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Wedding Colors: Ivory, Dusty Blue, Dusty Rose, Golden, and Light Yellow with pops of Coral and Pink
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After looking at quite a few venues, we found Nestldown and instantly knew it was the one. It’s tucked away in the redwoods and already so naturally beautiful that it really shaped the whole vibe for the day. We leaned into that peaceful, magical setting but didn’t want things to feel too serious, so we added plenty of fun touches, like bright, colorful flowers, great music, and baskets of colorful slides so guests could ditch their fancy shoes at the reception. Since we’re both big 80s fans (especially 80s rom-coms), we wanted to create our own “movie moment” in the redwoods… and with the help of our vendors, family, and friends, we feel like we got it! We filled the day with little nods to the things we love. We have a dog, Benny, so we made sure he featured since he couldn’t attend in person. The bar at our welcome party was called “Benny’s Bar,” and there was even a tiny clay Benny sitting on our dessert table. I don’t think anything in weddings is truly unique anymore, but we had fun taking some of our favorite ideas we’ve seen at other weddings and making them our own. Joe was very passionate about creating a “recharge station,” complete with coffee, tea, and portable phone chargers for guests. I’m from Louisiana, where we party hard, so I’m used to seeing flip-flops handed out at weddings, but we decided to upgrade the idea and bought colorful slides for everyone. They were a huge hit. You never know what guests will latch onto, but the slides were fought over (by the ladies and a few men), and I still get compliments on them to this day.
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[field title=”Proposal Story”]Like many millennial couples, we met on a dating app. We had our first date at The Fly Trap in San Francisco, and pretty much never looked back. I’m a pretty nostalgic person, so when Joe proposed, he made it extra special by taking me on a little walk down memory lane. We started with brunch back at The Fly Trap, then made a few stops at places from our early dates before heading over the Golden Gate Bridge, where he got down on one knee. I was already so happy with the day, but then we turned a corner to find a party bus full of our closest friends ready to celebrate with us. When we finally made it home, our apartment was completely decorated as well. It was surprise after surprise, and so perfect!
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Shop: And Something Blue Designer: Helen Miller Dress Style: Brittany Shoes: Amazon – mysoft Women’s Pumps Low Chunky Block Heels Pointed Toe Ankle Strap Across Instep Strap Party Wedding Dress Shoes Second Dress Store: V Chapman Studio The Lorenza Dress in White Windsor Brocade Shoes: Golden Goose, and my sister got them at the Golden Goose store at Canal Place in New Orleans, where they custom-painted them! They were a gift from her.
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[field title=”Bridesmaid Dresses”]Show Me Your Mumu – Nina Maxi Dress
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For our signature drink, we went with a piña colada, something we discovered early on that we both loved and weren’t ashamed to admit. Since I’m from near New Orleans and Joe is from near San Francisco, both cities famous for their cable cars, we named it the “Cable Car Colada”.
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Style: Romantic, whimsical, ethereal, and vibrant. Flowers: Roses, Ranunculus, Lisianthus, Dahlias, Sweet Pea, Delphinium,m and other seasonal flowers and foliage.ge The bridal bouquet will be a lush, natural-looking bouquet featuring dahlias, roses, ranunculus, delphinium, lisianthus, and other seasonal flowers. It will be a mix of Ivory, Dusty Blue, golden, and Light Yellow flowers with some pops of coral and pink. We will have a variety of textural elements and small touches of greenery.
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We also ditched the traditional cake and instead had an ice cream cart and macaron towers, which were both a huge hit. Part of our thinking was to skip traditions that would pull us away from our guests, so instead of pausing the party for formalities (like cake cutting), we got to spend more time actually enjoying the day with the people we love.
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We’re total music lovers, so our song choices leaned into the fun (and maybe a little cheesy) side of things. Joe walked down the aisle to an instrumental version of “All Star” by Smash Mouth – his self-declared “party starter” – to officially kick things off. We entered our cocktail hour on a train while “Love Train” played, and our first dance leaned into the 80s rom-com vibes with “Nothing’s Gonna Stop Us Now.” Last but not least, we couldn’t resist ending the night by passing out espresso martinis to the tune of Sabrina Carpenter’s “Espresso.” It all felt playful, personal, and the right balance of romantic and fun. At the very end of the night, during our last song, everyone naturally formed a circle around us, swaying and singing “Closing Time” as we slow danced in the center beneath the chandelier. It organically became the rom-com ending we’d been hoping for – the classic scene where the whole cast comes together, the music swells, and there’s that warm, glowing feeling in the air. We can’t thank our vendors, our friends, and especially our families enough for helping us bring to life a day that felt just like a classic 80s movie you can’t help but rewatch, the kind that makes you want to hit rewind and experience it all over again.
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One of our favorite décor elements was a custom-illustrated map of Nestldown we made with our planner. It looked like something you’d get at Disneyland or another theme park, showing all the different areas and activities. Nestldown has so much to see, and the map gave our guests the confidence to explore it all. Joe was especially proud of that one as it was his idea. And maybe the most un-trendy thing we did was not asking guests to put their phones away during the ceremony. Of course, we asked them to silence them, but we didn’t stress about banning photos. I actually ended up loving the candid moments people captured, zero regrets about skipping that trend. We also ditched the traditional cake and instead had ice cream cart and macaron towers, which were both a huge hit. Part of our thinking was to skip traditions that would pull us away from our guests, so instead of pausing the party for formalities (like cake cutting), we got to spend more time actually enjoying the day with the people we love.
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Our families mean the world to us, so we found ways to incorporate them throughout the day. While not all were formal traditions, they were incredibly meaningful. Joe’s brother officiated the ceremony, which was extra special since he had also officiated his sister’s wedding. Joe also used his great-great-grandfather’s ring to make his wedding band, a beautiful nod to family history made even more meaningful since he’s named after him. In addition, one of my favorite parts of the day was actually doing a first look with our whole family and bridal party once we had done our first look together. It turned out to be such a cute, joyful, and special moment that set the tone for the rest of the day. Finally, for me, the cultural influence came from growing up in New Orleans. Naturally, Mardi Gras beads made an appearance, along with other party elements like custom “Laissez les bons temps rouler” napkins (“let the good times roll!”). And roll they did!
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[field title=”Special Detail #3″]If I had to give advice, I’d say: try not to sweat the small stuff. Hire an amazing team whose work you love and who you trust completely to deliver your vision. We had incredible vendors, our fabulous photographer who captured the day so naturally, our amazing wedding planner who brought every detail to life, plus our caterers, DJ, videographer, florist, and more. Because of them, we didn’t have to worry about a single thing and could just live in the moment and enjoy every second.
I’d also suggest that you align early on what your vision is and what’s most important to you as a couple. We set a few guiding principles for our wedding, and went back to them many times when making decisions. It helped us prioritize, cut through the noise, and make sure the day truly reflected us.
It’s hard to pick a single favorite moment from the wedding. One that stands out was the walk to dinner, just looking around and seeing our guests spread out all over Nestldown, everywhere I looked, our favorite people were there for us, laughing, talking, and having a great time. Our first dance was another highlight. We ditched the traditional slow dance, decided to wing it, and just goofed off and had fun together. Joe said his favorite moment was sealing the deal and making me his forever person, and I have to agree. Exchanging our personal vows and getting married under the towering redwood trees in front of all of our favorite people is a pretty hard moment to beat.
At the very end of the night, during our last song, everyone naturally formed a circle around us, swaying and singing “Closing Time” as we slow danced in the center beneath the chandelier. It organically became the rom-com ending we’d been hoping for – the classic scene where the whole cast comes together, the music swells, and there’s that warm, glowing feeling in the air. We can’t thank our vendors, our friends, and especially our families enough for helping us bring to life a day that felt just like a classic 80s movie you can’t help but rewatch, the kind that makes you want to hit rewind and experience it all over again.
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Photography: Zha Zha Photography | Cinematography: Inspired By Studio | Design: The Simple Luxe Builds | Event Planning: Belle Events & Co | Floral Design: Green Petal Design | Wedding Dress: And Something Blue | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Mac Duggal | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Show Me Your Mumu | Catering: Macarons by Agatha | Catering: Continental Catering | Hair: Yanas Beauty | DJ: Big Fun DJ | Transportation: Corinthian Transportation | Beauty: Beauty by Xiomara | Content Creator: The Secret Guest | Content Creator: The Secret Guest | Desserts: Macarons by Agatha | Desserts: Sugar Mama | Escort Display: The Simple Luxe Builds | Location: Nestldown | Photo Booth: Pixel Photo Booth | Photobooth: Pixel Photo Booth | Rentals: Danny Thomas Party Rentals | Rentals: Danny Thomas Party Rentals


















































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































