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An 1887 Farmhouse Played Host to this Rustic Garden Wedding

Brace yourselves, because this rustic Oregon wedding is all kinds of beautiful—would you expect anything else from a floral designer Bride? With a vision of a romantic garden retreat, this sweet duo transformed The Long Farm Barn using a color palette of blush and Marsala with lush florals and vintage details throughout. See all the pretty from Sweetlife Photography and Candy Glass Productions in The Vault!


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From The Bride…I met my future husband, Brandon, my freshman year of college at a small university in sunny Orange County, California. I remember meeting him for the first time in the dorm rooms and thought he was pretty darn cute and had a great laugh (a real loud cackle actually, but it was endearing). We both were playing collegiate soccer and I happened to live right above him in the dorms. A friendship started between us that eventually led to us dating all throughout college. Since Brandon was from Oregon and I lived not far from the university, we decided to date long distance after graduation. After a few years of back and forth visits, Brandon asked me to start a new adventure with him and move to Portland, Oregon. I couldn’t have been more excited (and nervous) to move, but knew this was going to be a very exciting new chapter in our lives. Brandon was right; moving to Oregon was definitely one huge adventure! He loved taking me on trips to the Oregon coast, hikes at Silver Creek Falls, and skiing at Mount Hood. After about a year of being settled in my new home, Brandon took me on a hike to Multnomah Falls on the Columbia River Gorge. At the very top of the hike he got down on one knee and asked me to be his forever. I was ecstatic, shaking, freaking out, but of course said yes! I couldn’t wait to be his wife.

When we started planning our wedding we envisioned an outdoor venue that had a slight rustic feel. We loved the idea of creating a ‘romantic garden retreat’, so we were smitten when we found The Long Farm Barn, an adorable outdoor venue just outside of Portland. It had all the elements we wanted; a lush garden, 1900 restored barn, breathtaking views and three gorgeous horses to top it off. Our wedding color palette was a mix of soft blush tones with accents of Marsala. Flowers were really important to me, being a wedding florist myself, so we chose a lush mix of white hydrangea, garden roses, cream and lavender spray roses and burgundy and café au lait dahlias (to name a few). To create that quaint garden retreat feeling we did not skimp out on the details! There were lush green garlands at every turn, beautiful vintage rentals all throughout our venue, stylish freehand chalkboard signs, café-strung lights, and lots of blush and cream lace. We were married outside under a breathtaking arbor dripping in greens and floral with all our family and friends to witness. It was the most incredible feeling to walk down the aisle with my dad in hand and see my future husband waiting for me with a huge smile on his face.

Our reception was one of my favorite parts of the day. To see all the styling and planning come together was such a wonderful feeling. Much of the credit goes to all our amazing vendors, but also to my family and friends who worked tirelessly on all the little details I had dreamt up in my head. Some of my favorite reception details were our escort bud vases, kissing bell wands, and honey jar favors (which were made by my sister and brother-in-law’s own bee hive!)

After enjoying our al fresco style dinner while listening to heart-warming speeches we headed inside the barn for cake cutting and dancing. Brandon and I first danced to ‘Can’t take my eyes off you’ by Frankie Valli, which reflected our sweet, light hearted spirits and adoration for each other. The rest of the night was filled with lots of dancing, endless photo booth photos and a sparkler send off. It was such a magical and romantic day filled with so much laughter, love and pure joy.

Photography: Sweetlife Photography | Cinematography: Candy Glass Productions | Coordination: J29 Events | Floral Design: Swoon Floral Design | Wedding Dress: Charlotte's Weddings Portland | Cake: Rosy Cakes | Invitations: Tribes N Pines | Bride's Shoes: BHLDN | Rings: Abc Jewelery | Bridesmaids' Dresses: David's Bridal | Catering: The Company Tonight | Hair + Makeup: Kirstie Wight Makeup | DJ: John Ross | Favors: DIY By Maid Of Honor | Bow Tie: The Tie Bar | Groom's Attire: Nordstrom | Groomsmen Attire: The Black Tux | Officiant: Living Savior Lutheran Church | Venue: Long Farm Barn And Events | Bridal Boutique: Charlotte's Weddings Portland | Bride's Belt: BHLDN | Bride's Earrings: Nordstrom | Bridesmaids’ Flower Crowns: Heirbloom Floral | Bridesmaids’ Necklaces: Billy Ella | Escort Bud Vases: DIY by Bride and Bridesmaids | Film Processing: The Find Lab | Groom's Shoes: Nordstrom | Groom's Watch: Ted Baker | Photo Booth: Happymatic Photo Booth | Programs + Chalkboard Signs: HeyHalle | Rentals: The Party Place | Veil: Charlotte's Weddings Portland | Vintage Rentals: Something Borrowed Portland

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Rose Quartz + Serenity-Filled Texas Winery Bridal Inspiration

It’s no secret — we’re pretty in love with Pantone’s 2016 colors of the year: Rose Quartz and Serenity. And, we’re not the only ones. Using the rosy pink and pretty purple as inspiration, Chic Fleur Weddings And Events and Something Pretty Floral created a soft and dreamy wedding inspiration at Texas’ Grape Creek Vineyards. Head to The Vault for all the pretty inspiration thanks to photos from Tenth And Grace!


From Chic Fleur Weddings And EventsTexas has an up-and-coming wine industry, and the beautiful wineries throughout Texas Hill Country are a popular spot for weddings and special events. This inspiration shoot was designed to showcase the beauty of Texas wineries at a time of a year that is typically considered a slower season for weddings. Winter in this part of Texas is mild, and the landscape remains green – this beautiful landscape shows that you don’t have to get married in Tuscany or Napa to enjoy a winery wedding, even in fall or winter. Designed by Chic Fleur Weddings & Events, this shoot combined the beauty of a local Texas winery with the new Pantone colors of the year, Rose Quartz and Serenity. Something Pretty Floral used these popular colors as inspiration for lush floral arrangements that complemented the pastel colors of the Texas landscape, while the Styling Stewardess kept the makeup soft and neutral as a reflection of Pantone’s Rose Quartz. We hope this shoot will serve as inspiration for brides considering a winery wedding in Texas, or those who want to incorporate the colors of the year in a beautiful and timeless way.

Photography: Tanya Menoni | Event Design: Chic Fleur Weddings And Events | Floral Design: Something Pretty Floral | Wedding Dress: a&be bridal shop | Cake: Sweet Treets Bakery | Invitations: Bunny And Bear Paper | Bride's Shoes: Betsey Johnson | Jewelry: Shapiro Diamonds | Hair + Makeup: The Styling Stewardess | Venue: Grape Creek Vineyards | Rentals: Birch And Brass Rentals | Ribbon: Frou Frou Chic | Ring Box: The Mrs Box

10 Ways to Tell If You’re Becoming a Bridezilla

Let’s be real – the stress of wedding planning can turn even the most calm and grounded of people into a not-so-lovely version of themselves. Between budgeting and decision making and well, planning the biggest day of your life, emotions run high, but fear not. We’re sharing 10 little ways to check yourself before you wreck yourself, and ditch the title of “bridezilla”.

 

1. You find yourself snapping at the people you love most.

Stress can bring out anyone’s ugly side, but make sure you find productive ways to relax and recharge instead of unloading on those around you.

2. You care more about the seating chart than your soon-to-be husband.

We know the planning details can become seemingly overwhelming, but try to keep your perspective in check.

3. You obsess over finding the absolute perfect shade of rose quartz. Not pink, not blush – rose quartz.

Take a breather – any shade of pink is pretty, at least in our book.

 

4. You treat your bridesmaids like employees, not friends.

You might have final say on the bridesmaids’ dress or have a list of duties for them to complete, but make sure your girls feel entirely loved and appreciated through the entire planning process.

5. When it comes to the wedding, money is no object. Ever.

If your wedding dreams are causing serious financial strain, take a step back and talk it out.

6. You don’t involve your groom in the planning process.

He might not be as interested or invested in the planning details as you are, but remember it’s his Big Day too. Include him, listen to him, and value his opinion.

7. A good night’s sleep has become a distant memory.

It’s a fact: no sleep = stress. And stress = potential bridezilla territory. 

 

8. Pinterest is the only site in your browser history.

You know we love Pinterest in a serious way, but there’s also a time to unwind and Step. Away. From. The. Laptop.

9. You have every vendor on speed-dial.

You hired your vendor crew for a reason. While it’s completely reasonable to keep in contact, also remember to trust their vision and give them some creative freedom. They’re wedding professionals, after all.

10. Special moments turn into meltdowns.

We totally get that wedding planning isn’t always a walk in the park, but if every highlight is ending in an ugly cry, it’s time to reevaluate. 

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This Bride Found All of Her Vendors on Social Media

There’s no way around it, there is something special about Montenegro. Maybe it’s the stunning views? Or the lush landscape? Or perhaps even, the amazing weather. Whatever the reason may be, all we know is that every single affair from this beautiful destination truly captivates. Take this effortlessly elegant celebration from Ksenia Milushkina as proof. And would you believe me if I told you this beautiful Bride found all of her wedding vendors via social media? Yeah, we’re impressed. See it all in The Vault!

From the Bride… Several months we looked for the country where we wanted to get married – Island, Las-Vegas, Greece and finally, Montenegro with its beautiful mountains and sea views. While we planned our wedding we focused on details. I believe in energy of details made with love. I believe that accents and details help to create the magnificent atmosphere. In addition I also found my vendors by social networks, on fair masters. Everyone I’ve met was inspired by my idea of the wedding. I met new creative people who made for us the invitations, boxes for guests, dresses for our little guests, jewellery, my peignoir and other things. Concerning the wedding style we wanted to bring some vintage because I’m in love with dusty colors and antiques. Our main colors became grey and deep blue, soft peach and pale pink.

Photography: Ksenia Milushkina | Coordination: Pasternak Wedding | Floral Design: Serafima Pavlova | Wedding Dress: Vera Wang | Reception Venue: Art Hotel Galathea | Hair + Makeup: Alexei Fedoseev | Hotel: Regent | Decor: Serafima Pavlova | Planning: Pasternak Wedding | Second Wedding Dress: Tanya Kochnova

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Bright and Elegant Winter Inspired Wedding on Goat Island

Newport weddings are always special, but this all-white affair at the stunning Belle Mer truly stands out. It’s chic with a touch of glamour, making every beautiful image captured by Zev Fisher Photography feel even more fabulous than the last. It’s winter wedding perfection, and you can see it all here.

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From Zev FisherTara & Evan had a classy celebration on the beautiful Goat Island in Newport, Rhode Island. Despite the cold December breeze, they were still open to taking portraits outdoors, taking advantage of that gorgeous evening light. Golden Gate Studios really spruced up the evening with stunning white flower arrangements maintaining that bright and clean feeling throughout. The reception was kicked off by their first dance amid falling snow and they danced the night away to tunes played by Boss.

From The Bride…Our entire relationship has been in New York, this is where we met, dated and fell in love, but our hearts have always been in New England. When we got engaged in front of the lighthouse at Castle Hill Inn in Newport, Rhode Island, we knew that Newport would be the perfect place for our destination wedding. We both wanted to find that special place, on the water, and driving over the Newport bridge is just magical. While Newport is generally known for being a summer destination, we decided we wanted to do something different and host a unique event. After seeing the Belle Mer, with its all white, classic and modern design, we fell in love with the idea of a winter wedding. We envisioned a December black tie affair, with all white and silver decor, white flowers, crystallized branches, snowflakes and blue icy lighting. One of the most memorable moments of the evening was our first dance as a married couple which took place under falling snow. The bride’s lace and organza mermaid gown, along with the groom’s wardrobe change, from a classic black tuxedo into a custom white tuxedo jacket, added to the glamour and romance. Photographer Zev Fisher’s editorial and elegant style perfectly captured the dramatic, elegant and classy affair we imagined. The bride truly felt like a princess in a winter wonderland.

Photography: Zev Fisher Photography | Cinematography: McElroy Weddings | Floral Design: Golden Gate Florist | Wedding Dress: Vows | Cake: Party Favors Brookline | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Monique Lhuillier | Makeup: Kerri Herlihy | Hair: Bella Beauty Bridal | Band: Wilson Stevens | Favors: American Nut & Chocolate Co. | Groom's Attire: Bloomingdales | Venue: Belle Mer: A Longwood Venue | Bridal Boutique: Vows | Bridal Boutique - Bridesmaids' Dresses: L'elite Boston | Linen Rentals: Rentals Unlimited

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Lovely Laguna Beach Engagement Session

We adore a variety of styles around these parts, but we’d be lying if we didn’t admit to a few factors that speak to our hearts a bit more than others – and with the blush dresses, barefeet and peony bouquet, this engagement shoot is pure SMP. Honey Honey Photography captured all the beauty at Laguna Beach and with these images, our Vault continues to shine brighter and brightermore this way!

From Honey Honey PhotographyKristopher and Ashley met and fell in love in San Francisco. At the time, Kristopher was beginning his first year of law school and Ashley was working as an intern for a digital marketing agency. They met by chance, when a mutual friend invited them both to dinner, in what turned out to be a surprise double date. Ashley’s internship ended that day and she was only a few short hours away from flying back home to New York. She was reluctant to go out on her final day in San Francisco, but realizes now it was the best decision she ever made. After a night of laughter and endless conversation, Kristopher made sure they didn’t lose touch. The two messaged back and forth for a few months, before she received a job offer in San Francisco and decided to move back to the Bay Area.

Kristopher proposed to Ashley along the Ewoldsen Trail in Big Sur, CA. Two and a half years of unforgettable smiles and laughter brought him to this day. After hiking uphill for over an hour, the trees began to clear and an incredible view of the ocean appeared. Kristopher leaned in and asked her to close her eyes. He pulled out a purple, plastic cupcake ring. Several weeks prior, she recalled a troubling dream where he proposed with a giant purple ring. Tears welled up in her eyes as he slowly slid the ill-fitting ring on her finger. She quickly realized the ring was nothing more than a less-than-subtle reference to her horrible dream. She began laughing but indistinguishably crying, and wasn’t sure if he was about to propose. Sure enough, Kristopher quickly got down on one knee, pulled out a beautiful ring, and asked to spend the rest of their lives together. Almost a year later, they couldn’t be more excited for their upcoming wedding day!

From the Couple… We knew we wanted our engagement session to be at Crescent Bay in Laguna Beach, CA. Kristopher is an avid surfer, and we would spend a lot of time there in the summer. As soon as we saw Emma’s photographs, we knew her organic, elegant style was the perfect fit. We are beyond pleased with how the pictures turned out and can’t wait to display them in our new home!
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Photography: Ether & Smith | Bride-to-be's Dress: Alice & Olivia | Ribbon: Silk and Willow

Personalizing Your Party Venue is as Easy as these 4 Steps

In the land of party hosting, restaurants are often a key ingredient but personalizing the space and making sure it fits perfectly with your vision of the day can be tough. Mandy Forlenza Sticos is saving all you party-away-from-home throwers with easy tricks to pulling off a shindig that feels like you’re in your very own living room. Just with better food and larger surroundings. See the full shower captured by Marietta Leung right here! Find even more party inspiration this way.

I was so excited to plan a lunch for friends and family to celebrate the impending arrival of my little boy! My mother and I selected a neighborhood favorite, MP Taverna, which is known for it’s modern Greek American fare from Chef Michael Psilakis. It was the perfect mix for my husband’s Greek family, my Italian family and mix of friends.

Being an event stylist and owner of a wedding based company (Little Vintage Rentals) I had an exact vision of the type of atmosphere that felt like “me”. Simple, understated and definitely no blue balloons or streamers. I focused on a neutral color palette and worked with my friend and favorite florist, Jackie from Hello Darlington, to create some magical tablescapes. She even made greenery halos for the light fixtures even better than I’d imagined!

The day would not have been complete without beautiful brushstroke calligraphy name cards and signage from my friend Juliana of Ink and Nibs and delicate linen tea towel favors for guests from my all time favorite, Lost in Linen. The lunch was a lovely and relaxed gathering of friends and family all waiting to meet our little one!

4 Ingredients to a Fab Restaurant Bash

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Seating

Work with the management to customize the floor plan. Join together tables of two and four into longer family style tables which encourage conversation.

Name Cards

Order custom calligraphy pieces that match your party’s style and offer guests an artistic piece to take home with their name.

Decor

Temporarily remove restaurant decor that doesn’t match your aesthetic (paintings, fake flowers etc.) and replace with classic bud vases with greenery and fresh flowers.

Sweet Ending

Supplement the restaurant’s standard dessert with some of your personal or homemade favorites and a show stopping cake to display.

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More Gorgeous Shower Inspiration

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Photography: Marietta Leung | Event Design + Styling: Mandy Forlenza Sticos | Cake: The Baker Chick | Calligraphy: Ink And Nibs | Floral Design + Floral Styling: Hello Darlington | Flower Supplier: Blooms By The Box | Invitation: Minted | Linen Tea Towel Favors: Lost In Linen | Printed Napkins: Memorable Wedding | Restaurant : MP Taverna Astoria | Vintage Rentals: Little Vintage Rentals

Go Wedding Dress Shopping With a Fashion Blogger!

Hi SMP brides! Today I’m really excited to bring you inside my journey of finding “the one.” Not my fiancé, my dress, of course. Dress shopping for me was a bit painful and to be honest, it took me 7 months to find a dress and experience the connection that all brides talk about. You are probably wondering what in the world took me so long, or perhaps you’ve experienced a similar situation. The process of finding a dress is not always all smiles and happy tears. In fact for me, it was quite the opposite!

Prior to my first appointment I connected with a few married friends on what to expect and I did a tiny bit of designer research. Looking back, I was really clueless. I didn’t consider what styles would work best for my body type and I was very against certain silhouettes. Bad bride! How can you rule out a dress style if you’ve never tried it on before? It was about this time last year when my mother, sister, and I took our first trip into New York to dress shop. Funny fact? I envisioned leaving my first appointment with a signed contract for a dress. Turns out the process was not going to be that easy for me. I visited every major designer and wedding boutique in NYC. Too many to count. My mom and I traveled in and out of the city weekend after weekend. Nothing. We left with nothing! Actually let me rewind…I did say “yes” to a few dresses, but I quickly realized within hours the decision I made was wrong, wrong, wrong.

I took a few weeks off from the dress hunt to clear my mind. At this point, I was very certain about the gown I wanted. Now the battle would be finding a designer to help create it. This was the problem all along, too many bridal shops and designers were so quick to say “no” to customizations. Like most brides, I spent endless hours on Pinterest and other wedding sites. I discovered one of Mark Zunino’s gowns on social media and completely fell in love with it before I even tried it on. After doing some investigation, I reached out to his team to see if they would be willing to work with my budget and timeline. I heard back within 5 hours of the request. Mark’s team was extremely helpful and they even got on a conference call to walk me through the design process. I finalized my contract the next day and sent photo inspiration for my dream dress. There is so much more to this story, but unfortunately, I have to leave some details out so that my dress remains a surprise for my fiancé.

At my first fitting I tried on the foundation of my dress, which is essentially the corset. It acts as the main frame for the rest of the design. So many thoughts were running through my head when I slipped into the corset. I envisioned what it would feel like to put my final dress on the day of my wedding. I thought of Rob’s face when he would see me for the first time and nearly melted. Thankfully, Mark was distracting me by asking a ton of questions. This was my first time meeting Mark, and I have to admit I was a little nervous. Mark works with several celebrities and has designed pieces for some of the biggest names in Hollywood (Sofia Vergara). I highly respect him as a designer and to be able to work with him one-on-one for my wedding dress is an absolute dream come true.

After I tried on the corset we discussed the rest of the design and played around with various silhouettes. Mark even advised on what would look best for my body type. I can’t wait to show you guys the final design after my wedding. It’s so special to me. I promise to share the full story with you…no cliff-hangers this time ;). Best of luck to all of you brides to be out there who are currently on the dress hunt!

Tips on how to find your dream dress

Get inspired.

Compile photos of your favorite wedding gowns. Use it as guidance, but don’t get overly bogged down with details by trying to replicate the exact look you’ve seen on Pinterest.

Sleep on it.

Do not feel pressured to sign a contract because “time is running out.” This is a sales tactic! Make sure you go home and sleep on it.

Do not ask for opinions.

This was my biggest mistake. I was so overwhelmed and confused by others’ opinions, I forgot to stop and consider my own feelings! Trust your gut, and if that isn’t good enough for you then have 1-2 family members or friends weigh in at max.

Stop looking.

If you’re feeling unsure and overwhelmed this is a sign that you need to take some time off from the dress search. This should be a fun process. You can revisit when your mind feels clear again.

Utilize photo collage apps.

If you’re stuck between two styles create a picture collage or a side-by-side comparison of you wearing both dresses. This was advice given to me by my best friend, and it helped me make my final decision.

Follow the signs.

And finally, a few signs that indicate you’ve found your dress: the tears start flowing, your heart starts racing, you feel like a bride, you can’t stop smiling, it’s all you can think or talk about…it’s an emotional connection. It’s the dress of your dreams!!
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Follow Jess’s Journey:

Meet the Bride + Engagement Session | Margarita + ‘Maids | Planning Inspiration

Photography: Jessa Schifilliti, Photographer | Bridal Shop: Kleinfeld Bridal | Dress Designer: Mark Zunino

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Beautiful Weddings at Solé East

Solé East has played host to some of our all-time favorite weddings, so dedicating an entire day to this sweet Long Island venue is, well… sort of a no-brainer.  From its fabulous proximity to the beach to the ah-mazing wedding weekend options to the luxurious rooms that will leave all of your guest talking, Solé East is a Montauk paradise simply made for marrying.  Take a look.

Picture a dreamy ceremony in a manicured garden, a stunning tented reception under the stars and an after party complete with non-stop dancing and you’ll land squarely on your Big Day celebration at Solé East, a place that knows all there is to know about hosting a breathtaking wedding.  I’m talking customizable menus featuring fresh, local and seasonal cuisine, transportation to and from the hotel to the Hampton Jitney + the LIRR stops AND a complimentary stay in a Garden Suite the night of the wedding. It’s basically everything you’ve ever wanted, all set against the modern loveliness that is Solé East.  We love.

Newly renovated and seriously chic, Solé East doesn’t just know how to host your Big Day, they’ll make sure you and your guests are comfortable, as well.  From your weekend of non-stop relaxation at their fabulous pool (read: oversized pool mattresses) to their hip, full-service restaurant and lounge (The Backyard) to hammocks dotting the lush lawns.  Not to mention the climate-controlled rooms with pillow-top mattresses and Italian cotton linens.  That’s just awesome.

Contact Solé East today to begin planning that wedding of your dreams, loves. We can’t wait to see.

Photography: 4Eyes Photography | Photography: Angelica Glass Photography

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Everything You Need for a Cinderella-Inspired Wedding

Now that you’ve found your own Prince (or Princess) Charming, there’s nothing stopping you from a having a happily ever after fit for a princess. And the best way to ensure your happy ending? A fairytale wedding, of course. So, allow us to be your fairy godmother and bring you the prettiest inspiration for a wedding worthy of the most iconic princess of them all, Cinderella!

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Elegant Santa Barbara Wedding with a Must-See Custom Lazaro Gown

When you have the dream team of vendors, you have all the makings of a dream wedding. And this vendor team? They’re definitely the dream team: onelove photographyAlegria By DesignEnchanted Garden Floral DesignCopper Willow Paper StudioTEAM Hair & MakeupPlum Pretty Sugar, and Bacara Resort & Spa. And, there’s the Bride’s custom Lazaro wedding dress — talk about a dream wedding! See all the pretty in The Vault!

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From The Bride…We always knew we’d get married by the ocean. Being that we both grew up in Los Angeles, we knew we wanted to highlight the West Coast’s splendor. Some of the key interests that brought us together were our love for all things LA, fashion, and history. Bacara was our perfect venue since it exemplified the amazing beauty SoCal has to offer with breathtaking views of the Pacific, its rich Spanish and coastal history, and serene elegance. We wanted to shine just as much as our venue, so part of the fun of the wedding process was our style picks for the Big Day! The wedding dress was a custom Lazaro paired alongside a brilliant blue tux from Theory. We both are passionate about shoes, so we thought it would be a romantic touch to classically match in Christian Louboutins. Our wedding party elegantly reflected the colors we used throughout our wedding process, making sure to tie in everything from our invitations, flowers, and overall decor. It was only natural for us to want to share our fashion passion with our guests, so we decided to get our logo emblazoned on cool black sunglasses as wedding favors! We all enjoyed the sunny Santa Barbara coast in style!

We envisioned a balance of both classically elegant and modern elements throughout our wedding. Our florals reflected the sophisticated softer side of garden roses paired with the more contemporary, playful anemone and blue thistle all fused with grayish greens like eucalyptus and dusty miller. We used our logo, a stylized script A and I representing our initials, throughout our website, invitations, signage, menus and our wedding favors. The predominant colors we adhered to were a classic, bright white and a darker, slate blue. Our vendors really captured our vision of integrating classic and modern elements to produce the perfect amalgamation of our styles.

Photography: onelove photography | Cinematography: At Your Side Planning | Coordination: Alegria by Design | Floral Design: Enchanted Garden Floral Design | Wedding Dress: JLM Couture, Inc | Cake: Superfine Bakery | Invitations: Minted | Invitations: copper willow paper studio | Bride's Shoes: Louboutin | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Amsale | Hair + Makeup: TEAM Hair and Makeup | Lighting: Bella Vista Designs, Inc | DJ: Who's That DJ | Favors: Logo Lenses | Groom's Attire: Theory | Venue: Bacara Resort & Spa | Bride's Earrings: Chanel | Groom's Shoes: Louboutin | Linen Rentals + Runners: BBJ La Tavola | Menu: Wedding Paper Divas | Photo Booth: Mobile Photo Booth | Robes: Plum Pretty Sugar | Robes: Stone Cold Fox | Signage: Etsy- Country Bliss Designs | Veil: JLM Couture, Inc

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20 Statement-Making Home Steals Under $20

While we live for a good splurge here and there, our bank accounts don’t always agree. Luckily, we’re out to prove that’s it’s not only possible, but easy-peasy to cop big style for a tiny price! This right here is for all of you ballers on a budget. From pretty pillows to fun wall decals, we’ve rounded up our 20 favorite statement-making home steals of the moment. Browse the bunch, pick your favorites and get ready to be swimming in compliments — not credit card bills!

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This Wedding Would Make Cinderella Jealous

For any girl who has ever dreamed of a Cinderella-style wedding, this gallery photographed by KT Merry is your new happy place. Princess-style ballgown? Check. Castle-inspired venue? Check. Drool-worthy wedding bling? Check. Dreamy prince at the end of the aisle? Double check. The event “fairy godmothers” at Cheeky Details pulled this day together in just five months (!!!), and you can see it all in The Vault plus the film from Clark & Walker Studio below.

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From Cheeky DetailsBarbara and Trevor are such a beautiful couple, inside and out. Their genuine love for each other really does shine through from the first time you meet them. With five months of planning time, Barbara and Trevor contracted us after they booked their venue which coincidentally is one of our favorites on the island. They chose Hempstead House (Sands Point Preserve), a historic gold coast mansion built in 1912, because it fulfilled their desire to have a setting that was timeless; a blank slate where they could showcase who they were through all of the details of the day.

They said “I do” during a completely romantic ceremony overlooking the water amidst a clear blue sky. Their outdoor cocktail hour immediately followed where guests enjoyed a formal yet relaxed atmosphere just as the sun was setting. After which, guests were directed to find their escort card (which sat on a bed of flowers) and make their way into the mansion by following a beautiful path of white rose petals and candles.

The design concept was really important to Barbara. She knew that she wanted a very romantic French vintage vibe from the beginning and was a wedding planner’s dream come true when it came to all of the details. Since we literally had to bring every single aspect of the wedding into this venue, we were able to really make this huge mansion feel like their home for the night. Guests sat at a mix of rectangular tables, some exposed wood with draped lace runners and some covered with a variation of soft grey, blush and cream linens with just a pop of sequin. An abundance of candlelight flickered on the tables and through all of the rooms of the mansion. Vintage place settings, hand torn menus draped with silk ribbon and embroidered numbers all made an appearance on the tables as well.

The flowers were a mix of large flowing arrangements and smaller trinket pieces all in the muted palette that complemented the wedding. We brought in vintage furniture to the empty rooms of the mansion so that guests could stroll through and enjoy throughout the night. Two of our favorites were Barbara’s grandmother’s dresser (that her mother took pictures in front of on her own wedding day) that we used as part of our dessert lounge as well as her dining room table that Barbara and Trevor sat at that night. Barbara is very close with her grandmother so it made it even more special. Since one of B + T’s favorite things to do is enjoy the mornings together over coffee (also how Trev popped the question), we incorporated that into their favors and sent guests home with fresh beans from their favorite coffee spot.

From The Bride… Trevor and I met through mutual college friends 6 years ago. We then ran into each other in Boston and stayed in touch ever since. We connected instantly and formed an incredible friendship. Turns out after a year of friend ship we finally both admitted how we really felt, neither of us thought we were each others type so we never expressed how we felt! Trevor brought out this giddy high school crush feeling that was so refreshing! Since that day our relationship has been such an amazing adventure. We feel so lucky to have found each other.

Our wedding day was such an amazing reflection of us and to this day was one of the most magical days of our lives. We held in in an empty Guggenheim Estate and got to be apart of every decision for the aesthetic and decor. We wanted our guests to feel like they were attending an event in our own home. Even with over 100 guests it still felt personal and like “us.”

We mixed rented vintage furniture with pieces that had meaning to us. The table Trevor and I sat at was my Grandmother’s dining table and the dresser/mirror that our desserts were set up on was the vanity in my mothers old bedroom. It was the same mirror she got ready for her wedding day in front of. The day was incredibly magical, I transported to another world, a beautiful, ethereal, place I might have dreamt about as a chid. I’ll never forget the way it felt walking toward Trevor for our first look, and the look on his face!

We had Fitzgerald love quotes written on mirrors and on our ceremony program to evoke the time the mansion was built. The menus had hand torn edges, we used hand embroidered table numbers and vintage handkerchiefs were handed out for the ceremony. Long tables filled with candlelight to give a more of a personal feel. The best part of it all was being able to express our love for each other while being surrounded with our closest friends and family!

Photography: KT Merry Photography | Cinematography: Clark+Walker Studio | Event Planning + Design: Cheeky Details | Floral Design: Rebecca Shepherd Floral Design | Wedding Dress: Peter Langner | Wedding Dress: Oscar De La Renta | Cake: Cake Alchemy | Invitations: Aerialist Press | Catering: Philip Stone Caterers | Makeup: Michelle Coursey | Hair: Styles On B | Lighting: Chris Bianco | Band: The Hudson Project | Officiant: Minister Keith Gugliuzza | Venue: Sands Point Preservation | Ceremony + Cocktail Musicians: Elan Artists | Cigar Roller: La Casa Grande Tobacco | Day Of Stationery: Aerialist Press | Table Linen Rentals: Nuage Designs | Vintage China: Petunia Rose | Vintage Furniture: Octavia & Brown | Vintage Furniture: Patina

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Registry Must Have Item: Keurig & Green Mountain Coffee

When it comes to building out that perfect registry, first things first: coffee. Whether it’s a busy weekday or a lazy Sunday, you want caffeine at your fingertips and when it just so happens to come through a beautiful, simple to use machine? Even better. With a completely custom beverage experience for coffee and tea drinkers alike, Keurig has changed the game on brewers for the ultimate blend of “me” and “we.”

A Keurig is perfect for single-cup brews when you and your love each want a little something different. You love a dark French Roast? He wants an herbal tea? Just pick your favorite K-Cup beverage and enjoy your newlywed life made (even) easier. Plus, Keurig 2.0 lets you step up your hostess game with its four-cup carafe that’s great for entertaining.

There are so many reasons a Keurig needs to be on your registry, but my absolute favorite part? The K-Cup’s beverage variety. I’m the kind of girl who gets bored with the same blend day in and day out, so Keurig’s 500 different beverage varieties from 75+ brands are right up my alley. My favorite is Green Mountain Coffee. Did you know they use only the top 10% of coffee beans in the world in their more than 50 distinct varieties of 100% Arabica coffee?  They make sure I get the perfect cup every time.  With so many options, it’s easy to please any guest who swings by your newlywed home (in-laws, included). Hop over to Keurig to pick the brewer + beverages you love, add to your registry or gift a Keurig + coffee bundle to a happy couple this coming wedding season.  Best gift ever, loves.

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The Ten Items these Pro Organizers Swear By

Professional Organizer is probably not the correct term. Joanna and Clea of The Home Edit are more like styling and organizing goddesses and they are spilling the beans on their arsenal of go-to’s. These ten items (all of which we already have on order) will kick your whole house into organized shape. Get ready to perfect your Spring organizing with these secret weapons

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Blogger Bride: Sorella Muse’s Ultimate Date Night + Engagement Session Tips

Hi SMP brides, I’m so thrilled to share my engagement photos today, as well as some tips for you own engagement shoot! As a wedding photographer myself, I knew a little bit more about what to expect from our engagement session, but I was still nervous and excited for it. Spring weather had finally arrived and my lovely friend Kristina agreed to drive up from Orange County, because we thought it would be meaningful to do the shoot in the Bay Area where we got engaged and where we now live.

The weather forecast for the day of our shoot was clouds and rains, so we were feeling pretty anxious it might not happen at all. On the morning before our shoot, we looked outside and saw that it was bright despite being the sky being entirely gray. We took a chance that it wouldn’t start raining yet and hopped in the car at 11 am. I usually schedule engagement sessions within 1-2 hours of sunset, so already this was going very differently than planned! I had to totally re-set my expectations from that golden glow-y light, and at first I was feeling a little cheated by the weather. But once we were at the beach I felt so calm, and we ended up loving the muted and moody light, especially with the foggy coastal setting. For us, it was a great reminder that things work out if you just go with the flow.

As a digital photographer up until now, I recently bought a Pentax medium format film camera. I used to shoot film in college, and it has completely reignited my passion for photography. So I was thrilled that Kristina would be shooting our engagement session primarily on film.

Since we are getting married in Italy, I wanted our engagement session locations to have a totally different look and feel from the Tuscan countryside, so we chose a mix of the beach and the city. Daniel and I once made an itinerary for an afternoon in the city and we were on our way to a museum, but we got so caught up in talking when I suddenly noticed we were on the Golden Gate Bridge! We laughed, and decided we would go to the beach in Marin and read all afternoon. This is one of the things I love most about our relationship, we make a plan and then throw it out the window when a new adventure presents itself.

City Lights Bookstore was a must on our list of places to visit during our shoot. Daniel once told me he wanted to visit all the greatest bookstores in the world together, and City Lights was the first one we crossed off our list. And I had seen a photo of the exterior of Wayfare Tavern and was completely smitten. It looked like just the sort of place that Daniel and I would stop for a glass of wine after a day of adventuring.

Planning your enagement session? Read below because I’m sharing a few tips that’ll help make you feel a little more prepared to step in front of the camera! I’m so happy to be sharing my wedding planning journey, from inspiration to planning tips, and all that goes into throwing an intimate destination wedding (which reminds me I really need to start looking for a caterer…)

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5 Engagement Session Tips

Choosing your locations

I encourage my couples to choose engagement session locations that are emotionally significant to them or that reflect what they might do on a perfect weekend together. You should feel comfortable and relaxed at the location you choose. You certainly don’t need to go to a wide open field to take romantic engagement photos. I love when couples choose to take photos in their neighborhood, at one of their favorite cafes, or the site of an important date or the proposal. Just check with your photographer to ensure there is enough beautiful natural light.

Think like a stylist

If you spend some time thinking about how your outfits fit with the environment of your location, the images will be stronger. I wanted to get a little more dressed up, because I think the engagement photos are a way to mark this special time of our lives! I also knew that our engagement photos would go on our wedding website, so I wanted our outfits to fit the tone of the wedding, fancy but not fussy, formal but fun. I worked with my friend Rebekah of A and B Creative to choose dresses, which was such a fun shopping experience! We looked at pictures of the coast and pictures of San Francisco city streets to think about the colors and styles that would work best.

Prepare your partner

Most guys I know are like “what’s an engagement session?” and most women I know read Style Me Pretty long before they even get engaged! So it makes sense that you need to prepare your groom before the shoot so he knows what to expect. Show your groom some engagement sessions your photographer has shot in the past. Whenever I was looking at an engagement shoot that I really liked on SMP, I would show my fiancé Daniel, so he got a sense of the poses and the kinds of photos we might take. I just told him that he had free reign to wrap me up in big hugs, hold my hand, and kiss me on the forehead, and suddenly he didn’t mind the idea of being photographed quite as much.

Bring thoughtful props

Props or activities can help tell a story, but be warned, props can look real cheesy real fast. I’m averse to anything that looks too Pinterest-y when it comes to engagement photos. I knew for sure, no chalkboards with our wedding date and no balloons. Since we were going to City Lights Bookstore, I thought that it would be sweet if I brought the book Daniel bought for me there. Inside he had written to me “Your eyes are even more beautiful when lost in thought”. When I read that note I knew immediately that he loved me, even though we hadn’t said it yet. And we brought the leather journal with our initials that Daniel gave me when he proposed. Coffee, ice cream, a picnic spread, and cocktails can make for fun editorial detail shots. It can also be sweet to snuggle up in your favorite blanket, or incorporate details from your surroundings, like a rowboat at a lake or a cute basket on a strawberry picking expedition.

Trust your photographer

Often when couples show up to their engagement shoot, the first thing one of them will say is that they are not photogenic. Don’t worry! Helping you to feel comfortable in front of the camera is your photographer’s job. Yes, it can feel awkward at times, but trust that your photographer will find naturalness within the posing. Pretend you’re on a date, relax and interact with each other, and just enjoy being close and snuggling up together, because then the photos will reflect the authenticity and depth of your love.
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Photography: Kristina Adams Photography | Blogger Bride : Sorella Muse | Blush Dress: BHLDN | Emerald Dress: Badgley Mischka | Film Developing : Richard Photo Lab | Gown Sourcing : A & B Creative | Wedges : Toms

Nicole Anderson

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Modern, Clean + Masculine Same-Sex Wedding for International Duo

For Chris and Chris (this handsome duo), the top priority for their wedding was to find “the perfect place to unite our transatlantic backgrounds, whist doing justice to our love of all things glamorous and fabulous.” The London West Hollywood was the perfect fit — not only are the Grooms currently based in London, but it blended the British class with all the glitz and glamour of LA. See how it all came together, thanks to gorgeous photos from Birds Of A Feather in The Vault!

From The Groom…After dating for eight years, Chris and I decided to tie the knot. We’re an international couple, with one Chris being American and the other Chris British, so we needed the perfect place to unite our transatlantic backgrounds, whist doing justice to our love of all things glamorous and fabulous. Based upon our love of the city and the weather, we knew Los Angeles would be our destination, and, once we walked into The London West Hollywood, we immediately realized that we had found our venue. It was such a perfect fit: not only are we currently based in London, UK – so it allowed us to tie “London” into our destination wedding – the venue blends the best of British class with all the glitz, glamour, and fabulousness that America can offer. We utilized the open rooftop spaces of the hotel, and had the area complemented with white flowers and lots of candles for a modern, clean and masculine look. The cake was a deconstructed three-tier creation, decorated with white orchids and roses, which tied into our masculine and modern theme. The wedding guest list comprised of forty of our closest friends and family, all of who travelled from across the UK and USA to West Hollywood to join us for our special day. During the cocktail and canapé hour, the scenery of the LA skyline at dusk was accompanied by a string quartet playing famous film anthems, and during dinner the DJ began to play, continuing well into the night.

The event was black-tie, intimate, and glamorous. There was such electricity in the air that night, a feeling we will never forget. Being a destination wedding, everyone had travelled so far to celebrate with us – and, as the night went on, the backdrop of the sun setting over Los Angeles made for a truly breathtaking experience. Everyone in attendance knew us very well as a couple and, with the recent passing of marriage equality laws both in the USA and the UK, there was an overwhelming amount of emotion being poured towards us, as we finally had the opportunity to legally declare our love for each other. Having already spent over one-quarter of our lives together, now being able to be legally married means the world to us.

Under the sunny skies of California, we officially became Chris-squared – and against the panoramic views of Los Angeles after sunset, we danced the night away!

Photography: Birds of a Feather | Event Planning: Details Details | Floral Design: Tic Tock Couture Florals and Event Styling | Cake: The Butter End Cakery | Catering: The London Hotel | Calligraphy: Renee Troy | DJ: DJ Crash | Groom's Attire: Tom Ford | Officiant: Stephanie Ford | Venue: The London Hotel | Grooms' Shoes: Salvatore Ferragamo

Springify Your Home With A Pop Of Petals

Spring fever is officially on here at here at team SMP, and boy are we happy campers! And while nothing makes us smile quite as big as a bushel of pretty blooms, these petal-printed home finds come pretty darn close… Peruse our favorites below to add an instant dose of flower power into your home!

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Toronto Wedding Full of the Prettiest Spring Blossoms

Erin and Nicholas’ Toronto nuptials are everything that a spring wedding should be: fresh flowers in the bright hues, gorgeous touches throughout and a portrait session in the most beautiful gardens full of budding blooms. From all the pretty details to the Bride and Groom’s radiating love, this wedding is full of endless inspiration! Head to The Vault to see it all from Whitney Heard Photography!

From Whitney Heard PhotographyErin and Nicholas’s wedding was full of spring colours and soft light. The couple got ready at Erin’s mother’s stunning condo in Toronto. The bride had her girls with her to help get ready, which always kept a smile on her face. Each hairstyle was meticulously designed by Duyen Huynh, and wove in touches of florals to each girl’s hair. Erin wore a simple yet elegant ivory crown to compliment her loose up-do. Erin’s natural look was perfected by Cheryl Gushue, a top makeup artist in Toronto. Wearing jewel-embellished shoes, and with flowers in hand, the girls then went to James Gardens eagerly anticipating the first look.

James Garden is full of stunning flowers, willow trees, and glowing light. Nicholas sees Erin for the first time in private, with a short portrait session to follow. You can see how much they love one another by how comfortable they are in front of the camera together. The bridesmaids photos were taken next, followed by the groomsmen. Once the photographs were complete, the group got in their limo to start off to St. George’s Golf and Country Club.

The ceremony was short and sweet, with two tall trees, and large picture windows decorating the space. Cocktail hour started with a glass of champagne to celebrate the happy couple. As the guests mingled and chatted, the bridal party went back outside for a few more images, with the stunning St.George’s Golf Course as their backdrop! Throughout the day, both Erin and Nicholas were such a pleasure to work with, and the entire family was a joy to photograph!

Between the navy blue bridal party wardrobe, and the bright floral arrangements, this wedding holds so much inspiration for the playful spring bride.

Photography: Whitney Heard Photography | Bride's Shoes: Badgley Mischka | Makeup: Cheryl Gushue | Hair: Duyen Huynh | Venue: St. George Golf and Country Club | First Look Venue: Scarborough Bluffs Park | Ribbon: Silk and Willow

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Rustic Dutch Wedding Inspiration

I swear in a previous life I was Dutch, at least after looking at this gallery I’m sure going to start claiming to be. Reason being? The Dutch just get me. With an inspo filled with pretty blue pottery and lush bouquets bursting with tulips, it’s obvious I was mistakenly not born in the Netherlands. I mean, wouldn’t you agree? See it all captured by CHYMO & MORE Photography in The Vault!

From CHYMO & MORE Photography Drawing inspiration from the traditional Dutch venues for a styled wedding editorial, Daniella from Naturae Design and photographer Chymo from CHYMO & MORE Photography found a traditional Dutch windmill from the 18th century in the middle of the old city center of Utrecht.
This styled shoot is filled with Dutch elements and soft pastel colors: a mix of serenity blue, soft grey, champagne and blush.

Floral designer & stylist Natalia from bloemenmeisjes.com was inspired by the meaning and the roots of Dutch traditions and habits and carefully chose the flowers and the tableware accordingly. The idea of using the wheat flour and cheese came up to her while she was looking at the paintings of the Dutch Renaissance masters, which pictured still life.

Tulips have been grown in the Netherlands since the Renascence and is truly a beauty with many varieties. These flowers are an integrated part of this shoot in color and the meaning.

Delft Blue porcelain is a fine example of the handcraft of the 17th century. It goes very well with the elegant and playful patterned dishes. The simplicity of the cutlery is balanced with the rustic look of the table. The tiny silver tea-strainer gives the picture a touch of shine and more authentic look.

The Cake designer Alma from Alma’s Bakery worked together with Natalia to decorate the cake with the real flowers. She baked the cookies and meringues that would complement the styling and color palette. They choose a serenity blue base for the cake and added some blush color flowers and eucalyptus leaves.

Photographer Chymo from CHYMO & MORE Photography approached the photos in a way that is soft and calm, with an eye for natural elegance, artistic details, and an appreciation for the gentle touch of winter sun.

Daniella from Naturae Design created 5 headpieces for this shoot. A piece with fresh water pearls dipped in gold inspired by the painting “The girl with the pearl earring” by Vermeer. A comb with golden maple leaves together with a belt made with maple leaves.
She choose the gold tones that would go well with the serenity blue color of the dress and the golden blond hair of the model Caroline and one headpiece made from little dusty blue Labradorite crystals attached to the hair with the bobby-pins.

Calligrapher Joyce from KIJKkalligrafie went along with the romantic color scheme by using a delicate ripped cotton paper, matte blue envelopes and a matte copper addressing.

Photography: CHYMO & MORE Photography | Concept: Naturae Design | Concept: CHYMO & MORE Photography | Hair + Makeup: Floor Visagie | Stationery + Calligraphy: Joyce Celine Van Essen -KIJKkalligrafie- | Wedding Venue: Molen-de-Ster | Cake Designer: Almie's Bakery | Event, Floral Design + Styling: Bloemenmeisjes Arnhem | Film Lab: Carmencita Film Lab | Headpiece + Belt: Naturae Design | Model: Caroline De Booij | Ribbons: Pompom Blossom | Tableware: Wim Pollmann