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Ivory & white as primary, coastal neutrals as secondary colors. I really didn’t want it to feel overly colored at all. A very niche example to give, but I remember continuing to reference the inside of an oyster shell and how it can be “barely blush,” obviously pearly, sometimes a teeny bit blue/gray, etc. Sand color, the neutrals of the iconic dunes on 30A… all of those natural touches played a role in my background colors. But ivory and white stole the show!
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[field title=”Design / Vibe / Vision”]
Oh goodness – I dreamt of this day far longer than I care to admit, so to say I had a vision is an understatement! The biggest direction I continued to give was that I wanted it to feel like a gorgeous, comfortable dinner party in the park, versus a wedding. Refined, unforced, and personal. We rode our bikes along Forest Street at the back of Seaside and through Ruskin Park. Growing up, I named my first dog Ruskin; it held so much meaning. I grew up in a family that loves to host and entertain, and regularly set the table for a weeknight dinner. There were always “extra” details, even for simple occasions. I wanted our guests to feel that same vibe – familial, welcomed, an undertone of exceptional hospitality through meaningful details and great service, all the while not feeling too formal or stuffy. Elegant, but comfortable. The other side of the coin was that I really valued traditional elements. I didn’t want a first look; I envisioned a jazzy set list playing alongside a dim-lit seated dinner. I opted away from anything too trendy, while never compromising on customization and personal touches.
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My mom invited my sister and me for a girls’ day of blowouts, lunch, and shopping since it was “Partners Card” week in Dallas (a big shopping week!). We started at Drybar, had lunch and bubbles at Sadelle’s, walked over to Market for a new dress, popped over to my favorite salon for a fresh manicure, and finished the afternoon with a margarita. By the end of our date, I was pretty sure something was up, which made our girl time together all the more special. My mom and sister dropped me off at Colin’s and my house – he had music playing, flowers placed, and candles lit, and he was waiting for me in the backyard with my golden retriever Ruskin, who he had dressed in a bow tie that said: “say yes!”. He got down on one knee almost immediately, and it was official! We spent the evening just the two of us with a date at my favorite Dallas restaurant, The Charles, then we scooted over to my mom’s house to toast with family and friends. The next day, he had organized an afternoon of sips and snacks at our go-to spot, Lovers Seafood, next to our house. It was the perfect prelude to how we wanted our wedding weekend to feel with family and friends – warm, casual, meaningful, special, and full of personal details.
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[section title=”The Fashion”]
[field title=”Wedding Gown”]
My gown was the second dress I tried on, and the first that I loved. I found it at the Anne Barge Atelier in Atlanta while visiting for work with my mom – it was beyond perfect. Our experience at their salon was impeccable. I didn’t think I would go strapless, but I always knew I wanted a fuller skirt. Nothing sleek or fitted, much more classic. I fell in love with the floral hand beading on the Serena dress and ordered it at the start of the new year after I’d shopped around Dallas and just couldn’t beat it! The floral beading became a thread through many other details – porcelain flowers my mom and I found antiquing in Round Top that we placed on a tier of the cake, and then also handmade paper flowers we affixed to every single invitation. I shopped around bridal boutiques for a veil, but couldn’t find anything quite like the one I took a gamble on from Etsy. Paid off! I wore a ring gifted from my grandmother, earrings from Jennifer Behr, and floral hair accessories I found on Etsy, as well. My last favorite dressing detail was the sash tied around my bouquet – it was a piece we cut from the wedding dress that my mom, aunt, and grandmother all wore, and we embroidered all our wedding dates on the tail. We embroidered blue flowers between the dates for my “something blue.” My shoes were tried and true Loeffler Randall – a low block heel with an ivory leather bow, before I changed into my custom Miron Crosby cowboy boots. I knew I’d need something comfier for all our Greek dancing! And finally, my second dress was something I really didn’t want to spend too much on. So I found a simple satin-twill mini dress with a bit of a bubble silhouette, then sourced a fabric with big, beaded pearl florals. My seamstress appliqued them on the dress to give it some oomph, and it ended up feeling like a continuation of my wedding gown.
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[field title=”Bridesmaid Dresses”]
My bridesmaids wore the Reformation Kairo dress – an ivory midi with organza bow sleeves. Soft, classic, elegant, with a teeny bit of whimsy for a coastal environment. My maids of honor wore a Coco Shop dress I had seen on Over The Moon, but when we finally went to purchase it, the silhouette was sold out. I reached out, and they actually offered to custom make three more for my maids of honor – they were perfect! Ivory with a sand, green, and blue floral pattern. A perfect way to gently incorporate my secondary colors, and connected visually to a watercolor pattern my mom painted for other custom linens. All bridesmaids carried simple, mixed ivory bouquets, and my maids of honor matched mine that had a touch of barely blush blooms. I like that everything felt ever so slightly mixed, but natural and blended.
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[field title=”Groomsman Attire”]
Colin’s groomsmen wore classic notch lapel black tuxedos and were gifted monogrammed pocket squares to wear on the wedding day. Colin went with a peak lapel to be a bit more formal, then changed into a white dinner jacket for dinner and dancing. He’s as much, if not more, of a traditionalist as I am!
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[field title=”Food & Drink”]
As mentioned, my family loves to host and entertain, and that includes cooking. My mom’s side is Greek – a lively household comes with the territory. I grew up with many family members in the restaurant and catering world, so food and service were highly important to my mom and me while planning. We were so lucky to work with Donna Townsend of Townsend Catering – we knew she shared our love of a well-designed menu and valued attention to detail from the minute we met! I was hell-bent on having a seated dinner with a few too many guests, and she did everything possible to make it work and feel comfortable. I really loved that we had distinct spaces for each part of the event; it let guests feel the environment a little more than just one big space for everything. For cocktail hour in DiBicci Park, Townsend prepared an Elderflower Spritz – honoring our new last name, Elder – and passed hors d’oeuvres: dill marinated shrimp, watermelon cups with gorgonzola and fresh mint, deviled eggs with candied bacon, and mini chicken tacos to bring a little Texas to Florida. Our band second-lined guests from DiBicci Park to Ruskin Park to transition to our dinner, and next was probably my favorite food detail: each place setting had a petite domed amuse bouche bite of whipped feta on pita with pistachio and honey. We used the dome to place a paper butterfly place card on top, but I really loved the Greek bite inclusion. Finally, our dinner menu was so divine. I remember us asking Donna several times to ensure that a hot meal would, indeed, be served hot since she had to construct an outdoor kitchen – and she more than delivered! We served a dual entrée of filet mignon and grouper with schug sauce, a potato-gruyere galette, and a vegetable bundle. I loved getting to serve a local fish, and our guests still talk about it as the best “wedding food” they’ve ever had. For a late-night snack, we passed french fries served out of Burger House cups, which is my family’s restaurant in Dallas, famous for its burger and fry seasoning. All our Dallas crew loved it!
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[field title=”Florals & Decor”]
I wanted the floral palette to stay very creamy, ivory, and white, with a touch of barely blush for my bouquet, my maids of honor, and the mommas. My bridesmaids carried simple mixed ivory bouquets, and everything was intended to feel natural in assembly. Not too tight, not too wild. I like that everything felt ever so slightly mixed, but blended. The reception florals were similar, with lots of ivory and creams prioritized. I had two favorite floral placements, both at the entrance of our park spaces. One was using my French opaline glass collection as bud vases on our guest book table, and the other was the rose climbing up the tree by the cake table at the entrance to Ruskin. We kept the cocktail hour simple in terms of what we brought in – again, I wanted the actual spaces to shine versus feeling like we overdressed the park. We had a gorgeous taupe lattice bar, cocktail tables, and a gallery frame wall featuring guest seating assignments and all the custom artwork my mom painted for the wedding. I also popped in a framed postcard from Fredericksburg, Texas, where our first date was. Seeing Ruskin Place all dressed up for the first time made me cry – as expected! My mom and I labored over every single element of those tablescape settings for months. I just absolutely loved seeing everything in my head turn to reality. We sourced chargers, flatware, linens, and glassware, all from different places. We were so adamant about finding the right pieces, constantly seeking options. The natural, elevated dinner party vibe was the litmus test for every decision – we chose string lighting and table lamps for a dim setting and to let the tree canopy be a focal point. We chose a classic birch and white checkerboard dance floor, paired next to a round bar featuring my mom’s watercolor cane pattern and anchoring the full space so effectively. The park had a built-in stage, allowing the party to feel like we just popped up versus being forced in. We mixed all sorts of table shapes and sizes paired with varied dining chairs and banquettes for the seated dinner, and selected table linens in ivory and champagne tones with my mom’s elderflower botanical paper table runners layered in the center of the space.
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My childhood best friend and bridesmaid baked both the bride and groom cakes onsite — coconut and banana for me, chocolate for Colin — cut with my grandparents’ wedding knife. Sam and I have been friends since middle school, and we’ve been kindred creative spirits the whole time. We’ve crafted it all – scrapbooked, sewn, baked, painted, you name it. She’s my first phone call every morning, and we usually start the day with creative problem-solving for one of us, especially when I was running Madeleine Creative full-time! It was never a question whether or not she’d make our cakes. I was so grateful she was willing to pack a bag of all her materials and bake out of a mutual friend’s beach house. I wanted the bride’s cake to be pretty classic, and once my mom and I found the porcelain flowers antiquing in Round Top, they made for the perfect personal touch and red thread across many details. I decided at the last minute to surprise Colin with a baseball cake since he loves the Cubs.
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[field title=”Readings, Ceremony Music, Reception Songs”]
Colin and I really enjoyed planning our ceremony – it was an unexpected joy on my end, because the Greek Orthodox ceremony is so traditional, so I had never really thought about what a ceremony of our own design might look like. We asked my sister to read the Prayer of Saint Francis, a prayer she and I grew up reading at Camp Mystic. I also included a sweet thought from Camp Mystic printed on the first page of our wedding program that holds so many memories and meaning to me. Colin and I also selected Colossians 3:12-17 for my cousin to read in the ceremony. I walked down the aisle to Your Song by Elton John – he’s my absolute favorite of all time, I’ve seen him play all over the world! We exited the Chapel to Signed, Sealed, Delivered by Stevie Wonder, and it was so fun to hear played by the strings. Our first dance was I Just Called To Say I Love You also by Stevie Wonder – we had a very hard time choosing something that matched both our styles, and ended up choosing this song because that’s what Colin does so frequently to calm me down and start my day on the right foot. We both thought it was sweet to find a whole song about that cute habit :)
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The invitation was probably the most anticipated project of the entire wedding process, given the nature of my mom’s business. She began her company 35 years ago by hand-painting and hand-cutting completely bespoke invitations – so everyone just knew all of our paper would be over the top! The save the date was a nod back to the type of invitations she began with – die cut pieces tucked into a pocket that guests pulled out to get all the information. And then the actual wedding invitation, we labored over from beginning to end. I joked that I probably made for the worst type of client, because I truly knew all the options and had such a vision in my head that I wanted to bring to life. My very first business was calligraphy services, so it was a full circle and very special to actually be inking my own wedding invitation verbiage and addresses. I wrote all the text that was engraved in a blush-sand color on a die-cut card with barely blue beveled edges and pearl foil floral embossing on the edges. All the cards – weekend itinerary, die-cut flower with reception details, and an “extra” card featuring a watercolor botanical print of an elderflower – were tied together with a dupioni silk ribbon bow and gently tucked into a custom-made box envelope, sealed with a flower petal wax seal. The biggest showstopper, though, was the handmade paper flowers affixed to the invitation card. I had seen 3D paper flowers on an invitation, probably 10+ years ago, and wanted to include them in my invitation suite so badly! I reached out to a few paper artists and just couldn’t find a quote that worked for us, and somehow, someway, one of my mom’s dear friends learned how to make them and hand-made over 600 little flowers. A true labor of love, I’m forever indebted!
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Probably working alongside my mom to create completely custom artwork and “extras” from her paintbrush! Getting to finally be her client and putting our creative brains together for my wedding, after working together in so many ways for so long. We created a visual language anchored in an elderflower motif — a nod to our new last name. The watercolor botanicals appeared on block-printed bench cushions, embroidered napkins, and a custom linen for the cake table. We used the existing park benches and coffee tables as our lounge seating and had custom fabric printed with my mom’s watercolor artwork and made into custom cushions to zhush up the in-place furniture as lounge seating spots. The die-cut butterfly place card, the menus with a tied-on tassel, a custom matchbox party favor, the “Ruskin’s Bar” branding tying together the park name and my sweet golden retriever’s name, and so much more.
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The Greek touches were really important to me – we followed our Seaside wedding with a ceremony in my home Greek Orthodox Church in Dallas, but I still wanted to include some traditions to make it feel like the real deal. One was the ‘Koufeta’ favors I assembled – it’s a Greek wedding tradition to hand out Jordan almonds in an odd number to celebrate the couple, symbolizing the sweetness and endurance of marriage. I made 150 for every guest tied in an organza ribbon flower with a tag explaining the tradition. The amuse bouche bite at the beginning of our dinner menu was another fun Mediterranean nod, but what really stole the show was the Greek dancing! My sister and I grew up dancing in the Greek Food Festival of Dallas, and my aunt is one of the dance instructors. She hosted a party for my bridesmaids to learn how to Greek dance ahead of the wedding, and so all my family and friends were out on the dance floor, marching around. It was incredible! We used the band’s break as the perfect 20 minutes to show everyone how it’s done, kicked off by a sweet toast from my godfather. My cousin broke plates on the dance floor, which guests just loved watching, then my sister, aunt, and I closed out the dancing by performing one of the harder dances. It ended up being such a fun kick-off to the rest of the party when the band came back on – so high energy, so different from other weddings, and truly just pure joy for everyone, whether they jumped in the line or cheered on from the sides!
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Photography: Hunter Ryan Photo | Videographer: Heacox Creative Co | Florals: Rachelle Youd Designs | Gown: Anne Barge | Cake: Cade's Cakes | Reception Venue: Seaside Interfaith Chapel | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Reformation | Catering: Townsend Catering | Hair & Makeup: Destin Mobile Makeup Box | Calligraphy: Madeleine Creative Co | Band: Big Night Dynamite | Ceremony Music: TOP HAT LIVE | Bridal Earrings: Jennifer Behr | Bridesmaid PJs: Lake Pajamas | Chapel: The Chapel at Seaside | Chargers: Nuage Designs | Cocktail Hour Venue: Seaside Interfaith Chapel | Flatware: Table Made Co. | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Linens: Party Tables | MOH Gowns: Coco Shop | Paper & Event Design: Rosanne Beck Collections | Rentals & Lighting: H&M | Veil: L&T Couture Bridal



















































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































