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Wedding Dress Secrets from Hollywood’s Hottest Celebrity Stylist

Lupita Nyong’o. Michelle Dockery. Olivia Munn. Besides being gorgeous Hollywood stars, the one thing these women all have in common is being styled by the one and only Micaela Erlanger. She’s responsible for some of the most iconic red carpet looks of the past few years (when Lupita channeled Cinderella? All Micaela) and likens her experience picking out gowns for celebrities’ most important occasions to picking out a wedding gown for a every woman’s most important day. We caught up with the bubbly brunette at Pronovias‘ NYC Flagship to get her tips and tricks to look like a star on your big day!

You’ve styled some of our favorite red carpet moments — what do you look for in a gown and how do your clients know when you’ve found “the one?”

Well, there’s always that “Aha!” moment and I think it’s the same thing when you find your wedding dress, which is why I’m so thrilled to partner with Pronovias because for me the whole experience of picking out your gown for one of your most important red carpet moments is the same as picking out a gown for your most momentous occasion: your wedding. You generally try on a lot of different things. You probably try on a bunch of things you don’t like, too. You take those off. But when you find the one, you know — there’s a feeling. It’s that “Aha!” I can’t describe it more than just that.

Like you said, a wedding, like a red carpet,is a momentous occasion. Are there any things you need to keep in mind when dressing for a milestone like that?

Comfort! My goodness, you’re in this gown all night long. Same thing I tell my clients, you better be able to dance, sweat, cry, have fun. You’re in that dress and you have to love what you have on. You have to be comfortable and you have to be confident. If you’re not confident, it’s going to show. It’s going to show in pictures. It’s going to show in the way you walk. It’s going to show in the way you talk. You can’t have that nervousness in addition to everything else on the big day.

What are some of your favorite trends in bridal fashion right now?

I’m loving the various detachable elements. I think versatility is something the modern bride really looks for. I also have to comment that pockets are useful! And I love seeing these fuller silhouettes that give you that playfulness and certainly handy, that’s for sure. And I love that lace is having a comeback in a different way, the more sort of romantic feeling tiered bits that Pronovias has showcased, that real Spanish influence is so beautiful and so feminine.

Who are some of your favorite celebrity brides?

Amal Clooney and Kate Middleton. And, you’ve got to give credit to Angelina Jolie for going out there and doing something so personal and special to her because it’s your moment and why not do what you want? Also, Kate Moss — her dress was so ethereal and vintage-inspired and I love that.

What’s the best way to approach accessories?

I think once you’ve chosen your dress, that’s when accessories come in. It’s really about punctuating the look and it’s really about accenting with the right piece — that’s the frosting on the cake.

What are your thoughts on a veil?

I love it! I just love something in the hair, so you can be a veil girl, or you can not be, both are equally beautiful, but don’t be afraid to try a different accessory if a veil isn’t right for you — a headband or a little piece of net over the eye can be really subtly beautiful, even a little sexy if that’s the vibe you’re going for, but a cathedral length veil with a raw edge or something with a little bit of lace, more traditional, are all beautiful options. But, don’t overcomplicate your look. If you have a really beautiful open-back detail, I’d go for something that’s not going to compete with that. And if you’re going for something that’s all-over lace, perhaps you choose a simpler veil. It’s about the balance, the juxtaposition between your accessories and your gown.

When it comes to shoes, what should a bride look for?

This is a tip I give all of my clients on the carpet as well, you’re not going to see the shoe, so make sure that you’re comfortable, make sure that you can walk in your gown and at the very least, if you want to wear something special, have a backup pair. You want to dance, you want to have fun, you don’t want to worry about having your feet hurt.

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5 Reasons to Add this Colorful City to Your Travel Wish List

We talk about a ‘pop of color’ all the time in weddings, home and fashion. But travel? I don’t think we’ve ever featured a mini guide as hue-happy as this one. Captured by Studio Finch, Cartagena is just the destination you should look into if you’re craving a dose of color. Studio Finch is giving us a head start with these 5 must-do’s!

From Studio FinchCartagena, Colombia is one of the most amazing hidden gems I’ve ever seen! It’s an adorable walled city port town, filled with color and lush flowers everywhere. Caratagena is located on the northern coast of Colombia, filled with cobblestone streets and colorful stucco buildings from the 16th century. Everywhere you look, there is a pop of color, hat and fruit salesmen. Out of all of the amazing things to do and see in Cartagena, here is the list of recommendations I was able to narrow down.

Ceviche

It’s a must! Cartagena is an old pirate port town, and with that comes the most delicious raw seafood in citrus juices. You can get it at just about any restaurant, or ceviche truck. To go for authentic, go for the ceviche trucks!

Go for a stroll on the walls surrounding the walled city.

Parts of Cartagena’s walled city has portions of it which you can walk on. The best time of day to go for a stroll on the historic wall is just before sunset. You can have the amazing opportunity to watch the colors in the sky change as the sun goes down.

Watch the traditional perform at night at Plaza de Bolivar.

Another bonus, it’s free to watch! The plaza is filled with young couples dressed in traditional outfits. The dances have so much energy, and also tell a story.

Enjoy a beer on the wall at sunset.

At El Baluarte Tasca-bar, on the South Eastern part of the wall, you can enjoy a beer while listening to the live music in a wooden adirondack chair.

See the arches Torre del Reloj.

Not too far from El Baluarte Tasca-bar you can wander around the square and see the historic arches. The beautiful arched gate walks you into Plaza de la Aduana.

There are so many things to do, and so much color to take in that I highly recommend seeing this beautiful town for yourself. Fun touristy tip: check out the Russian themed bar! It’s on the NorthWest corner of the Plaza Fernández de Madrid.

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Calling All Foodies: Watch What Happens When a Chef Gets Married

Alessandra + Zach’s might be the sweetest couple, ever. For starters? They’ve known each other since they were 12! So, you can only imagine that their wedding day was filled with history, love, and of course delicious bites c/o the Groom’s profession. All in all it’s a day worth sharing and thanks to Jenny Smith & Co. we’ve got it all in The Vault!

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From the Bride… We didn’t really have any preconceived idea of what we wanted our wedding to look like. We’ve been together for so long and have known each other since we were 12 years old and as a result are incredibly lucky to have a close knit group of friends and family who love each other – and love to have a good time with good food! Having an epic, yet relaxed, party with incredible food with our closest friends + family was the only priority. We wanted to celebrate our love with the people who helped shape and support us as individuals and as a couple over the many years of our relationship. Our wedding was as much a celebration of our commitment to one another as it was a recognition of the love and support we’ve received from our family + friends throughout the years.

We reached out to our friends in the food world to help us craft the perfect day. Zach’s culinary mentor, first-boss and dear friend, Neal Fraiser, was at the helm at the kitchen that evening. He roasted a whole pig and grilled whole salmon, which we served family style at long tables. We had our incredible friend and renowned pastry chef, Sherry Yard, making our spectacular cake. She went above and beyond with a gorgeous tiered cake that was adorned in creamy blooms that stopped us in our tracks when we saw it lit up in the middle of the reception.

My favorite moment was the ceremony itself – and our vows. We were married by our best friend Joey. We all went to highschool together and have known each other for over 20 years at this point. It was such an intimate moment and it really felt like no one else was there at certain parts. We wrote our own vows and it was incredible to see how similar our vows ended up being despite having no idea what the other would say. We incorporated some jewish elements to our wedding as well. In our ‘traditional’ vows we added in a hebrew saying: I am my beloved’s and my beloved’s is mine. This is a phrase that is incorporated in many traditional jewish weddings, but it held a super special significance to Ali as her grandmother had the phrase in hebrew on a gold pendant growing up and it was a special phrase her grandparents would say to one another. Growing up she always admired their love, devotion and dedication to one another – it was a must to add in to the ceremony.

I loved my gown. It had a lace cap sleeves and an open back by Israeli designer Berta. The cake was by our dear, dear friend and pastry chef Sherry Yard. When Sherry Yard offers to make your wedding cake, you don’t ask any questions and let her do her thing. She asked for pictures of the venue, florals and my dress and she made this epically gorgeous carrot cake with cream cheese frosting. She also made chocolate ganache cake with caramel and peanut butter layers, it’s the same cake she had surprised Zach with on his 26th birthday. We are lucky to have such talented and generous friends who were excited to help us achieve our modern, relaxed-yet elegant-vision.

Go with the flow and be in the moment. It will be all too easy to get caught up in last minute floral fiascos or tardy bridesmaids. At the end of the day you are marrying your best friend and anything else is a bonus.

Photography: Jenny Smith & Co | Cinematography: Amanda Madeline Studios | Event Planning: Danae Grace Events | Floral Design: April Flowers | Wedding Dress: Berta | Cake: Helms Bakery District | Invitations: Black Ink | Catering: Neal Frasier | Makeup: Peggy Wright | Hair: Adam Campbell | DJ: Treble Town Productions | Officiant: Joey | Venue: Greengate Ranch & Vineyard | Beverage Services: Sidecar Cocktail SLO | Lighting + Draping: Islay Events | Linen Rentals: BBJ La Tavola | Photo Booth: Jenny Smith & Co | Rentals: Taylor Rentals | Rentals: Central Coast Tent Party | Rentals: Classic Party Rentals | Rentals: Botanica Specialty Rentals

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Get Him Excited to Register With These Poker Night Essentials

Let’s get real; your man may not be that into picking out flowers for centerpieces or fonts for invitations, but when it comes to weddings registries, this is where he can happily get involved. Add in essentials to have on hand for his future poker nights with the guys, and we bet he’ll be begging to take this item off the to-do list for you. Get ready for these manly must-haves to be filling your cabinets very soon…

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This Engagement Session will Fulfill Your Wanderlust

In case you needed a vacation (uhm, who doesn’t) then fear not because we’re fulfilling your wanderlust today. Join us as we take a special trip to paradise with Coco Tran behind the lens snapping up the majestic that is Maui. Oh and no need to pack your bags, we’ve got it all waiting for you in The Vault!


From Coco TranThere is nothing quite like visiting paradise and photographing love…this sweet couple are all the way from Louisiana and graciously invited me to join them in documenting their love. The key to the luminous photos was timing and location. It’s always fun to explore off the beaten path to discover majestic locations such as we did in the west side of Maui.

Photography: Coco Tran | Location: Hawaii

What does this Fashionista Bride Have in Common with Kate Middleton? Hint: Alexander McQueen

The fashion elite gathered in Capri this weekend to celebrate street style star Giovanna Battaglia‘s wedding to Swedish realtor Oscar Englebert. The Bride (who is a Contributing Fashion Editor at W Magazine and Senior Fashion Editor at Vogue Japan) set the stage for the stylish weekend at her rehearsal dinner at Piazza Umberto I, wearing a white Alaïa dress with a flirty and fun feathery skirt.

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From there, it only got better. And, as expected from one of fashion’s favorite darlings, the Bride stunned in a custom Alexander McQueen ballgown (just like our favorite Princess: Kate Middleton!) with an embellished corset and statement train at her lavish seaside ceremony.

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The Perfect Spring Engagement in the Park

What’s better than a springtime stroll through the park? How about a springtime stroll in the park with the one you love. Yeah, we’d say that’s way better. Oh, and add in the talent that is Amy Arrington Photography behind the lens to capture every sweet second and you’ve got yourself one dreamy day. See it all in The Vault!

From the Bride-to-be…Originally, we were both signed up for weight training, but both switched to racquetball days before classes were to start. Unbeknownst to us that it would be the best class change of our college career!I first noticed Zach because he had this smile (still does) that really did light up the room (or gym) and it was hard not to notice him with his head bandanas (to keep his luscious locks out of his face) that he would wear to class everyday. Before I knew his name, I would refer to him as “hot racquetball boy” when talking to my roommates about him.One time during class, the stars aligned, and we were paired up to play against each other. After I let Zach win, we started to talk and learned that we were both from the same town, and that Zach’s dad was my Vice Principal in high school. Zach and I had lived so close to each other growing up, but our paths had never crossed back home.

Fast forward to five years later when my work required me to go to Hawai’i. (somebody had to do it) Zach was able to make the long 4,500 mile trek with me. One day in Hawai’i, after work, and after Zach had explored the island on his scooter all day, we decided to walk from our hotel in Waikiki to a more secluded beach. After spending time in the ocean and relaxing at the beach, we decided to walk back towards the hotel to grab a bite to eat. I walked in front of Zach, and periodically he would tell me to turn around every few steps so that he could to snap a picture of the sunset behind me. The last time that I turned around, Zach was on his knee with the engagement ring, a ring that had once belonged to his grandmother. I squealed and cried with excitement! My fingers were slightly swollen from being at the beach, which made getting the ring on a little challenging, but Zach was able to do it. I was so excited that I didn’t even care if my finger was turning purple. I was engaged to the man of my dreams.

Photography: Amy Arrington Photography

Make Your Shiplap Dreams a Reality with these Designer Tips

I’ve professed my love for shiplap time and again and I know I’m not alone in this arena. It’s at the top of the trending list and we have the home tours to prove it. If your love runs deep but you have no idea where to start or how to do it cost effectively read up on Meredith of View from My Heels secrets to shiplap and then promptly bookmark this baby. Plus, see Meredith’s full home tour here!

Best spots

Does everywhere count? I like it in laundry rooms, mudrooms, and bathrooms where it can add a punch to a (typically) small space. Also love it in entries and I used it in mine because it feels less formal and well, traditional, than traditional wainscoting. I also love it lining the backs of built ins and nooks – it makes for a nice, clean look but doesn’t go country like beadboard sometimes can.

Spacing and Sizing

Spacing and size are the two big components. I chose 6″ boards and 1/16″ spacing (the size of a nickel). If the ceilings are tall I’d opt for wider boards like 8″ so it doesn’t feel too busy. Depending on the space you could also opt for 1/8″ spacing between boards – or wider – for a chunkier look which I think feels more casual.

Where to Save money

You can use real wood or mdf just depending on budget and application. We used wood in our home but if I was to do the laundry room, for example, I’d probably opt for mdf to keep costs down.

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Photography: Kate Renyi  | Designer: Meredith Rodday

#SMPWedding101 – Secrets Your Planner Wants You to Know

In the throes of wedding planning, it may seem like you’re fighting an uphill battle, that every vendor is out for more money, pushing their own agenda. But it’s not true! Step out of the madness and read these wise, kind words from Bluebird Productions, an event planning crew that’s here for YOU. We all need a breath of fresh air every once in awhile and these little reminders from the pros will do just the trick.

1. You’ll catch a lot more bees with honey than vinegar!

This saying rings true in every element of life. Be gracious towards your vendors. Appreciate the effort they are going through to make your day as perfect as possible. Yes, it is our job to fulfill your contract but going above and beyond is that much easier for vendors when they are treated with kindness and respect. You may even get a little extra centerpiece, an extra service, or even extra time onto your band or photography contract, if you do just this.

2. Give us a reason to be invested!

We love hearing about your plans (even the minute ones like why you’ve selected a detail or what is happening at your dress fitting). If we can personally connect on the details, we care even more about your wedding and will take the extra steps to give you an even better day.

3. Something will go wrong. It always does.

That is no secret. You may know about it. You may not. We’ll do everything we can to make sure that you don’t know about any hiccups that arise. But even so, remember that in all likelihood, only you and I will know what that wrong item is. We recommend that you do not share that something went missing, that the guest book is in a different location, etc with your guests. A relaxed and happy hostess means happy guests! A tense hostess means tense guests.

4. We like you! We really do.

We are here to make your day as perfect as possible and not sabotage your wedding for the fun of it. We do this job because we genuinely care. If you break down our fee, you’ll really start to realize this is a job about passion and care versus trying to take advantage of “weddings.”

5. This isn’t our first rodeo. Trust us!

Yes, we know you were your sister’s Maid of Honor and have been in a million weddings. Trust that we know what we’re doing and won’t select “ugly” or unsightly things for you. We won’t set you up for failure. We know and look at all details down to what type of fixture the audio visual company is using. We use our years of experience to make sure your day, and the guest experience, is as flawless as possible.

6. Weddings cost a lot of money!

No secret but here’s the secret: we don’t try to make extra money “just because” it’s a wedding. Flowers are expensive. Greenery is expensive too. Staffing is expensive as you want staff that actually provides a high level of service versus staff that does the bare minimum. Clients want the best on their big day and the selections they often make are more expensive than they would for a dinner party. I promise, we’re not trying to take advantage of the fact that weddings are a “big industry.”

7. Select vendors that inspire you. Then, let go!

Let the vendor do their job and make the magic happen for you. A band isn’t going to put on their best performance if they only play a playlist you give them. You’ve hired them to play amazing music and for their talent to read a crowd, engage the crowd and modify. Of course, direction is fine and by all means, tell them your preferences. Just please don’t micromanage – it doesn’t get you anywhere. Don’t hire a florist who specializes in loose organic arrangements and ask that they create tight rosettes for you. If you want a certain style of anything (band, stationer, floral designer, rentals), hire the best person or company you can afford and that is available in the style you would like. Just because a vendor is “amazing,” doesn’t mean they are amazing at everything. Select your vendors based on their specialty and don’t force them into something they are not.

8. We want you to be honest with us!

Chances are that we’ve already had “our big day.” You won’t offend us if you don’t like a shade of blue or pink we suggest in a design concept or a type of paper we suggest for your stationery. Unfortunately, we cannot read your mind if you don’t tell us. So, tell us you love something. Tell us you hate something. It may not be our personal taste but it is YOUR wedding, not ours. We promise we won’t like you any less because you like something different than we do.

9. Everyone is a little bit crazy!

There is no such thing as a normal family! We’ve seen it all and won’t judge you because families are, well, family! Abnormal is normal. Crazy mother-in-laws, crazy parents, crazy sisters…. honestly, it makes the process a bit more fun for us. Embrace the craziness!

10. We want to get to know you!

It’s not just about “select option A, B or C.” We are here to make your day as reflective as “YOU” as possible but we can’t do that without getting to know you. Please give us this opportunity. We’re not trying to replace your sister/best friend/mom, but we don’t want to bug you with revision after revision if we can’t get an understanding of “that’s not really me” because we haven’t really gotten to know you.

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ONGOING GIVEAWAYS + DISCOUNTS…  

Charming Charlie 
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We’re excited to share that Shine invitations is currently offering FREE SHIPPING on orders over $500 (US orders only) as well as a free sample kit featuring the invitation of your choice, color charts, paper samples, and an example Save the Date! Don’t miss out!

THIS WEEK’S DISCOUNTS…

For our California Brides… Discounts from The Ranch at Laguna Beach and Weddings by Susan Dunne, and giveaway from Magnolia Weddings!

For our Destination Brides… Discount from Hitch’d Weddings & Events

For our Southeast Brides… Don’t miss Lovely Charleston’s Grand Opening Party on June 17th!

For our Tri-state Brides… Discount from Femina Photo + Design and don’t miss the Lela Rose Trunk Show at Gabriella New York (June 23 – 26)!

Additionally, we have not one but TWO giveaways for our Tri-State Brides: The Duchess and OLLI STUDIO!

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See What You Missed on SMP This Week

While I love every single bit of wedding beauty that comes across my desk, I’d be lying if I didn’t admit to a little extra love for my floral and paper Pinterest pics, the ones I find myself losing hours worth of the day staring at. So it’s no surprise that this week I spent some solid time with our LBBers and their recent floral creations and stylish scripts. All these must-see moments that I’m talkin’ about below!

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Featured Members: Photography: Rebecca Yale Photography | Floral Design: The Bloom of Time | Photography: Jesse Leake | Invitations: A Day In May Design | Photography: Jasmine Lee Photography | Floral Design: Laura Miller Design | Wedding Dress: Jenny Yoo | Photography: Lara Lam | Calligraphy: Seniman Calligraphy | Photography: Marc Andreo Photography | Floral Design: Winston Flowers

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Going to a Summer Wedding? Here’s the Outfit Inspiration You Need

Pop the Champagne, it’s time to celebrate our favorite time of year: wedding season, of course! And with a calendar full of fabulous fêtes, the big question is what on earth are you going to wear?! Don’t worry, we have outfit inspiration for every dress code. Yes, all eyes will be on the bride, but in these gorgeous get-ups, don’t be surprised if you earn everyone’s admiration, too.

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Modern Elopement Inspiration, Bridal Jumpsuit Included.

If you’ve ever thought planning an elopement has to equal sacrificing on style, you better think again. Bespoke OnlyStacie Ford, and Sally Pinera are out to prove otherwise, and this inspiration shoot is the proof. Modern, chic, and stylish to the nines – all the heart eyes for that jumpsuit! – we’re pretty convinced a wedding for two is the way to go.

From Sally PineraFor this modern and chic elopement we wanted to create a solidified intimate moment between the two lovers. There are so many components to a wedding, so many designs, florals, formalities and to do lists that we wanted to remind not only ourselves, but all brides that this is about the love between themselves. With tender touches, quiet moments, and authentic emotions, we were able to create a beautiful stop on time. There is an elegant touch to simplicity, and we encourage brides to take on the styles and designs that speak true to who they are.

Photography: Sally Pinera | Stationery: Script Merchant Calligraphy | Bride’s Shoes: Nicholas Kirkwood| Makeup: Stacie Ford Weddings | Hair: Styles On B | Venue: At Home | Floral Design, Event Design + Styling: Bespoke Only | Jumpsuit: 3.1 Phillip Lim

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See How This Couple Incorporated Cherry Blossoms on Their Big Day

Christine and Oskar travelled to wine country (from Hong Kong!!) for their special day and the results? Absolute perfection. With sweeping views of the valley and an intimate ceremony complete with with cherry blossoms, their day was dreamed up by Jubilee Lau Events and it was everything. From the Giggle + Riot Funbooth, to the Bride’s stunning Monique Lhuillier gown, we’ve got all that and more from Kevin Chin Photography + Cinema in The Vault!

From Jubilee Lau EventsChristine and Oskar lived in Hong Kong, but envisioned a beautiful and intimate destination wedding in Napa Valley. They picked Auberge du Soleil as their wedding venue for its sweeping views of the valley and Michelin-star rated food. With 80 friends and family flying in from all over the world to join them in their celebration, our team was asked to make it a really special and memorable weekend for everyone.

Guests received hand-selected sparkling wine and local baked goods in wooden boxes upon their arrival to Napa Valley. On Friday evening, they were shuttled to a “secret location” for the Welcome Dinner, which was Ram’s Gate Winery in Sonoma. There, guests had a wonderful wine country experience with a winery tour, wine tasting, and a 3 course dinner with wine pairings. Due to El Nino this year, we had a superb rain plan in place that included a clear tent on Auberge’s terrace, but lucky for everyone, we were blessed with glorious skies and weather on the wedding day! Christine and her ladies spent a relaxed morning in the bridal suite on site while Jane Kim of The Glamourist took her time making sure everyone looked remarkable. It was very important to Christine and Oskar that they preserve the tradition of not seeing one another prior to the ceremony, which made the anticipation peak right before we sent Christine in her amazing Monique Lhuillier dress down the aisle that was lined with foliage, blooms, and succulents.

For the design of this wedding, we went with a clean, modern, organic glam look. We wanted it to be refined and polished with some hints of whimsy. Shades of blush pink and white, with neutral tones like warm greys and browns filled the event spaces. The ceremony was held on the terrace, with the panoramic valley view as the natural backdrop. We brought in Cherries to create tall, blooming cherry blossom trees for Christine and Oskar to exchange their vows under. Guests enjoyed the magnificent view through cocktail hour, before they were invited to take their seats inside the reception space, which was softly draped and filled with blossoming branches and candles. Gold foil menus that had each guest’s name in gold calligraphy rested on top of blush dupionique napkins. To honor Oskar’s Swedish background, there were funny and touching toasts all throughout dinner, as friends and family shared many wonderful memories of the couple.

After dinner, guests were invited to the Cedar Room, which we completely transformed into the most dreamy, ethereal dessert room as the wow factor of the evening! White and blush draping blossoms, with greenery and moss, draped from the circular ceiling of the room. A variety of beautiful wedding cakes by Sweet on Cake, desserts by Auberge, and petits fours by Dragonfly Cakes were displayed on real tree stumps, custom cement pedestals, and special furniture. As
the backdrop to Giggle and Riot’s photo booth, Cherries created a fresh floral wall filled with blush and white blossoms. Guests were in awe of the room transformation and indulged in the desserts while rocking the dance floor all night to the tunes of the live band Apple Z.

Photography: Kevin Chin | Cinematography: Kevin Chin | Event Design: Gloria Wong Design | Event Planning: Jubilee Lau Events | Floral Design: Cherries Flowers | Wedding Dress: Monique Lhuillier | Cake: Sweet on Cake | Makeup: The Glamourist | Venue: Auberge Du Soleil | Chair Rentals: Blueprint Studios | Dessert: Dragonfly Cakes | Linen Rentals: BBJ La Tavola | Photo Booth: Giggle and Riot | Specialty Rentals: One True Love Vintage Rentals

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Learn How To Get the Dewy, Fresh Faced Look Everyone is Talking About

Summer is a great time to play with your makeup routine and maybe give it a little kick in the booty. This dewy complected, bold lip combo is just the beauty booty kick you need. Keri Bette and Teal Minisofer of The Well Styled Life are showing the simple steps to get this fresh for Summer look. Check out the full tutorial shot by Genevieve Renee Photographie below!

This summer beauty look emphasizes a soft dewey skin, a peach sheen eye, soft cheek and a bold pink lip. With an emphasis on the dewey skin and bold lip, this look is perfect for a fresh, fun, feminine look. 

Start by prepping the skin with moisturizer to keep the skin hydrated. Apply primer to the skin, I like Smashbox Photo Finish Primer. Apply your favourite foundation, on Gia we used MAC Studio Finish. Make any corrections to the skin using concealer under the eyes, around the nose and on any blemishes that may be causing any redness to the skin. Finish with a translucent powder.

Apply highlighter to create a dewey, fresh face. I started by using the Anastasia Cream Contour Kit. After blending the cream from the apples of the cheeks across the cheekbone, use the remaining product on sponge and apply to bridge of nose. Then apply Benefit High Beam with a brush, blending in an upwards motion along cheekbones. Do not apply shimmering highlight to any areas other than the apples of the cheek and cheekbones, it will give you a feverish look, as opposed to a glow. If you desire to apply highlight to the nose, forehead, lips or chin, make sure it is a matte product.

Using your favorite brow product, whether it be powder, pencil or pomade, draw a line along the bottom of the eyebrow, following the natural curve of the brow. I used Anastasia Dip Brow with an angle brush for optimal control of my lines. On the top of the brow, create a line from just in front of the arch of the eyebrow to the end of the brow. With your desired product, fill in the brow between these two lines. With the remainder of product on your brush, or light strokes of your pencil, create small featherlike strokes at the very start of the brow, sweeping your tool in an upwards, delicate fashion.

Create a gorgeous cheekbone with contouring below your highlighted cheekbone. Using the Anastasia Contour Powder Palette, I swiped a light brown contour right below the cheekbone with a powder brush. Blend the contour lines up towards the hairline to create a soft finish.

Brush a slight shimmer across the eyelids in a soft peachy pink. Keep the color below the crease of the eyelid, but using a blender eyeshadow brush, stroke the eyelid along the crease to blend the color.

Using a brown eyeliner, create a thin line from the inside corner of the eye to the outside corner. If you have trouble creating a clean line, use a clean angle brush and draw a line over the existing pencil line. This will smooth out the pencil line and give a nice crisp look.

Choose your bright, spring lip color, I used MAC for my fresh, airy look. Using a lip brush, start applying color at the center of the lip and slowly work towards the corners. Complete with a neutral, pink lip liner to create a soft edge to the lip.

Complete the look with a swipe of mascara. For weddings, my favorite is Maybeline Waterproof Mascara in Black, you shed those happy tears without worry.

Photography: Genevieve Renee Photographie | Floral Romper: Adorn Boutique | Make Up Artist: Keri Bette | Model: Gia O | Styling & Direction: The Well Styled Life | The Bridal Boutique: The Bridal Boutique

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What I Wish I’d Known Before Planning My Wedding

With time comes wisdom, so is the story of life. And that lesson can certainly be applied to the adventures of wedding planning. So we wondered, what bits of wedding wisdom would our own Blogger Brides and SMP Editors have when asked to look back at their own special days? Read on and take notes so you can learn from these former real brides and their post-aisle insights!

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Do You Have One of These Design Statements in Your Home?

Designing a home is similar to building your fashion sense. You need to start with the staples first—the foundation of your style if you will—and then sprinkle in the pieces that make people walk into your home and stare (for all the right reasons). From patterned tile to round mirrors, these home statements get our stamp of approval.

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Do You Have One of These Design Statements in Your Home?
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This Paris Wedding Will Make You Believe in Love at First Sight

Your first time in Paris is something you’ll never forget, and for Annie and Robin, they’ll remember more than just the city’s magic — they’ll remember their wedding day. After all, what could be better than seeing the world’s most romantic city than seeing the world’s most romantic city on the most romantic day of your life. And thanks to Le Secret d’Audrey and MgImage, we can see it all too in The Vault!

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From Le Secret d’AudreyAnnie and Robin contacted me as soon as they got engaged as Annie dreamed of Paris for her wedding. She never visited Europe so it was a full adventure! We were lucky to have the sunniest day for us and after the ceremony I took the couple in my favorite locations in Paris for some timeless couple photos.

Her dress was stunning and Annie was the most elegant bride. With the beautiful architecture of the ShangriLa hotel we sneaked into the lobby before the ceremony and shot some Classic photo of her. She was all smile and excited to meet Robin to start a new Chapter of their life.

For months we were exchanging about her wedding, I gave her all my inputs about Paris, my recommendations and preferred vendors so it is always emotional even for me to see the day unfolding like you imagined.

From The Bride…We met at our previous job a little more than 6 years ago. We were working in different departments and by chance he had a project that required him to work in my area. We then realized we lived 20 minutes away from each other so we started carpooling to work together. We started off as friends for a while, then I noticed he started acting unusual and different around me. I just wanted to be friends at first but he was very persistent. He would do something sweet for me every single day. Even when I initially turned him down, he was persistent for almost a full year! He is super funny with an incredible sense of humor. He is very witty and super smart. We started sharing stories about our childhood/upbringing and we realized we had a lot in common. I soon realized that he is a sweet, caring, generous and loving person and I found myself falling for him too.

We decided to get married in Paris because we both think it is the most romantic city in the world. Everything about Paris is romantic! The language, the art, the architecture… breathtaking! So that’s why we chose Paris because we thought it would be a great place to get married and a wonderful back drop for photos. To be honest, when we were indecisive about the location, seeing Audrey’s photography really inspired me and helped us finalize the decision. 

My dress is designed by Hayley Paige and I loved the playful yet romantic soft layers created by the horsehair tulle on the dress.

My bouquet was inspired by multiple photos on Pinterest. I didn’t want cliche red roses. Since my wedding is during spring time, I wanted soft spring colors!

Photography: Le Secret d'Audrey | Cinematography: MG Image | Event Planning: DREAMS IN PARIS | Wedding Dress: Hayley Paige | Bride's Shoes: Jimmy Choo | Hair + Makeup: James Harold | Hotel: Shangri La | Film Processing: Carmencita Film Lab | Veil + Bolero: Renee Pawele

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This is the Classic Wedding of Every Bride’s Dreams

It’s not often you find a hotel ballroom with clean lines and modern décor, but Lauren and Sean transformed the space, mixing the hotel’s contemporary style with their love of nature through fresh blooms and vines to give it a vineyard feel. And to incorporate the Bride’s love of horses, lucky horseshoes from her beloved horse were scattered amongst the various floral displays. See all the pretty details (including the Bride’s beautiful hairdo from True Beauty Marks), captured by Emily Wren Photography and Squareware Studios, in The Vault!

From Emily Wren PhotographyLauren & Sean were married in Philadelphia on a beautiful September day in 2015. They tied the knot at Old Saint Joseph’s – one of the oldest churches in Philadelphia, located in the Old City section and filled with old world charm. We then strolled down the winding cobblestone streets and brick row homes of Headhouse Square for some portraits that captured some of Philadelphia’s historic character.

They kicked off the wedding reception at Hotel Monaco, with cocktail hour on the rooftop bar, and reception in the main ballroom to follow. Lauren & Sean are both outdoorsy people; Lauren dedicated to riding her horse and Sean to surfing. They brought this love of nature to their decor, mixing the hotel’s modern touches with fresh blooms and vines which recalled the feel of a classic vineyard. To top it off, lucky horseshoes from Lauren’s beloved horse were scattered amongst the various floral displays.

Photography: Emily Wren Photography | Cinematography: Squareware Studios | Event Planning: Confetti & Co | Floral Design: Love 'n Fresh Flowers | Invitations: Cheer Dry Goods | Stationery: Cheer Dry Goods | Make Up: Aleksandra Ambrozy Makeup and Hair Artistry | Hair: Gina Kay - bespoke beauty | Venue: Hotel Monaco Philadelphia | Paper: Cheer Dry Goods | Rentals: Maggpie Vintage Rentals

From Miami Nightclub to Montauk Summer Wedding Magic

With her simple, little request to rest her tired legs at a Miami club one night, this beautiful Bride found her forever love and the rest is history. And lucky us, we get to see it all come to fruition with this romantic Hamptons celebration captured by Heather Waraksa. Facetime Beauty helped our lady shine and Nine Cakes created a confection with pretty little petals almosttt too cute to eat. More in our Vault!

From Heather Waraksa… Danielle and Kyle met on April 24th, 2012. The Magic City brought these two together while Danielle was residing in Miami and Kyle was on his company’s annual retreat. On a Tuesday night, while waiting for her girlfriends at the club Wall at the W Hotel in South Beach, Danielle approached Kyle’s table, needing a place to sit because “her legs were tired”. What started as wanting a free drink, turned into something much more. That week, while Kyle skipped nearly all of his meetings, he and Danielle spent many special moments together at the Fontainebleau, Mansion Nightclub, and Monty’s Sunset. Although Danielle left Kyle early on his last night, their connection lasted as Kyle went back home to Manhattan. From their first days together in South Beach, to their summers in Montauk and essentially every other trip they have taken together, the beach has always been the choice getaway for Kyle and Danielle (especially Danielle!). The two also always agreed they should take a tropical trip together to celebrate their birthdays, which are only four days apart. When spring of 2014 proved to be an extremely busy time of year, they decided to push this birthday trip until Memorial Day and that Banyan Tree Mayakoba, Mexico was their destination. Given the choice in such a romantic resort and the fact this was the first Memorial Day since 2003 that Kyle had not spent in the Hamptons or Montauk, Danielle should have known this was going to be more than just a birthday celebration, but she didn’t…. Upon finally picking up the ring (that Kyle and his brother Tory had been designing for months) the day before they left for their trip, Kyle was a bundle of nerves. As they finished packing that morning, he continued to second guess where he was packing the ring as he obviously did not want Danielle to find it, but equally as important, the Mexican Customs Agents. After the longest four hour flight of Kyle’s life, they were now in the Customs line where their system involved an extremely complex process (note the sarcasm) where each person is to press a large button with an agent watching, and if the light turned red they would search your bags or green and you were good to go. Kyle still is not sure how Danielle did not see his shaking hand hitting that button, but she didn’t and thankfully the light turned green. Had it not, Kyle would likely have had to get down on one knee right there. After finally getting to the resort and checking in, the next obstacle was killing two hours until the beach proposal setup was ready, as an anxious, nervous Kyle tried not to show his cards while still keeping Danielle in the pretty dress she had on as she continually tried to change into more comfortable clothing. In order to get Danielle to go to the beach at an explicit time, Kyle had told her there was a bottle of champagne waiting there for them as the resort does this to welcome all their guests. This was a full proof plan if anyone knows how much Danielle likes her champagne. When finally arriving to this secluded, private section of the beach with a sheet awning, champagne and fruit, Danielle looked at Kyle as they walked down and said “Wow, I can’t believe they do this for everyone, this place is great!” Still completely clueless as they entered the awning, Danielle turned around from looking at the water and Kyle was down on one knee. After the initial shell shock and tears, she was finally able to pronounce the word, YES…. From the Bride… We wanted our wedding to be a big weekend event; from our Friday night party at Navy Beach, the ceremony, reception and after party at Solé East, to the Sunday mimosa-filled brunch, everyone was invited to everything. We wanted our guests to feel the love we not only have for each other, but for the beautiful town we spend a lot of our time in. Since it was an outdoor wedding, we wanted to encompass the natural beauty of our venue and warmth of early fall. We had the tent filled with lots of candles to play off of the natural tones of cream, light pink, and pops of champagne. Our good friend Matt, was one of the first people to know us as a couple. We knew from the minute we got engaged he was the perfect person to officiate the ceremony. And we were right. His words were personal, heartfelt, and absolutely beautiful. Our friends and family couldn’t stop raving what a gorgeous ceremony it was. My favorite moment is our first dance. We did a mashup of Zedd’s “Find You” with it’s acoustic version featuring Matthew Koma and Miriam Bryant. We took some lessons and rehearsed a beautiful, sexy slow dance, with dips, twirls and lifts. Then, around then 1:30 mark, the song transitioned to its dance version and everyone went nuts. It was so us. My gown and veil, by designer Hayley Paige, made me feel like a true princess. It was the first dress I tried on. Our favors were custom canvas tote bags packed with not only food and drinks, but some of our favorite things from Montauk including Sea and Sand glass candles and Whalebone magazines. My advice to brides-to-be: hire a videographer. We were unsure if we wanted one, and made the best decision to use one three weeks before the wedding. We could not be happier that we did, as watching our trailer brings us to tears with every viewing.

More Hamptons celebrations this way!

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Photography: Heather Waraksa | Cinematography: Orange Films | Event Planning: Lauren Daversa Events | Floral Design: Flower By Beth | Cake: Nine Cakes | Hair + Makeup: Face Time Beauty Concierge| Lighting: Matt Murphy Event Lighting | DJ: DJ Gizzmo | Band: Lost In Paris | Groom’s Attire:Rothman’s | Wedding Venue: Sole East Resort | Bride’s Shoes + Purse: Jimmy Choo | Cocktail Hour Band:David Higgins Band | Custom Stationery Design + Branding: Sean Dimmer | Desserts: Sweet D’Cor | Groom’s Shoes: Left Shoes Company | Maid of Honor Dress: Reformation | Photo Booth: Sweet Booths | Rehearsal Dinner: Navy Beach Restaurant | Rentals: Party Rentals Ltd | Wedding Dress + Veil: JLM Couture, Inc | Welcome Totes: Sean Dimmer

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Fit Everything You Need for a Girl’s Getaway in Your Weekender Bag

There are usually two camps. The Pack Lighters and the Pack Everythingers. Unfortunately for my husband, I fall in the latter group. But that’s all about to change. Ashley Brooke is schooling us in the art of packing smart and still managing to feel like you are rolling deep with your closet posse. Follow these 5 packing hacks and you’ll never have a suitcase just for your shoes again. Swear.

Packing is my least favorite thing. I most definitely would put mopping floors and washing dishes ahead of packing. It’s just the absolute worst. I, like most women, appreciate options… ALL the options, in fact. If I could, I would travel with everything I own. That way I won’t have anxiety about leaving something important behind, like a ball gown. I don’t pack light and it’s a horrifically bad habit. Seriously friends, I needed an intervention after I left for a weekend trip lugging three bags (we are talking rolling luggage… not tote bags), and one of them was filled with just my shoes. And yes, if you are wondering, I pretty much wore the same lululemon pants and tennis shoes the entire trip. So that was embarrassing.

After this last travel mishap I vowed to get my packing life together, considering that it was making everyone around me uncomfortable, especially the Bell Man. It did not seem possible at first, but I started outfit planning, creating packing lists, and learning a few other tricks. It may have taken an entire tear-filled day of packing before the first few trips, but now I’ve got it down to a science. Friends, if there is one life hack you can embrace this Summer, it’s learning to fit a long weekend’s worth of outfits in that weekender bag of yours! It’s time to dust it off, and pack like a professional so you can vacation like the bon vivant you are!

Here are my tips for packing efficiently while still bringing, what feels like, all the things!

Color coordinate!

Pack clothing items that can be mixed and matched. Interchangeable outfits save space and time (both before and during the trip). For example, these pretty pink shoes will go with pretty much everything I’ve packed for the weekend!

Two words, ZIP. POUCHES.

Okay, so I know these are our zip pouches, but I made them to solve my very real packing difficulties! Any zip pouch can work, but the point is to help you compartmentalize. I use pouches for keeping my jewelry and cosmetics organized. Plus the bags are easy to pack and slip right into the pocket of my weekender!

Wear the hat.

I love packing a good hat, especially if I am going somewhere sunny and tropical. But I’ve got to be real with you, packing a hat takes up a lot of space and it’s really stressful worrying about it keeping its shape…What if it gets crushed!? Etc. etc. If you can, just wear the hat to your final destination. Not only will people think you are adorable, but deep down inside you will know that you were able to pack those extra shoes!

Outfit planning!

If you know your trip agenda ahead of time, plan an ensemble for each day or special event. I try on each of my outfits (with accessories) before packing them. Then I know, when I wake up each morning, that everything has been vetted and there is no reason to second guess myself. Commit to the look!

Make room for the souvenirs you’ll surely bring back!

I always pack an extra tote bag inside my weekender, just in case I do a little shopping on my trip and need a place to put my new treasures. This has saved me countless times on the return trip home!

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Photography: Danielle Nichol Photography | Design and Styling: Ashley Brook DesignsAshley Brooke Designs Travel Pouches & ABD x HB Floral Dopp Kit | Loren Hope Necklace & Earrings & Earrings | Persifor Palm Leaf Dress & Embroidered Clutch | Illesteva Sunnies | M.Gemi Pink pumps | J.Crew Polka Dot Bikini, Floral BikiniHat | Old Navy Gingham Top | Ann Taylor Loft White Jeans | J.McLaughlin Pink Dress & Picnic Basket Bag & Duffle | Herbivorie Sea Mist | Charming Charlie Green Scalloped Tote | “The Nest” | Society Social Turkish Towel | Bare Republic Sunscreen | Lindsay Phillips Sandals | Jack Rodgers Wedges | L’Oreal Paris Matte Lipstick | Elizabeth Arden Lipstick & Mascara | Real Techniques Make-up Brushes | Wearing – Gap Striped Swing Dress, Larson Jennings Watch, & Loren Hope Earrings

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