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Craving Sunshine? This Outdoor E-Sesh Is Just What You Need

In the event that you needed a lil’ sunshine to brighten up your day then you’re in luck. Because today we’ve got a beautiful dose of Vitamin D coming your way. Sawyer Baird captured the sweetest e-sesh to share that we know you’re going to l-o-v-e. Best part? We’ve got it all waiting for you in The Vault!

From Sawyer BairdEse + Jack decided on a simple yet stylish engagement session just south of the city (where their May wedding will soon take place). When talking over locations we all agreed on something completely not urban would do the trick. When placing two people with such an amazing style and personality in such a simple environment their true colors came to shine. Not only is this engagement session so so raw and real, but it is full of love as well.

From the amazing laughter and smiles…and yes, Ese’s amazing shoes…(can we get a yes please?!) I can only image what their big day has in store.

Photography: Sawyer Baird | Location: Serenbe

Card Dealing Grandparents Set the Stage For This Meant to Be Marriage

This is one of those “Wow, it’s a small world” weddings. Their grandparents played bridge together at their Jewish Country Club years ago and their fathers became friends in middle school. So after some smart parental meddling, these two found each other and well, here they are now. Lisa O’Dwyer captured their happily ever after – planned in six weeks may I had – and the results are picture perfect. Head to the Vault for them all!

From the Bride… Like all great love stories, ours started long before we were born… our grandparents were fierce bridge competitors at their Jewish country club in Minnesota.

Our fathers befriended each other in middle school and later, they survived many harrowing ski trips and the 70’s and 80’s as best friends.

Michael and I grew up seeing each other at holidays, family gatherings, and bar mitzvahs. We weren’t in close touch, as I lived with my mom in Seattle and Michael’s family harkened from Denver.

We went about our formative years with no sense of what was to come… We pursued our respective interests, went off to college, traveled, and forged our way toward adulthood with no inkling of our foreshadowed fate.

In the spring of 2011, Michael, who was at that time traveling and working his way through Colombia, decided it was time for a change of scenery and took a job sight unseen, just hours outside of New York. I was, at the same time, living in New England, training horses and riders for national competition.

Through a series of discoveries (instigated, of course, by our Jewish parents) it was brought to our attention that Michael and I were living a mere five miles apart from one another in rural Connecticut!

In late August of that year, we connected for a drink (for our parents’ sake, naturally!). And that very drink turned into (GASP!) a date! And after dates two, three, and four…. we were in love. Instantly. Surprisingly. IN LOVE!

We carved out a life together in the quiet of Litchfield County, amidst a cacophony of crickets, owls, and frogs. We cultivated a wonderful community and prepared for our next steps of togetherness.

I returned to Event Planning, my previous career, and became the Senior Event Planner at Winvian, Relais & Chateaux in the Litchfield Hills, planning high-end weddings and events for the country’s heavy-hitters in fashion, finance, global business, and the arts.

In the winter of 2013, we relocated to Denver to grow our own businesses and be closer to friends and family. Claire Gordon Events made its Colorado debut later that season. Chef Michael created Farmer’s Kitchen, a locally sourced and organic fresh meal delivery business, servicing Colorado’s busy families.

Michael proposed on March 17, 2015 while we were on a venue scouting trip to Mexico with a custom four carat morganite and diamond ring! We deliberated long and hard about how and where to have our nuptials, always mindful of having an intimate experience, a grand departure from the 250+ person weddings that I produce for work.

It wasn’t until we were vacationing at our mountain home in Crested Butte, Colorado over the July 4th holiday weekend that we decided to push the “GO” button and begin planning our wedding…IN SIX WEEKS!

I had an open weekend August 22, 2015 and once we had confirmation from our nearest and dearest 35 guests, it was full steam ahead and the Claire Gordon Events team got to work!

Cicada Bridal, a Seattle-based design house, created my semi-custom gown in five weeks with the help of bridal boutique extraordinaire, A&Bé. Donna Beth Creations crafted a perfect off-the-shoulder bolero jacket to accompany.

I rallied a dynamic vendor team of Colorado’s finest! Both our floral designer, Flora by Nora, and our incredible photographer, Lisa O’Dwyer, rearranged previous commitments to be available for our wedding weekend and dove into the project with love and enthusiasm. We rented a beautiful private residence for our ceremony, featuring 360 degree views of the Butte, Maroon Belles and the Crested Butte valley. We partnered with husband and wife team, Kate and Chris Ladoulis, Crested Butte’s premiere restaurateur and chef, to host our reception. Sweet Letterpress and DesignsGirl created our incredible botanical print inspired invitation suite with hand-calligraphed envelopes.

Together, Nora and I conceptualized the design for the wedding, a modern interpretation of a Victorian aesthetic, updated with whimsical and unpretentious mountain-inspired details. The design reflected a warm palette of bright blooms with French blue details, natural elements like stoneware containers juxtaposed with antique pewter, and late summer stone fruit and figs.

Our ceremony was “Jewish-ish”, featuring an Aspen branch chuppah, a blessing circle and ring warming ceremony, and wine in our Kiddush cup dating back to the year of my birth (set aside 25 years ago by my step father).

The reception featured James Beard Foundation nominee, Kate Ladoulis’ famed tart cherry braised short ribs and Colorado striped bass with a golden raisin and shallot agrodolce. Chris selected Italian wines to pair perfectly with the meal. We enjoyed a smattering of desserts including the guest favorite, citrus crema catalana. Our guests noshed and drank and celebrated until the wee hours of the morning!

Our shotgun wedding (planned in six weeks) exceeded all expectations and the details were truly representative of our history, our families, our autonomous love, and our future!

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Photography: Lisa O'Dwyer Photography | Event Planning: Claire Gordon Events | Floral Design: Flora By Nora | Wedding Dress: Cicada Bridal | Invitations: Sweet Letter Press | Stationery: Designsgirl | Makeup: Bronze And Beautiful | Venue: Bacchanale | Alterations: Donna Beth Creations | Bridal Boutique: a&be bridal shop

Magic is for Sure Happening in this Dream-Worthy Master Bedroom

Gold Peacock wallpaper and a velvet headboard are undoubtedly a dream team. Especially when it comes to revamping your master bedroom. Speaking of dream teams, another fab duo is responsible for this gorgeous space. Wallpaper guru, Erin Minckley Chlaghmo of Relativity Textiles, and vintage furniture refinsher, Meg Piercy of Megmade, crafted the ultimate dream bedroom. See even more photographed by Carolina Mariana right here!

Relativity Textiles is a handmade wallpaper company based in Chicago, IL. Inspired by the history of global fabrics, Relativity launched their first collection of wallcoverings in 2015 and will release a selection of fabrics in Summer 2016. All handmade and hand screen printed in Chicago, these papers are works of art. Made by artisans and inspired by the world.

The founder and lead designer, Erin Minckley Chlaghmo, teamed up with her friend Meg Piercy of MegMade, a local furniture refinishing business, to create a dreamy master bedroom full of light and romance. The Peacock Gold wallpaper is inspired by the feathers of a majestic and mystical bird. Hand painted patterns are translated through hand screen printing creating an all over texture for Meg’s room that totally transformed the space. The side tables were refinished thanks to MegMade.

Meg and Erin are both mothers of two and entrepreneurs. Starting out in her garage, Meg built her business in the past 5 years into a booming warehouse full of midcentury dressers and hutches in every color and finish. She does custom restoration and painting and will soon launch a boutique collection of one of a kind pieces. Their friendship has inspired some pretty awesome collaborations including this bedroom and some of Erin’s furniture was refinished by Meg. The drawers were of course lined in custom wallpaper patterns.

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Photography: Carolina Mariana | Furniture: Megmade (vintage Refinished) | Home: Meg & Joe Piercy | Wallpaper: Relativity Textiles

Insider Advice on Planning a Destination Wedding

Hello, Brides! Nicole of Sorella Muse here to share with you the most important piece of advice I can give about destination wedding planning: don’t do it alone! If you take just one thing away from this post, I hope it’s that planning a destination bash requires help! But I think you’re going to take away a lot more, because I’ve asked my lovely planner Nira of Amber Events to share her top tips for destination wedding planning with you!

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Destination Wedding Tips with Amber Events

1. Enhance Your Venue, Don’t Fight It

You are traveling to a unique destination for a reason. Do you enjoy the exotic feeling of steamy Zanzibar? The lush tropical serenity of Bali? Or is it the ancient stone walls of a European mansion that captured your imagination? Why did you select your wedding location?

When incorporating design and wedding traditions, think about ways to enhance the experience of your particular destination. Wines, stinky (but oh so delicious) cheeses, and cured meats should be on the menu for a Tuscan wedding while tacos and margaritas are a must for a beach wedding in Mexico! Carefully consider the decor as well. It may be a competing look to bring florals that aren’t seasonal to that region of the world. Think about options that are local to the given area. You’ll be surprised at how much you can save when you don’t have to import a specific floral varietal across the world!

2. Remember Time Differences

As a Los Angeles-based wedding planner, I’m a bit spoiled. Everyone here is at the top of their game. Vendors are accessible through all communication platforms. An email is usually responded to within 24 hours! I remember reaching out to a Brazilian planner, who was one of the best in the industry. I was a bit concerned when a week went by before I received a short message back saying simply “Just call”. Don’t be surprised if the style and timing of communication varies when you reach out to vendors in different parts of the world.

However, to compensate, you and your planner need to get started on tasks earlier rather than later, to account for the lag in reply times. The same goes when you are actually in the country. Late shuttle pickup? Very possible. The driver is probably lingering over his espresso. Remember, it’s enchanting over there for a reason.

3. Consider Ease of Travel

Try and pick a venue about an hour or less from a city or airport to make your wedding easier to get to. This is not mandatory of course, but your guests will appreciate it so much! If you fall in love with a grassy field hours away from civilization, have at it. Just keep in mind that a portion of your guest count is going to drop when they hear of the epic commute.

Traveling by plane is already an odyssey for most guests. Adding over an hour car ride or train from the airport, and your guests may feel grumpy and fatigued. If you do some thorough venue research you will find that there are plenty of gorgeous and remote looking places within that hour drive from a local city or airport.

4. Budget for Travel, Meals, and Accommodations

Most vendors you want to work with will love to travel to be a part of your wedding. Contractually they will need travel, meals, and accommodation expenses added to their cost of service. This can really add up! The bulk of their business will likely be in a more metropolitan area, so the further you push out from that radius, the more cash you will have to drop to get them out there. The same may go for your guests. Are you assisting any of your family members or wedding party with their journey out to witness your vows? If so, do your research and account for it all. These costs all make a big impact on the overall wedding budget.

5. Reward the Journey

Just think, if you were a wedding guest receiving a pretty little Save-the-Date to hop on a plane to one of the world’s hot spots one year from now, how would you prepare? I know I’d be planning all year to make THAT my big trip with paid vacation time. Make the experience memorable and plan events for the whole weekend if your budget allows. Try to have a welcome reception, an activity somewhere in between their extended stay, and a post-wedding brunch. There are inexpensive ways to get a group together, like going on a guided walking tour with a knowledgeable local or dropping by a vineyard for wine tasting.

6. Welcome to the Weekend

After a long journey, finding a welcome bag and handwritten note in your room from the couple is such a nice way to kick things off. Fill the bag with destination-specific items that they can use during the weekend (like sunglasses and sunscreen for a beach wedding) or opt for a gift that comes from the region. Something edible is always appreciated too, especially if it’s something sourced locally, like French macarons in Paris.

Make sure not to put anything in the bag that will be difficult to carry home, like a huge bottle of olive oil since your guest might have brought a carry-on! And while you may have already included itinerary information on a wedding website or invite, your guests may appreciate having a printed itinerary so they know where they need to be and when!

7. Get it in Writing

All is fine and dandy until you get on site hours before your wedding, and the chairs are not what you discussed, nor the seemingly subtle sign for the out of order “toilette”. Contracts are a big deal in the United States, but even more so overseas. Nothing is a guarantee unless you have it in writing, especially with the possible language barrier between the couple and the vendors. Still a bit unsure? Purchase wedding insurance to cover yourselves in case of any mishaps.

Photography: leila brewster | Event Planning: Amber Events | Hair + Makeup: Page Beauty | Venue: Butcher's Daughter | Blogger Bride: Sorella Muse | Blogger Bride Dress: Billy Ella | Blogger Bride Shoes: Toms | Save the Dates: Minted

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18 Father’s Day Gift Ideas for Every Kind of Dad

My dad is the kind of dad who knows how to do everything. He can hop on a snowboard for the first time and totally rock it, taught me how to fish, make a fire, run a business, to know good music and to live completely in the moment—just for starters. So, when it comes to Father’s Day, I’m sure I can find something on this list that he’ll love. Plus, a big ol’ hug of course. Shop for dad while there’s still time!

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This Springtime Engagement Session is Why We Love New York

Something magical happens every April in New York when dirty gray snow melts away to reveal blossoming trees and budding flowers. It’s absolutely enchanting, and lucky for you, Still55 Photography was able to capture that magic in Samantha and Taylor’s NYC engagement session. In white separates and a well-fitted suit, the Bride and Groom-to-be look hopelessly chic in some of Manhattan’s most picturesque spots. See all the pretty moments in The Vault!


From Still55 PhotographySamantha and Taylor knew they wanted their engagement photos to capture everything they love about home. Their neighborhood in Greenwich, the quite side streets in the Village, the lively sights and sounds of Washington Square and the Spring beauty of Central Park. We knew right away that capturing these images would include everything we love about portrait work. Authentic images captured in a refined way. The day itself set the tone for what was ahead. Perfect temps and not a cloud in the sky. After Samantha and Taylor showed us around the Village we headed to 72nd West to take in the beauty of Sheep’s Meadow, The Mall, and the full bloom of Cherry Blossoms in the warm light of Spring. This Spring Romance in the City captured exactly what they wanted in their images. Authentic love and joy coupled with the City that will always hold a special place in their hearts.

Photography: Joseph Rogero | Her Shoes: Schutz | His Shoes: Cole Haan | Location: Grand Ferry Park | Location: Greenwich Village | Location: Central Park | Skirt: Alice & Olivia | Suit & Shirt: J. Cew Ludlow Shop Suit | Sunglasses: Ray Ban Wayfarer | Top: Alice & Olivia

An Engagement Straight Out Of “Sleepless in Seattle”

Remember that final scene in Sleepless in Seattle when Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan meet at the top of the Empire State Building? They share an epic moment that can only be described as one of the dreamiest meetings ever, and this Rock Center engagement session? Well, it’s managed to capture that movie-worthy romance to a T. Oliver Fly Photography, job well done!

From the Bride-to-be…We first met at Dream Downtown. A French group was hosting pool parties every Tuesday during the summer. Despite working late most nights, I committed to going to every-single-one that summer. Benoît came the second to last week, I was out with friends, Benoît saw me, but was to shy to say hello. We were introduced the week after, the very last pool party of the summer. Ben asked for a date the following week and we have been together ever since. 

About the proposal – we planned a long trip back to Paris to visit with Benoît’s family. He had spent the prior months secretly researching rings, had found the perfect one, and was ready to propose. After a week of wine tasting and château hoping in the Loire Valley, Benoît popped the question on a rowboat at the romantic Château Chenonceau!

We are getting married this summer in France in the Loire Valley at Le Chateau St Julien in the village of St Julien de l’Ars, near from the ancient city of Poitiers. This venue is the ideal setting for a destination wedding. The most important part of our wedding was to have both of our French and American families together. Having the wedding in France meant that Benoît’s grandfather would be with us.

We fell in love with the Loire Valley the year before during our engagement trip and decided that would be a lovely location for our wedding. With exactly room for 50, Chateau St Julien is perfect to host all of our combined family for four days of wedding festivities!

We found Oliver while we were researching our chateau, his work is soft and absolutely romantic. After reserving the Chateau St Julien, we immediately contacted him to photograph our wedding day. A few months later, Oliver was with us in New York City and we got the opportunity to know each other and to have a fantastic time during our engagement session. Oliver put us completely at ease.

It is impossible to tell by how flawless his photos are – but it was about 40 degrees and raining the whole day – he was absolutely committed to getting every shot on film, such an incredible challenge. He even made time for a few iPhone shots that we could share with our families. Spending time with Oliver before our wedding was absolutely priceless, we can’t wait to have him there to document our day in exactly 2 months!

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Photography: Oliver Fly |Film Processing: Richard Photo Lab | Dress: Monique Lhuillier | Tie: Calvin Klein | Suit: Indochino Custom Apparel | Shoes: Sam Edleman | Location: Top Of The Rock | Location: Bethesda Terrace

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Wedding Dress Secrets from Hollywood’s Hottest Celebrity Stylist

Lupita Nyong’o. Michelle Dockery. Olivia Munn. Besides being gorgeous Hollywood stars, the one thing these women all have in common is being styled by the one and only Micaela Erlanger. She’s responsible for some of the most iconic red carpet looks of the past few years (when Lupita channeled Cinderella? All Micaela) and likens her experience picking out gowns for celebrities’ most important occasions to picking out a wedding gown for a every woman’s most important day. We caught up with the bubbly brunette at Pronovias‘ NYC Flagship to get her tips and tricks to look like a star on your big day!

You’ve styled some of our favorite red carpet moments — what do you look for in a gown and how do your clients know when you’ve found “the one?”

Well, there’s always that “Aha!” moment and I think it’s the same thing when you find your wedding dress, which is why I’m so thrilled to partner with Pronovias because for me the whole experience of picking out your gown for one of your most important red carpet moments is the same as picking out a gown for your most momentous occasion: your wedding. You generally try on a lot of different things. You probably try on a bunch of things you don’t like, too. You take those off. But when you find the one, you know — there’s a feeling. It’s that “Aha!” I can’t describe it more than just that.

Like you said, a wedding, like a red carpet,is a momentous occasion. Are there any things you need to keep in mind when dressing for a milestone like that?

Comfort! My goodness, you’re in this gown all night long. Same thing I tell my clients, you better be able to dance, sweat, cry, have fun. You’re in that dress and you have to love what you have on. You have to be comfortable and you have to be confident. If you’re not confident, it’s going to show. It’s going to show in pictures. It’s going to show in the way you walk. It’s going to show in the way you talk. You can’t have that nervousness in addition to everything else on the big day.

What are some of your favorite trends in bridal fashion right now?

I’m loving the various detachable elements. I think versatility is something the modern bride really looks for. I also have to comment that pockets are useful! And I love seeing these fuller silhouettes that give you that playfulness and certainly handy, that’s for sure. And I love that lace is having a comeback in a different way, the more sort of romantic feeling tiered bits that Pronovias has showcased, that real Spanish influence is so beautiful and so feminine.

Who are some of your favorite celebrity brides?

Amal Clooney and Kate Middleton. And, you’ve got to give credit to Angelina Jolie for going out there and doing something so personal and special to her because it’s your moment and why not do what you want? Also, Kate Moss — her dress was so ethereal and vintage-inspired and I love that.

What’s the best way to approach accessories?

I think once you’ve chosen your dress, that’s when accessories come in. It’s really about punctuating the look and it’s really about accenting with the right piece — that’s the frosting on the cake.

What are your thoughts on a veil?

I love it! I just love something in the hair, so you can be a veil girl, or you can not be, both are equally beautiful, but don’t be afraid to try a different accessory if a veil isn’t right for you — a headband or a little piece of net over the eye can be really subtly beautiful, even a little sexy if that’s the vibe you’re going for, but a cathedral length veil with a raw edge or something with a little bit of lace, more traditional, are all beautiful options. But, don’t overcomplicate your look. If you have a really beautiful open-back detail, I’d go for something that’s not going to compete with that. And if you’re going for something that’s all-over lace, perhaps you choose a simpler veil. It’s about the balance, the juxtaposition between your accessories and your gown.

When it comes to shoes, what should a bride look for?

This is a tip I give all of my clients on the carpet as well, you’re not going to see the shoe, so make sure that you’re comfortable, make sure that you can walk in your gown and at the very least, if you want to wear something special, have a backup pair. You want to dance, you want to have fun, you don’t want to worry about having your feet hurt.

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5 Reasons to Add this Colorful City to Your Travel Wish List

We talk about a ‘pop of color’ all the time in weddings, home and fashion. But travel? I don’t think we’ve ever featured a mini guide as hue-happy as this one. Captured by Studio Finch, Cartagena is just the destination you should look into if you’re craving a dose of color. Studio Finch is giving us a head start with these 5 must-do’s!

From Studio FinchCartagena, Colombia is one of the most amazing hidden gems I’ve ever seen! It’s an adorable walled city port town, filled with color and lush flowers everywhere. Caratagena is located on the northern coast of Colombia, filled with cobblestone streets and colorful stucco buildings from the 16th century. Everywhere you look, there is a pop of color, hat and fruit salesmen. Out of all of the amazing things to do and see in Cartagena, here is the list of recommendations I was able to narrow down.

Ceviche

It’s a must! Cartagena is an old pirate port town, and with that comes the most delicious raw seafood in citrus juices. You can get it at just about any restaurant, or ceviche truck. To go for authentic, go for the ceviche trucks!

Go for a stroll on the walls surrounding the walled city.

Parts of Cartagena’s walled city has portions of it which you can walk on. The best time of day to go for a stroll on the historic wall is just before sunset. You can have the amazing opportunity to watch the colors in the sky change as the sun goes down.

Watch the traditional perform at night at Plaza de Bolivar.

Another bonus, it’s free to watch! The plaza is filled with young couples dressed in traditional outfits. The dances have so much energy, and also tell a story.

Enjoy a beer on the wall at sunset.

At El Baluarte Tasca-bar, on the South Eastern part of the wall, you can enjoy a beer while listening to the live music in a wooden adirondack chair.

See the arches Torre del Reloj.

Not too far from El Baluarte Tasca-bar you can wander around the square and see the historic arches. The beautiful arched gate walks you into Plaza de la Aduana.

There are so many things to do, and so much color to take in that I highly recommend seeing this beautiful town for yourself. Fun touristy tip: check out the Russian themed bar! It’s on the NorthWest corner of the Plaza Fernández de Madrid.

Photography: Studio Finch | Film Lab: The Find Lab

Calling All Foodies: Watch What Happens When a Chef Gets Married

Alessandra + Zach’s might be the sweetest couple, ever. For starters? They’ve known each other since they were 12! So, you can only imagine that their wedding day was filled with history, love, and of course delicious bites c/o the Groom’s profession. All in all it’s a day worth sharing and thanks to Jenny Smith & Co. we’ve got it all in The Vault!

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From the Bride… We didn’t really have any preconceived idea of what we wanted our wedding to look like. We’ve been together for so long and have known each other since we were 12 years old and as a result are incredibly lucky to have a close knit group of friends and family who love each other – and love to have a good time with good food! Having an epic, yet relaxed, party with incredible food with our closest friends + family was the only priority. We wanted to celebrate our love with the people who helped shape and support us as individuals and as a couple over the many years of our relationship. Our wedding was as much a celebration of our commitment to one another as it was a recognition of the love and support we’ve received from our family + friends throughout the years.

We reached out to our friends in the food world to help us craft the perfect day. Zach’s culinary mentor, first-boss and dear friend, Neal Fraiser, was at the helm at the kitchen that evening. He roasted a whole pig and grilled whole salmon, which we served family style at long tables. We had our incredible friend and renowned pastry chef, Sherry Yard, making our spectacular cake. She went above and beyond with a gorgeous tiered cake that was adorned in creamy blooms that stopped us in our tracks when we saw it lit up in the middle of the reception.

My favorite moment was the ceremony itself – and our vows. We were married by our best friend Joey. We all went to highschool together and have known each other for over 20 years at this point. It was such an intimate moment and it really felt like no one else was there at certain parts. We wrote our own vows and it was incredible to see how similar our vows ended up being despite having no idea what the other would say. We incorporated some jewish elements to our wedding as well. In our ‘traditional’ vows we added in a hebrew saying: I am my beloved’s and my beloved’s is mine. This is a phrase that is incorporated in many traditional jewish weddings, but it held a super special significance to Ali as her grandmother had the phrase in hebrew on a gold pendant growing up and it was a special phrase her grandparents would say to one another. Growing up she always admired their love, devotion and dedication to one another – it was a must to add in to the ceremony.

I loved my gown. It had a lace cap sleeves and an open back by Israeli designer Berta. The cake was by our dear, dear friend and pastry chef Sherry Yard. When Sherry Yard offers to make your wedding cake, you don’t ask any questions and let her do her thing. She asked for pictures of the venue, florals and my dress and she made this epically gorgeous carrot cake with cream cheese frosting. She also made chocolate ganache cake with caramel and peanut butter layers, it’s the same cake she had surprised Zach with on his 26th birthday. We are lucky to have such talented and generous friends who were excited to help us achieve our modern, relaxed-yet elegant-vision.

Go with the flow and be in the moment. It will be all too easy to get caught up in last minute floral fiascos or tardy bridesmaids. At the end of the day you are marrying your best friend and anything else is a bonus.

Photography: Jenny Smith & Co | Cinematography: Amanda Madeline Studios | Event Planning: Danae Grace Events | Floral Design: April Flowers | Wedding Dress: Berta | Cake: Helms Bakery District | Invitations: Black Ink | Catering: Neal Frasier | Makeup: Peggy Wright | Hair: Adam Campbell | DJ: Treble Town Productions | Officiant: Joey | Venue: Greengate Ranch & Vineyard | Beverage Services: Sidecar Cocktail SLO | Lighting + Draping: Islay Events | Linen Rentals: BBJ La Tavola | Photo Booth: Jenny Smith & Co | Rentals: Taylor Rentals | Rentals: Central Coast Tent Party | Rentals: Classic Party Rentals | Rentals: Botanica Specialty Rentals

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Get Him Excited to Register With These Poker Night Essentials

Let’s get real; your man may not be that into picking out flowers for centerpieces or fonts for invitations, but when it comes to weddings registries, this is where he can happily get involved. Add in essentials to have on hand for his future poker nights with the guys, and we bet he’ll be begging to take this item off the to-do list for you. Get ready for these manly must-haves to be filling your cabinets very soon…

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This Engagement Session will Fulfill Your Wanderlust

In case you needed a vacation (uhm, who doesn’t) then fear not because we’re fulfilling your wanderlust today. Join us as we take a special trip to paradise with Coco Tran behind the lens snapping up the majestic that is Maui. Oh and no need to pack your bags, we’ve got it all waiting for you in The Vault!


From Coco TranThere is nothing quite like visiting paradise and photographing love…this sweet couple are all the way from Louisiana and graciously invited me to join them in documenting their love. The key to the luminous photos was timing and location. It’s always fun to explore off the beaten path to discover majestic locations such as we did in the west side of Maui.

Photography: Coco Tran | Location: Hawaii

What does this Fashionista Bride Have in Common with Kate Middleton? Hint: Alexander McQueen

The fashion elite gathered in Capri this weekend to celebrate street style star Giovanna Battaglia‘s wedding to Swedish realtor Oscar Englebert. The Bride (who is a Contributing Fashion Editor at W Magazine and Senior Fashion Editor at Vogue Japan) set the stage for the stylish weekend at her rehearsal dinner at Piazza Umberto I, wearing a white Alaïa dress with a flirty and fun feathery skirt.

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From there, it only got better. And, as expected from one of fashion’s favorite darlings, the Bride stunned in a custom Alexander McQueen ballgown (just like our favorite Princess: Kate Middleton!) with an embellished corset and statement train at her lavish seaside ceremony.

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The Perfect Spring Engagement in the Park

What’s better than a springtime stroll through the park? How about a springtime stroll in the park with the one you love. Yeah, we’d say that’s way better. Oh, and add in the talent that is Amy Arrington Photography behind the lens to capture every sweet second and you’ve got yourself one dreamy day. See it all in The Vault!

From the Bride-to-be…Originally, we were both signed up for weight training, but both switched to racquetball days before classes were to start. Unbeknownst to us that it would be the best class change of our college career!I first noticed Zach because he had this smile (still does) that really did light up the room (or gym) and it was hard not to notice him with his head bandanas (to keep his luscious locks out of his face) that he would wear to class everyday. Before I knew his name, I would refer to him as “hot racquetball boy” when talking to my roommates about him.One time during class, the stars aligned, and we were paired up to play against each other. After I let Zach win, we started to talk and learned that we were both from the same town, and that Zach’s dad was my Vice Principal in high school. Zach and I had lived so close to each other growing up, but our paths had never crossed back home.

Fast forward to five years later when my work required me to go to Hawai’i. (somebody had to do it) Zach was able to make the long 4,500 mile trek with me. One day in Hawai’i, after work, and after Zach had explored the island on his scooter all day, we decided to walk from our hotel in Waikiki to a more secluded beach. After spending time in the ocean and relaxing at the beach, we decided to walk back towards the hotel to grab a bite to eat. I walked in front of Zach, and periodically he would tell me to turn around every few steps so that he could to snap a picture of the sunset behind me. The last time that I turned around, Zach was on his knee with the engagement ring, a ring that had once belonged to his grandmother. I squealed and cried with excitement! My fingers were slightly swollen from being at the beach, which made getting the ring on a little challenging, but Zach was able to do it. I was so excited that I didn’t even care if my finger was turning purple. I was engaged to the man of my dreams.

Photography: Amy Arrington Photography

Make Your Shiplap Dreams a Reality with these Designer Tips

I’ve professed my love for shiplap time and again and I know I’m not alone in this arena. It’s at the top of the trending list and we have the home tours to prove it. If your love runs deep but you have no idea where to start or how to do it cost effectively read up on Meredith of View from My Heels secrets to shiplap and then promptly bookmark this baby. Plus, see Meredith’s full home tour here!

Best spots

Does everywhere count? I like it in laundry rooms, mudrooms, and bathrooms where it can add a punch to a (typically) small space. Also love it in entries and I used it in mine because it feels less formal and well, traditional, than traditional wainscoting. I also love it lining the backs of built ins and nooks – it makes for a nice, clean look but doesn’t go country like beadboard sometimes can.

Spacing and Sizing

Spacing and size are the two big components. I chose 6″ boards and 1/16″ spacing (the size of a nickel). If the ceilings are tall I’d opt for wider boards like 8″ so it doesn’t feel too busy. Depending on the space you could also opt for 1/8″ spacing between boards – or wider – for a chunkier look which I think feels more casual.

Where to Save money

You can use real wood or mdf just depending on budget and application. We used wood in our home but if I was to do the laundry room, for example, I’d probably opt for mdf to keep costs down.

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Shiplap Dreamin
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Photography: Kate Renyi  | Designer: Meredith Rodday

#SMPWedding101 – Secrets Your Planner Wants You to Know

In the throes of wedding planning, it may seem like you’re fighting an uphill battle, that every vendor is out for more money, pushing their own agenda. But it’s not true! Step out of the madness and read these wise, kind words from Bluebird Productions, an event planning crew that’s here for YOU. We all need a breath of fresh air every once in awhile and these little reminders from the pros will do just the trick.

1. You’ll catch a lot more bees with honey than vinegar!

This saying rings true in every element of life. Be gracious towards your vendors. Appreciate the effort they are going through to make your day as perfect as possible. Yes, it is our job to fulfill your contract but going above and beyond is that much easier for vendors when they are treated with kindness and respect. You may even get a little extra centerpiece, an extra service, or even extra time onto your band or photography contract, if you do just this.

2. Give us a reason to be invested!

We love hearing about your plans (even the minute ones like why you’ve selected a detail or what is happening at your dress fitting). If we can personally connect on the details, we care even more about your wedding and will take the extra steps to give you an even better day.

3. Something will go wrong. It always does.

That is no secret. You may know about it. You may not. We’ll do everything we can to make sure that you don’t know about any hiccups that arise. But even so, remember that in all likelihood, only you and I will know what that wrong item is. We recommend that you do not share that something went missing, that the guest book is in a different location, etc with your guests. A relaxed and happy hostess means happy guests! A tense hostess means tense guests.

4. We like you! We really do.

We are here to make your day as perfect as possible and not sabotage your wedding for the fun of it. We do this job because we genuinely care. If you break down our fee, you’ll really start to realize this is a job about passion and care versus trying to take advantage of “weddings.”

5. This isn’t our first rodeo. Trust us!

Yes, we know you were your sister’s Maid of Honor and have been in a million weddings. Trust that we know what we’re doing and won’t select “ugly” or unsightly things for you. We won’t set you up for failure. We know and look at all details down to what type of fixture the audio visual company is using. We use our years of experience to make sure your day, and the guest experience, is as flawless as possible.

6. Weddings cost a lot of money!

No secret but here’s the secret: we don’t try to make extra money “just because” it’s a wedding. Flowers are expensive. Greenery is expensive too. Staffing is expensive as you want staff that actually provides a high level of service versus staff that does the bare minimum. Clients want the best on their big day and the selections they often make are more expensive than they would for a dinner party. I promise, we’re not trying to take advantage of the fact that weddings are a “big industry.”

7. Select vendors that inspire you. Then, let go!

Let the vendor do their job and make the magic happen for you. A band isn’t going to put on their best performance if they only play a playlist you give them. You’ve hired them to play amazing music and for their talent to read a crowd, engage the crowd and modify. Of course, direction is fine and by all means, tell them your preferences. Just please don’t micromanage – it doesn’t get you anywhere. Don’t hire a florist who specializes in loose organic arrangements and ask that they create tight rosettes for you. If you want a certain style of anything (band, stationer, floral designer, rentals), hire the best person or company you can afford and that is available in the style you would like. Just because a vendor is “amazing,” doesn’t mean they are amazing at everything. Select your vendors based on their specialty and don’t force them into something they are not.

8. We want you to be honest with us!

Chances are that we’ve already had “our big day.” You won’t offend us if you don’t like a shade of blue or pink we suggest in a design concept or a type of paper we suggest for your stationery. Unfortunately, we cannot read your mind if you don’t tell us. So, tell us you love something. Tell us you hate something. It may not be our personal taste but it is YOUR wedding, not ours. We promise we won’t like you any less because you like something different than we do.

9. Everyone is a little bit crazy!

There is no such thing as a normal family! We’ve seen it all and won’t judge you because families are, well, family! Abnormal is normal. Crazy mother-in-laws, crazy parents, crazy sisters…. honestly, it makes the process a bit more fun for us. Embrace the craziness!

10. We want to get to know you!

It’s not just about “select option A, B or C.” We are here to make your day as reflective as “YOU” as possible but we can’t do that without getting to know you. Please give us this opportunity. We’re not trying to replace your sister/best friend/mom, but we don’t want to bug you with revision after revision if we can’t get an understanding of “that’s not really me” because we haven’t really gotten to know you.

The SMP Wedding Planning Timeline
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ONGOING GIVEAWAYS + DISCOUNTS…  

Charming Charlie 
Framebridge
Animoto
The Registry at Bloomingdale’s trip to Florence
Wedding Paper Divas

We’re excited to share that Shine invitations is currently offering FREE SHIPPING on orders over $500 (US orders only) as well as a free sample kit featuring the invitation of your choice, color charts, paper samples, and an example Save the Date! Don’t miss out!

THIS WEEK’S DISCOUNTS…

For our California Brides… Discounts from The Ranch at Laguna Beach and Weddings by Susan Dunne, and giveaway from Magnolia Weddings!

For our Destination Brides… Discount from Hitch’d Weddings & Events

For our Southeast Brides… Don’t miss Lovely Charleston’s Grand Opening Party on June 17th!

For our Tri-state Brides… Discount from Femina Photo + Design and don’t miss the Lela Rose Trunk Show at Gabriella New York (June 23 – 26)!

Additionally, we have not one but TWO giveaways for our Tri-State Brides: The Duchess and OLLI STUDIO!

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See What You Missed on SMP This Week

While I love every single bit of wedding beauty that comes across my desk, I’d be lying if I didn’t admit to a little extra love for my floral and paper Pinterest pics, the ones I find myself losing hours worth of the day staring at. So it’s no surprise that this week I spent some solid time with our LBBers and their recent floral creations and stylish scripts. All these must-see moments that I’m talkin’ about below!

Must-See LBB Moments
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Must-See LBB Moments
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Going to a Summer Wedding? Here’s the Outfit Inspiration You Need

Pop the Champagne, it’s time to celebrate our favorite time of year: wedding season, of course! And with a calendar full of fabulous fêtes, the big question is what on earth are you going to wear?! Don’t worry, we have outfit inspiration for every dress code. Yes, all eyes will be on the bride, but in these gorgeous get-ups, don’t be surprised if you earn everyone’s admiration, too.

Summer Wedding Outfit Inspiration
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Modern Elopement Inspiration, Bridal Jumpsuit Included.

If you’ve ever thought planning an elopement has to equal sacrificing on style, you better think again. Bespoke OnlyStacie Ford, and Sally Pinera are out to prove otherwise, and this inspiration shoot is the proof. Modern, chic, and stylish to the nines – all the heart eyes for that jumpsuit! – we’re pretty convinced a wedding for two is the way to go.

From Sally PineraFor this modern and chic elopement we wanted to create a solidified intimate moment between the two lovers. There are so many components to a wedding, so many designs, florals, formalities and to do lists that we wanted to remind not only ourselves, but all brides that this is about the love between themselves. With tender touches, quiet moments, and authentic emotions, we were able to create a beautiful stop on time. There is an elegant touch to simplicity, and we encourage brides to take on the styles and designs that speak true to who they are.

Photography: Sally Pinera | Stationery: Script Merchant Calligraphy | Bride’s Shoes: Nicholas Kirkwood| Makeup: Stacie Ford Weddings | Hair: Styles On B | Venue: At Home | Floral Design, Event Design + Styling: Bespoke Only | Jumpsuit: 3.1 Phillip Lim

P.S. How to Elope Without Offending

Best Ever Elopement Tips
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Best Ever Elopement Tips
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See How This Couple Incorporated Cherry Blossoms on Their Big Day

Christine and Oskar travelled to wine country (from Hong Kong!!) for their special day and the results? Absolute perfection. With sweeping views of the valley and an intimate ceremony complete with with cherry blossoms, their day was dreamed up by Jubilee Lau Events and it was everything. From the Giggle + Riot Funbooth, to the Bride’s stunning Monique Lhuillier gown, we’ve got all that and more from Kevin Chin Photography + Cinema in The Vault!

From Jubilee Lau EventsChristine and Oskar lived in Hong Kong, but envisioned a beautiful and intimate destination wedding in Napa Valley. They picked Auberge du Soleil as their wedding venue for its sweeping views of the valley and Michelin-star rated food. With 80 friends and family flying in from all over the world to join them in their celebration, our team was asked to make it a really special and memorable weekend for everyone.

Guests received hand-selected sparkling wine and local baked goods in wooden boxes upon their arrival to Napa Valley. On Friday evening, they were shuttled to a “secret location” for the Welcome Dinner, which was Ram’s Gate Winery in Sonoma. There, guests had a wonderful wine country experience with a winery tour, wine tasting, and a 3 course dinner with wine pairings. Due to El Nino this year, we had a superb rain plan in place that included a clear tent on Auberge’s terrace, but lucky for everyone, we were blessed with glorious skies and weather on the wedding day! Christine and her ladies spent a relaxed morning in the bridal suite on site while Jane Kim of The Glamourist took her time making sure everyone looked remarkable. It was very important to Christine and Oskar that they preserve the tradition of not seeing one another prior to the ceremony, which made the anticipation peak right before we sent Christine in her amazing Monique Lhuillier dress down the aisle that was lined with foliage, blooms, and succulents.

For the design of this wedding, we went with a clean, modern, organic glam look. We wanted it to be refined and polished with some hints of whimsy. Shades of blush pink and white, with neutral tones like warm greys and browns filled the event spaces. The ceremony was held on the terrace, with the panoramic valley view as the natural backdrop. We brought in Cherries to create tall, blooming cherry blossom trees for Christine and Oskar to exchange their vows under. Guests enjoyed the magnificent view through cocktail hour, before they were invited to take their seats inside the reception space, which was softly draped and filled with blossoming branches and candles. Gold foil menus that had each guest’s name in gold calligraphy rested on top of blush dupionique napkins. To honor Oskar’s Swedish background, there were funny and touching toasts all throughout dinner, as friends and family shared many wonderful memories of the couple.

After dinner, guests were invited to the Cedar Room, which we completely transformed into the most dreamy, ethereal dessert room as the wow factor of the evening! White and blush draping blossoms, with greenery and moss, draped from the circular ceiling of the room. A variety of beautiful wedding cakes by Sweet on Cake, desserts by Auberge, and petits fours by Dragonfly Cakes were displayed on real tree stumps, custom cement pedestals, and special furniture. As
the backdrop to Giggle and Riot’s photo booth, Cherries created a fresh floral wall filled with blush and white blossoms. Guests were in awe of the room transformation and indulged in the desserts while rocking the dance floor all night to the tunes of the live band Apple Z.

Photography: Kevin Chin | Cinematography: Kevin Chin | Event Design: Gloria Wong Design | Event Planning: Jubilee Lau Events | Floral Design: Cherries Flowers | Wedding Dress: Monique Lhuillier | Cake: Sweet on Cake | Makeup: The Glamourist | Venue: Auberge Du Soleil | Chair Rentals: Blueprint Studios | Dessert: Dragonfly Cakes | Linen Rentals: BBJ La Tavola | Photo Booth: Giggle and Riot | Specialty Rentals: One True Love Vintage Rentals

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