my face. Have them there for your guests to use if they wish.

Extra Blankets + Pillows

Being away from home in and of itself can disturb a good night’s sleep. Make sure your guests have extra blankets and pillows so they don’t get chilly or stiff necks. For pillows, make sure to have a medium fill, nothing too soft or too fluffy, to accommodate all types of guests.

Hair Dryer

I always like to keep an extra hair dryer in our guest bath. An inexpensive travel-size one is a great and does the trick, so guests don’t have to pack theirs along! Let them know you’ve got one in advance so they don’t have to bring theirs if they’d don’t want to.

A Glass of Water

Don’t make your guests sneak to the kitchen in the middle of the night for a glass of water. Offer them one before bed, or have bottled water already stocked up on their nightstand. It’s the little details that they’ll so appreciate!

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Celebrating Seven Years With an Iconic View

With a sweet couple celebrating seven years of wedded bliss and a view of the iconic Brooklyn Bridge as a backdrop, Esther Sun captured what can best be described as pure magic. Each and every image captures the beauty of love, the beauty of Brooklyn and the celebration of seven wonderful years.

From the couple… Anniversaries, an opportunity to look back and fill up on gratitude for all the blessings through the years. 7 years after our wedding, we’ve passed many milestones – first jobs, first apartment, two lovely daughters, our first business, first pets, first mini van… We also picked up our fair share of battle wounds and scars, won many victories, had suffocating lows, blessed many, and received even more blessings and promises. Honestly, we have been in such a busy and chaotic season in our lives that I wondered if we would have the time or energy to take a night off and celebrate. But this year, not only did we have our first date night in ages, but we also took a day to get dressed up, get hair and makeup done, and have our photos taken for the first time in 7 years! Because marriage is worth celebrating. Because our wedding day was the last time I focused on the importance of preserving our memories of us as a couple. And because showing our girls how to honor, love and respect each other well is one of the best things we can do for them. I’m convinced the world needs more positive images not just of the wedding day, but also the many years of marriage. We need to celebrate the sacredness of marriage and cherish the day-in and day-out, sometimes non-glamorous, displays of forgiveness, perseverance, commitment, hope, selflessness, and love.

Photography: Esther Sun Photography | Hair & makeup: Dlala

Sweet Kisses + Pretty Petals Make This Australian Wedding a Winner

An hour and a half outside of Sydney there is the prettiest of properties, Wombat Hollow, where this uber romantic wedding took place. One look through We Are Origami’s pics and I have no doubt you’ll agree that it’s the place to be to say “I do”. Add in this beautiful blushing Bride, florals galore and enough sweet kisses to last a lifetime and this celebration is not to be missed!

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From We Are Origami… Emily and Robert got married on the beautiful property of Wombat Hollow. The venue is a 20 acre property located in the seclusion of the Australian bush, 1.5 hours from Sydney. Emily and Rob have been together for over five years. They met at a pub but knew right then and there that they were the ones for each other! Emily describes Rob as thoughtful, tall, impulsive, funny, witty, forgiving whilst Rob describes Emily as happy, caring, funny without meaning to be, gorgeous, kid-friendly, loved by everyone!

From the Groom… I knew that Em would be suspicious if I planned anything obvious, so I wanted to make sure I surprised her (with the proposal). We were at Bawley Point, on the south coast and we went down to the beach for a swim before breakfast. When we were in the water, there was no one else at all on the beach. I got down on one knee amongst the waves and asked Em to marry me. After a lot of tears from Em, a lot of near-drowning from me, Em eventually said yes, after checking several times that I was being serious.

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Photography: We Are Origami | Styling: The Wilds Sydney | Floral Design: The Wilds Sydney | Wedding Dress: Rachel Gilbert | Cake: Wendy Jo Baking | Stationery: Catarina De Sousa | Bride's Shoes: Kurt Geiger | Jewelry: Kate Spade | Rings: King Street Design | Bridesmaids' Dresses: ASOS | Catering: PB Catering | Hair Stylist: Joanne Gander - Gorgeous Hair Designs | Groomsmen's Attire: Brent Wilson | Celebrant: Louise McDonough | Wedding Venue: Wombat Hollow | Entertainment/Music: DJ Xcentrik | Groom's Shoes: R.M. Williams | Groom's Suit/Tux: Brent Wilson | Make Up Artist: Joanne Gander - Gorgeous Hair Designs

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A Modern Mexican Villa Plays Host to the Most Stunning Destination Affair

When you mix a stunning modern villa and the old world beauty of San Miguel de Allende, the result is bound to be gorgeous. From traditional to breathtaking, this wedding has a bit of everything (and that includes hot air balloon rides for the guests and a donkey!). With coordination and floral design by San Miguel Weddings, the prettiest stationery by Steracle Press and all wrapped up in beautiful photography by This Modern Romance, pore through this destination gem filled to the brim with the beauty of Mexico.

From the Photographer… Stephanie + Luis had a stunning destination wedding in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. They rented a modern Villa just outside of San Miguel de Allende and spent the week there with their close family. The ceremony was in the town church and the reception and welcome dinner was at the Villa. They treated close family and friends to a hot air balloon ride over the city the morning before. That evening, they celebrated a “callejoneada” and paraded around the city center with mariachis and paper mache characters.

Photography: This Modern Romance | Coordination: San Miguel Weddings | Styling: The White Dress by the shore | Floral Design: San Miguel Weddings | Wedding Dress: Theia | Cake : Pasteleria de liz | stationary : Steracle Press | Ceremony Venue: Templo De San Francisco, San Miguel De Allende | Reception Venue: Tierra Andentro | shoes: madgley mischka | ring : Christopher Duquet | Catering: San Miguel Weddings | Makeup : Jimena Tamayo | Bridal Boutique: The White Dress by the shore | custom mescal bottles guest's gifts: Autentico Alacran | groom tux: Hugo Boss | hot air balloon : Globo San Miguel | lace jacket/bolero: Modern Trousseau | veil : Modern Trousseau

5 Tips For a Picture Perfect Getting Ready Session With Your Besties

Take it from us – some of the fondest memories you’ll have of your Big Day are those hours spent pre-wedding, getting ready with your besties. So today we’re running down a list of five tips to make sure you and your crew are camera ready. Because, let’s be honest… remembering all of those fun-filled moments and having them captured in gorgeous images are two very different things.

PAMPER YOUR PARTY

Guys, we love that t-shirt + lounge pant combo just as much as the next person, but when it comes to your wedding day, you and your ladies most definitely need to toss aside that comfy getup and rock something a little extra special. We suggest gifting your bridal party with a beautiful bridal robe (check out the White Collection by Le Rose – we love it) and calling in the professionals for a little hair and makeup pampering. You’ll never look so good.

CREATE A GOOD PLAYLIST

BUST OUT THE BUBBLY… AND SNACKS!

There’s no better way to tell your besties just how much you love them (AND appreciate all of the help with cake tasting and dress fittings) than with a champagne toast. Plus, it makes for a great photo op. But don’t just stop at the bubbly. A hangry bridal party doesn’t make for amazing images, so make sure to put out snacks that will keep everyone happy. You’ll need it.

REMEMBER – PRESENTATION MATTERS

From choosing the right getting ready venue (hotel room, apartment, etc.) to making sure all of your accessories are camera ready, presentation really does matter. Which means opting for matching hangers (those aforementioned robes need a place to shine), monogrammed jewelry cases, vases full of flowers and even matching shoeboxes. Trust us, you’ll be happy your photog was able to capture all of the little details you put so much thought into throughout your planning process.

TAKE SOME TIME TO RELAX

When it comes down to it, the morning of your Big Day is really about you and the ones you love – your best friends. So take some much-needed time to really relax and just enjoy the girls who have been there with you through thick and thin. You’ll be so happy you took a break before all of the hustle and bustle of your celebration… and will forever cherish those snaps of you and your besties laughing and smiling in anticipation.

Want to guarantee a picture perfect getting ready session with your girls? Start with a robe or sleep wear from Le Rose. Their gorgeous collection will make your besties super happy AND the beautiful silks and laces will really pop in those photos. Find out how to win robes for your bridal party below.

What: Le Rose is giving away seven (7) Bridesmaid Robes and one (1) Bridal Robe + free shipping to one lucky bride-to-be. (Value $406)

How: Simply visit the White by Le Rose collection and leave a comment below telling us which one is your favorite. (Ex: I love the Mia Silk Robe!)

Who: One lucky winner, chosen completely at random, will be announced on September 29, 2017.

Official Rules: Click Here

Photography: Timothy Burgess from IMAGEPLAY | Robes : Le Rose

17 Genius Wedding Planning Secrets from Our Experts

You’re getting married! Yay! Get ready for a TON of unsolicited advice – from your mom, his mom, your bestie, your coworker, a random lady at the bridal shop – you get the idea. But who better to provide guidance than actual wedding planning experts!? Right? Well, we’ve tapped the pro’s for the best tips, tricks, hacks and know-hows that we could get our hands on and you can trust us when we tell you, this is the kind of advice that you actually want.

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Have a Dedicated Email Address for Planning. “Get a separate email address specifically for wedding related messages, so nothing will ever get lost in the fray of your work or personal email!” – Courtney Sorensen

Plan Your Toast Crew Wisely. “For the reception, designate a few key people to offer toasts so that toasting doesn’t turn into roasting.” – Eva Clark
Break in Those Wedding Shoes. “Don’t save your wedding shoes for your wedding day–wear them as much as possible (not too much to get scruffy) so they are so comfortable on your big day…. and if you can’t do that then bring a comfy pair for the reception.” – Amy Kimball
Bring an Extra Set of Your Paper Goods. “Remember to share an extra invitation and as well as extra ribbon, menus, programs, etc. with your photographer to ensure you get some great styled shots of your stationery pieces and details.” – Cherry Blossom Events
Cut Your Guest List. “Four words that no one wants to do, but will make your planning (and budget) easier: Cut your guest list.” – Julie Bunkley
Save for Unexpected Expenses. “Make sure to include 5-10% of the overall budget as a miscellaneous line item for unexpected expenses or when estimates come back higher than expected.” – Melissa Porter
Hydrate & Sleep. “Hydrate and get a good solid sleep the night before the big day.” – Julie Morgan
Do A First Look to Save Time. “If joining your guests at cocktail hour is important to you, consider doing a first look and family photos prior to the ceremony so that you get your photos largely out of the way !” – Bluebird Productions
Breathe. “I always remind by bride right as she is getting ready to walk down the aisle to remember to breathe to help her stay in the moment.” – LVL Weddings & Events
Give Your Wedding Planner, Photog and Videographer a VIP List. “Create a wedding party/important family member cheat sheet (with pictures, names, role) for your wedding planner, photographer, & videographer so that everyone knows who’s who (& who to capture in photos, video) for the big day!” – Blue Gardenia Events
Be Strict on Plus Ones. “Your wedding isn’t a first-date opportunity for your friends or family, so no plus ones unless someone is in a relationship that you already know about.” – David Pressman
Ask Where Your Guests are Staying. “For destination weddings, add a line on the RSVP card for accommodations so you can easily manage transportation and welcome bags.” – Becca Knuth
Go Potty Backwards. “To go to the bathroom more easily in your gown, sit on the toilet backwards. (Facing the wall)” – Krista Olynyk
Book A Venue that Matches Your Style. “Booking a reception venue that matches your overall wedding style goals will create a much more beautiful and aesthetically sound look instead of trying to change everything about the existing look of the venue (and save you money, too!).” – Valarie Falvey
Women’s Intuition is #Truth. “Always trust your gut- your first instinct is often what’s perfect for you!” – Elyse Jennings
Remember to Stay in the Moment. After all the months of planning, your wedding day will fly by – remember to pause, be in the moment, and enjoy every second, for it will prove to be your most cherished memory! – Christina Verger
Eat, Drink and Be Married! It is so easy to be pulled in different directions, spending time with all of your nearest and dearest, but at the end of the day, you want all of your memories to line up so you can share them for the rest of your lives. So make sure you eat, drink, dance and are married together, side-by-side, throughout all of the moments! Bob Gail Special Events


Event Planning: Amy Kimball Events | Event Planning: Asheville Event Co. | Event Planning: Blue Gardenia Events | Event Planning: Bob Gail Special Events | Event Planning: Cherry Blossom Events | Event Planning: Cristina Verger Event Planning & Production | Event Planning: David Pressman Events LLC | Event Planning: Elyse Jennings Weddings | Event Planning: Eva Clark Events | Event Planning: Kirkbrides Wedding Planning & Design | Event Planning: Invision Events | Event Planning: KJ And Co. | Event Planning: LVL Weddings & Events | Event Planning: A Savvy Event | Event Planning: Bluebird Productions | Hair and Makeup: Julie Morgan Hair + Makeup