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2021 Trend Alert: Bows Are Back In A Big Way and BHLDN Has Them All Tied Up For You!

For me, the bow trend never went away…so to hear that bows are officially back, means 2021 is already off to a good start! With an increase in laid back or smaller nuptials, brides are looking for ultra-feminine touches to dress up their more casual affair and bows are a timeless way to add to your look. Lucky for you, BHLDN has ALL of the bows ready, from dainty accessories to a statement shoe. Whether you want that WOW factor or an oh-so-romantic finishing touch, we think bows can definitely have a seat at the table!

Eiko Bow $28 | Loeffler Randall Rayne Clutch $250 | ML Monique Lhuillier Lionel One-Shoulder Dress $295 | Vicenza Wharton Mules $120

Bows for your hair happen to be one of my favorites, and who doesn’t love a good clutch that you can use for your wedding day and beyond. A statement bow on your shoulder, yes please! Or a pale blue mule, which can double as your something blue.

Eiko Bow $28 | Jenny by Jenny Yoo Shipley Gown $995 | Loeffler Randall Camellia Heals $395

Who doesn’t love a good dress back? Add a beautifully draped bow and I am sold! It definitely brings the WOW factor and paired with some beautiful earrings, you have a look to be remembered! But, if you have said yes to a simpler, sleek dress, why not dress it up with a statement bow shoe?

Oresme Heels $158 | Amsale Elle Dress $385 | Elana Bracelet $148 | Remy Satin Bow Scrunchie $28

Those Oresme Heels are TO DIE FOR and like I said prior…who doesn’t love a good dress back!? That Amsale Elle dress is stunning! Whether you decide to knock it out of the park with a statement bow or add in dainty details throughout your look, you simply cannot go wrong with any of BHLDN‘s bow pieces!

Wedding Dress & Accessories: BHLDN

Free Printable Valentine’s Day Card

Friends, it’s Friday and we’re in a freebie kind of mood! With Valentine’s Day a bit over a week away, it’s time to bust out your pretty pens and start tackling those love letters. And if you haven’t made a trip to your local stationery yet, not to worry. We’ve got what might be my favorite ever blooming heart card and you can print it (for free). Voila, problem solved—you’re welcome!

Materials8.5 x 11 white card stock paper
Scissors
Printer
Pen
Valentine card download

instructions

step-1Print out the valentine onto the card stock paper.

step-2Cut out the card along the gray lines, then fold in half.

step-3Write a note inside to your sweetie!

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Photography: White Loft Studio | Design + Styling: SMP Living | Illustration: Jess Blazejewski | Calligraphy: Becca Joas

Free Spirits Will Love This Elevated Summer Camp Wedding

Love is in the (open) air at this elevated California camp wedding. For her wedding venue the bride chose the summer camp she worked as a counselor at, and the result is an outdoorsy dream come true. With the expert help of Jacqueline Hallgarth, the couple created an immersive and engaging weekend for all to enjoy. Artful flower arrangements by Amanda Vidmar Designs made guests feel transported to a magical place. The talented Laura Ford was there to capture all the details. Experience the magic of a modern summer camp in the full gallery.



From the bride… We wanted an “elevated camp” vibe. The location is stunningly beautiful, but we wanted to add some elements that took it from rustic to glam.



Our wedding reflected what we loved most: food, drinks, music and being together with our friends. That was our main focus, figuring out how we could make the experience immersive and engaging for our guests the entire weekend.



We wanted everyone to feel transported to a magical place they’d never been before. Our guests had the ability to hike, kayak, paddle board, paddle boat, or just lounge around camp with a glass of wine. A little something for everyone.



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Photography: Laura Ford | Cinematography: Tahoe Film Company | Event Design: Jacqueline Hallgarth Events | Event Planning: Jacqueline Hallgarth Events | Floral Design: Amanda Vidmar | Cake: Stanford Sierra Conference Center | Invitations: Lotus & Ash | Catering: Stanford Sierra Conference Center | Venue: Stanford Sierra Conference Center | Beauty: Nancy Rice Artistry | Day Of Paper Goods: Lotus & Ash | Music: Vybe Society Entertainment | Rentals: Celebrations Party Rentals | Rentals: BBJ La Tavola

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Edgy New York Style Meets California Cool In This Inspiration Shoot

Saturated hues, edgy New York vibes, and a Southern California backdrop make for endless wedding day inspiration. Inspired by autumn in New York, Velvet Alley Events created a color story of amber, mustard, and ecru that will make your heart pump. No detail was spared, including floral choices by Besame Floral and Event Design based on the meaning behind each flower. Anya Kernes Photography’s beautiful imagery helps to bring this story to life. You’ll be delighted by all the details in the full gallery.



From Soltana of Velvet Alley EventsThe Gardens at Los Robles Greens located in Southern California set the backdrop with its lovely blooming trees alluding to New York’s Central Park. The ceremony area’s details of the dark chestnut backdrop, lined brick, walls blanketed with vines, and majestic wrought iron gates were reminiscent of New York’s austere Brownstone neighborhoods.



Creating a story was the primary goal of Floral Designer Jazmin of Besame Floral and Event Design. Inspiration gleaned on the warm, transitional colors of Autumn and the symbolism of the blooms. Tawny Chrysanthemums in the bouquet symbolize loyalty and devotion. Sepia tinged garden roses represent warmth and stability. And plumes of Pampas Grass added a hint of Southern California coastal charm.



The bountiful tablescape accompanied with drapes of curtain fairy lights set the tone for an intimate, alfresco dining experience. And My Lovely Events created a chic, modern lounge vignette. Rounding out the décor is the neon “Love Made Us Do it” in cold, white LED as a playful commemoration to the nightscape billboard lights of Times Square.



Photography: Anya Kernes | Event Planning: Velvet Alley Events | Floral Design: Besame Floral Events | Wedding Dress: Claire Pettibone | Cake: Frost It Cakery | Invitations: Shine Wedding Invitations | Shoes: Bella Belle Shoes | Groom's Attire: Friar Tux | Wedding Venue: Los Robles Greens | Beauty: Bliss Bridal Beauty | Leather Jackets: Babe to Bride | Neon Sign: The Lovely Glass Jar | Rentals: Amigo Party Rentals | Specialty Rentals: My Lovely Events | Styling Ceramics: Simple Things Ceramics | Styling Surface: Locust Collection

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5 New Nuptials Trends That Have Us Embracing the 2021, Post-COVID Wedding Mood In a Major Way

It’s 1/11/2021 today, pretties, and we’re feeling all kinds of great about it. 2020 is past us (hooray!!) and this year is looking up. Although so much hardship, confusion, and disappointment transpired last year, our industry totally rose to the occasion, and we wouldn’t be sensationalizing by saying that weddings from here on out will be ultimately and unanimously wonderful. We know what can happen, so we’re prepared for affairs small and grand, serendipitous elopements or those planned, and everything micro-wedding-fitting, because we’re 100 percent stans. To our couples, our vendors, our venues, and our readers, let’s make 2021 the best year yet! 

Of course, with the arrival of a new year, we’re always quick to think about trends that we know will be popping up all over the 2021 nuptials landscape. But, this time around, we think it’d probably behoove us to look more at trends for the whole year versus trends for each season. COVID brought a lot of bad with it, but one of the silver linings to its pursuit of undoing is the dissolution of templatized events, gatherings, social experiences, and general time spent together. When it comes to one of the biggest and most momentous occasions then, a wedding, there isn’t a formula that couples have to show allegiance to anymore. You can go rogue and have it translate into the most resplendent, creative, and talk-worthy event ever. 

So, what does a wedding look like without a blueprint for its success? Well, for one, it’s incredibly personalized, and moreover it’s an experience that a couple can look back on and say ‘well, yeah, we had to keep things small and embrace a socially-distanced soiree, but OMG, it precipitated one of the coolest, most inspiring wedding transformations ever.’ Winter and spring wedding trends, summer and fall wedding trends, they’ve all brought us smiles, but mark our words: 2021 wedding trends are topping them all. (And they won’t be ending up on any ‘what trends to say goodbye to’ lists, either, because #timeless). 

Once you’ve scrolled through all of our 2021 wedding predictions, don’t forget to take a peek at our Style Me Pretty Shop. We’ve got the paper goods and gifts, decor and details to help make sure your upcoming wedding is one you’ll remember forever and cherish for always. Everything is available to shop now on site! 

Photo by Brooke Allison

Read on for some of the trends we have on our radar for 2021 and what to shop to build a totally-new and totally-you look for your own best day ever.

An out-of-the-box welcome.

We’ve always been fans of the wedding welcome bag, but this year introduced us to the wedding box – and we’re still really wrapped up in the look of it. So, what’s new for this welcome box that wasn’t such a big thing for the bag? Well, 1) if you’re sticking with a smaller guest list, you can get a little more generous with the contents (not just a couple small nips of alcohol, a pair of water bottles, and a locally-sourced snack or two, these might have a reusable water bottle. a more full-size bottle of champs or the bride or groom’s favorite bottle, and personalized flutes or whisky glasses, etc.) and 2) since we’re still living in a COVID-conscious world, you might want to include curated hand sanitizers or colorful disinfecting mists to match your color palette and stylish, aesthetic-coordinated face masks that your guests can wear to your wedding.


Photo by Aaron & Jillian Photography

Another great add? A handwritten thank you note that feels a lot more special and genuine. We’ve got so many pretty options to consider!

A reception with stations.

Yes, we’ve seen this before in cocktail hour food and drink action stations and impressive dessert hours with endless confection vignettes and coffee bar setups, but receptions to come are going to go ALL in on the mix and matched event areas. Drinks over here, food over there, something experiential going on in the front (think: your photo booth, an artist or a cool live entertainment ensemble), or a luxe lounge locale in the back. 

Photo by Jen Huang Bogan

Our thoughts on a fun way to call these creative stations out? Neon signage, of course. First comes a tiny toast with those you love the most in your bridal suite (we like this one, because the party don’t start, till some bottles get popped), then comes all the sweet moments you know you and your guests will LOVE (this one is perfect for above the photo booth area or wherever the wedding cake is being displayed), and finally, what’s a proper sendoff without some hydration for the road? Hang our ‘don’t go thirsty’ sign up above your send off station, so your nearest and dearest can grab a snack and sips to go – canned mocktails are a must!!

 

A turn up for your tablescapes.

So, speaking of mixing and matching – guest table arrangements and setups have gotten a lot more intriguing and intentional since social distancing became a thing. In the past, we’d pack dozens and dozens of tables into a reception area and they’d all end up looking the same, which ends up feeling really bleh, to be honest. Nowadays, since we’re tasked to finesse a fete with an appropriate distance between tables, we can get really design-y and editorial with the audience ambiance. 

We’re big fans of using a blend of round and square, big and small tables, to create drama in the room – and going extravagant with the table toppers is the necessary next step! 👉 Designing your wedding tablescape(s) is a lot easier than you think!

Candles will be your best friend to light up the look of your tables, as will delicate drinking glasses that nod to your special day.

Special seats for the guests of honor.

We love a good sweetheart table, truly we do, but intimate weddings as of late have brought the couple back into the company of their closest friends and fam – and we’re SO here for it. Whether you’re sitting down with your wedding party or pulling up a chair at a super-long banquet table that hosts ALL of your bests, you’ll want to stand out. We’ve got quite a few bride and groom and couple-of-the-day chair signs that bring totally charming personalization to your seating assignments. 

Tented transformations that transcend twinkle lights.

Tented weddings have been big for years, but recent events have made them even more coveted, because #outdoordigsmakedistancingeasier. That being said, the gold standard in tent-elevating tricks, for nearly a decade, has been twinkle or fairy lights or, even more recently, floral chandeliers. They look stunning, for sure, but this year, we’re excited to see more high-concept hanging decor and installs being swapped in. 

Photo by Virgil Bunao

Enter our Style Me Pretty iron hanging chandeliers. Beautiful on their own, these gorgeous hanging pieces have 3 bands that swivel to form a 18″ wide x 25″ tall chandelier. Simply rotate to move the bands in place, tighten, and start decorating! We like fresh or faux florals, but you can absolutely take those twinkle lights, crystals, or ribbon and weave them in for a really fun custom chandelier creation. The best part, though? Once your wedding is over, you can repurpose these pieces in your home with seasonal greenery for year-round use! 

Another idea? Use something like our wedding backdrop banner to hang up around the perimeter. It’s also a a blast to run through if you’re doing wedding party introductions! Great photo opp potential! 

Photo by Love, The Nelsons Photography

2021 weddings are bringing new trends through the whole year. We’re so excited to be able to offer looks that you can shop for your own weddings! Check everything out at the Style Me Pretty Shop!

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Romantic Chateau Inspiration Right Here in the USA, Designed With a High Fashion Bride in Mind

If you’re a bride that lives for high fashion, but loves an old world feel – this one’s for you! Leave it to Lauren Fair and Arielle Fera Events to bring the romance and allure of Europe to the States. They designed a shoot that incorporates the old-world character of Elkins Estate, infused with a modern feel. If you didn’t already know, Elkins Estate is a 45-room manor built in the style of Italian High Renaissance – smack dab in the suburbs of Philadelphia! To watch the magic unfold, check out the full gallery of inspiration, complete with hundreds of breathtaking blooms by Twisted Willow Flowers.

From Lauren Fair Photography The concept for this shoot was centered around a historic estate, Elkins Estate, that is currently being revitalized into a luxurious new wedding venue in the suburbs of Philadelphia. Our team sought out to produce inspiration that incorporates the old-world character of Elkins Estate while infusing a modern + very romantic feel. High fashion, yet approachable for a bride. We designed this shoot with a high-end bride in mind; one that loves fashion, the richness that comes with a historic, opulent, gilded venue but also loves refinement through modern details. Elkins Estate, owned by Landmark Venues; is a 45-room manor built in the style of Italian High Renaissance.

The unique interior features, such as the ornately carved wood and gilded molding, marble columns and accents, frescoed ceilings, gargoyles and the like, were crafted in Europe and shipped to the United States, where they were assembled on site. The interior was designed by renowned French interior decor experts Allard et Fils, which accounts for the distinctly French feel in some of the rooms. The Estate sits on 42 rolling acres. It is the perfect venue for a couple who wants a European feel for their wedding without having to travel overseas. The venue is so vast and offers amazing indoor and outdoor spaces, we decided to feature two couples in order to capture the grandness of the venue. We also featured designer gowns by some of the designers in the industry. For a bride that loves fashion, one dress is clearly not enough. This shoot is rich with beautiful dresses that are both high-fashion yet approachable and extremely romantic and feminine. For the shoot we opted for a romantic palette consisting of muted + rich tonal shades of blush, cream, light rusty peach, café au lait and cream all accented with hints of gold.

Ashley and Emmanuel are an engaged couple who modeled for us. Twisted Willow Flowers created a gorgeous + sprawling ceremony arch that was set on one of the Estate’s elaborate outdoor staircases. It is a beautiful backdrop for the couple to be elevated above their admiring guests. Ashley wore gorgeous designer gowns by designer Alon Livne provided by Jessica Haley Bridal and designer gowns by Alon Livne and PRONOVIAS provided by La Belle Mariee. Ashley’s makeup was subtle and soft while her hair was styled into a dramatic power ponytail by Michele Wilderman. The gorgeous jewelry that she wore was provided by Kellmer Jewelers. Their wedding cake was creatively crafted by NutMeg Cake Design to be reminiscent of a sculpture that complements the stateliness of the venue. Arielle Fera Events curated a gorgeous ensemble of lounge furniture from White Glove Rentals that was styled on one of the grand balconies. A hand-drawn venue sketch adorned the couple’s invitation suite that was beautifully designed by PaperTree Studio.

Photography: Lauren Fair Photography | Floral Design: Twisted Willow Flowers | Stationery: Papertree Studio | Shoes: Bella Belle | Makeup & Hair: Makup My Mind | Calligraphy: Caitlin Jane Calligraphy | Wedding Venue: Elkins Estate Landmark Venues | Bridal Gown: Pronovias | Bridal Gown: Galia Lahav | Bridal Gown: Berta | Bridal Gown: Gabbiano Bridal | Bridal Gown: Alon Livne | Bridal Shop: Jessica Haley Bridal Boutique | Bridal Shop: La Belle Mariee Bridal | Bridal Shop: Bridal Reflections | Cake Designer: Nutmeg Cake Design | Jeweler: Kellmer Jewelers | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Model: Ashley Brielle | Model: Annastacia Boudwin | Planning + Design: Arielle Fera Events | Rentals: White Glove Rentals

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Mid-Century Modern Meets California Cool

Editor’s Note: This STUNNING home is a great example of what happens when you take a specific design style and adapt it to your surroundings. While the nods to the mid-century modern design style can be found throughout the whole home, designer Lindye Galloway perfectly incorporated some of the best aspects of California living. 

Take a look! Be sure to stop and TRULY appreciate the kitchen with its double island situation (yeah just wait, it’s amazing.) 

Can you share a little background on the client (lifestyle, job, family)

This client is a young family of 5. They lived in this home for a handful of years when they first bought it and have immersed themselves in the community and that Corona del Mar beach lifestyle! They then decided it was time to turn their dream lot into their dream home so gut the entire home!

Type of home and approx. Square footage?

This is a mid-century modern meets California cool style. A little modern, a little coastal for the perfect family home that blends high-end design with the practicalities of a growing family. The new home is 3,600 square feet.

What were your client’s goals for this project?

They wanted to completely update the home while keeping a nod to the original mid-century modern style. We took the entire home back to the studs but kept the roofline and front exterior footprint the same to keep the part of the home that drew them to that spot in the first place. Inside they wanted an open concept, large kitchen with a double island and a livable approach to a minimalistic mid-century modern home. Lastly, since this home is just steps from the beach, we wanted an indoor/outdoor feel to catch that ocean breeze. Large bi-fold doors throughout and plenty of windows for natural light captured the essence of the area!

What was the scope of work? Remodel, ground up?

This was a remodel and we took the home back to the studs!

How would you best describe the design aesthetic/style of this project?

This is a livable and approachable take on a mid-century modern style with a touch of coastal. For a busy family in Southern California, it was important to marry both form and function!

Can you give 1-2 sentences for each room setting – either your inspiration, client’s goal, challenges, design elements you love, etc Room settings: Living room, dining room, kitchen, entry, master bedroom, master bath, pink bathroom, bathroom with wood paneling, boys room

The kitchen features gorgeous wood-paneled cabinetry and a double island! The double island is our perfect blend of form and function. One can be used for prepping meals and cooking while the other island creates an intimate feel for family dinners on a Friday evening or entertaining with friends over wine.

The living room centers around the geometric modern fireplace and offers plenty of indoor/outdoor entertaining with the large bi-fold doors that lead to the backyard.

The entry brings all the drama! The floor to ceiling wood paneling created give a unique take while incorporating cement consoles and is complemented by the brass and metal door (which is also a Dutch door!).

The master bathroom is modern but warm and mixes layers of marble for an elevated look. We brought in statement worthy pieces, like the lights and hardware for an extra touch.

We wanted to make the kid’s rooms feel special while mature so it can grow with the kids through many stages of life. A pop of light pink in the girl’s bath is just the touch of girly it needed and the boy’s bedroom full of textures and layers gives the California vibe they live each day.

Builder: Principle Design | Chad Mellon Photography: Chad Mellon | Interior Designer: Lindye Galloway

You’ll Never Believe This Dreamy Montauk Micro Wedding Was Planned in Just a Few Weeks!

Ahhh, Montauk in the summer – I mean really is there anything better?! I think not. We’ll be sitting here daydreaming all week long about today’s swoon-worthy summer soirée, reminding us that warmth on the East Coast is actually a thing (while it sure feels impossible to conceive of right now!) With planning help from All Who Wander Events, these two pulled off their dream elegant wedding  at a private estate out east – all in a matter of weeks! Just wait until you see how gorgeous it is. Bring a bit of sunshine to your life and check out the full gallery, all taken by Jaine Kershner Photography!

From the Bride… After a year plus of planning the “dream” wedding we had always imagined, it was hard to wrap our heads around the idea that that dream might just have to wait. But, while Covid threw a wrench in our original plans, it presented us with an opportunity that is now one of our fondest, and most cherished, memories. 

Once it became clear that the large wedding we were planning wasn’t going to take place anytime soon, all we could focus on was just getting married. In a few short weeks, we pulled together the things that were most important to making that happen – finding a church, coordinating with our immediate families, and getting the dress and suit tailored in record time ;)

All of the vendors that we still have booked for the big day totally rallied around us and jumped at the opportunity to make this “mini-mony” as special as it could be. When it came to design, simple was the name of the game. I wanted a no-fuss, no-stress day and, luckily I already had a vision of what I wanted the design elements to look like. We followed the general design plan that we are still hoping to use one day at a large reception, but ultimately we were blessed with a beautiful, sunny, July day in Montauk and that is truly what made the day so perfect. Looking back, I now can’t imagine getting married any other way.

Photography: Jainé Kershner Photography | Videographer: On Philm Productions | Event Planning: All Who Wander Event Design | Floral Design: AvaFlora | Reception Venue: Private Estate, Montauk NY | Brides Shoes: Sam Edelman | Makeup: Elite Bridal Beauty | Hair: Xavier Silva | Band: Cafe Wha Band | Bride's Dress: The One Bridal

This Unforgettable Moment Never Would Have Happened if COVID Didn’t Change Their Wedding Plans

Like many of us, exchanging personal vows in front a large audience can sound like a daunting experience (I know it did for me! Hellooo, bridal stage-fright is real) So when today’s couple was forced to bring down their original guest count from a whopping 220 people to a mere 19, they decided to take advantage of the situation and craft their own vows. Turns out – it was their favorite memory of the day. One that never would have happened if they went through with their original wedding plans. how crazy is that?! To watch the magic unfold, don’t miss out on the full gallery – taken by The Ganeys with planning from Riley Loves Lulu.

From the bride… Bay Area natives, Matt swam at the University of Virginia and Maddie played soccer at Boston College. As post-grads living in San Francisco, we both joined the Olympic Club to play our respective sports and meet new people. Little did we both know that the club would bring us to each other. We met over a few cocktails one Thursday night at the OClub bar after a swim dinner. We quickly bonded over playing sports at ACC schools, our dear college friendships and our passion for the outdoors. Matt asked me out and that was it. After three apartment moves, a puppy named George, many adventures and four years of dating, Matt proposed on Lake Tahoe’s West Shore with a few of our close friends and family watching. We spent the rest of the weekend skiing, drinking and celebrating our engagement.

Our original vision for our wedding day was a large, black tie wedding at the Menlo Circus Club in Atherton on September 12th, 2020. When covid hit, it took Matt and I awhile to postpone. We had a really hard time letting go of our original wedding dream. Optimists at heart, we thought we might be able to have something of our original plan. We had also grown to love our 9/12/20 date and didn’t want to wait any longer to be married. I spent so much time leading up to the wedding concerned about what our wedding could NOT be and living in my fears about getting married without the big party. Would I feel fulfilled? Would I be upset the day of because my family and friends weren’t present? Would I regret getting married without a bachelorette party, a bridal shower or a rehearsal dinner? Would people want to celebrate us next year after we had already been married for a year? It wasn’t until a good friend (aka my therapist) encouraged me to start dreaming about what our day COULD BE and how I would feel standing at the altar marrying Matt that I started to love the idea of a microwedding. With a newfound excitement, our classic, black tie wedding evolved into an intimate backyard garden party. We pushed the larger reception to next year and shifted locations, deciding to get married on my parent’s property – a home that my grandparents bought in the 1970s. My mother was raised in the house and part of my parent’s wedding day was also there. I spent the morning of our wedding flipping through my parent’s wedding photos. It was so fun to see my parents celebrating their marriage in the same space that Matt and I were about to become husband and wife. Everyone present at the wedding felt and knew how incredibly special the location was. My grandparents always talked about their legacy and loved hosting gatherings in that backyard. Knowing that we were continuing our family legacy in their backyard is truly a feeling that is hard for me to articulate.

When I reflect on our wedding day, our ceremony is by far my most cherished memory. Matt and I both are extremely close to our siblings and we really wanted to include them as an integral part of our ceremony. My older brother Wes served as our officiant, crafting the most touching ceremony mixing the perfect balance between humor and heartfelt. Matt’s older sister Sarah read a poem while Matt’s younger sister Emily, a wonderfully talented singer, sang Can’t Help Falling in Love as the bridal processional and Make You Feel My Love part way through the ceremony.

Matt and I weren’t high on reading personal vows in front of 220 people. We feared ugly crying and it felt like far too much pressure. When we realized we only needed to say our vows in front of 19 people and into a camera for the livestream, we decided to craft our own. I am thrilled we did. We shared our favorite memories, our hopes and dreams for our marriage, and, of course, our promises to each other. It was still daunting and there was most definitely some ugly crying, but hearing and saying those words meant everything to us. At the end of the ceremony, we kissed, and danced down the aisle to Signed Sealed Delivered I’m Yours by Stevie Wonder. Everyone kicked off the cocktail hour crying tears of joy and hugging each other. Every disappointment in wedding planning was worth that moment of pure, unfiltered celebration.

The rest of the evening was spent drinking, toasting and dining around a long farm table under bistro lights. Our family surprised us with a compilation of video toasts from our friends and family from across the country. The toasts – both present and virtual – meant so much to us. Talk about ugly crying. After dinner, we cut the cake in front of our floral arch and under my favorite, “The Murrays” neon sign. We danced our first dance as husband and wife to Diamonds and Twine by Ryan Hurd and kicked off our tito and fresca filled evening. Our silent disco was a definite highlight allowing us to enjoy the party late into the night without disrupting our neighbors.

If I could give my fellow covid brides any piece of advice it is: it will all be worth it. With the help of my amazing vendors, our microwedding enabled me to incorporate some of the details I really wanted into our big day. Monogrammed napkins? Yep! Everyone sitting around one table? Easy! A neon sign dangling from a floral arch of my dreams? Why not!

Having a smaller wedding also enabled Matt and I to focus on what really mattered: our marriage. When the smoke from the fires turned our California sky a dark ominous orange 72 hours before our wedding, we just had to laugh (after sobbing for a bit #2020). We feel so fulfilled from our big day and cannot express enough gratitude to our family and friends who got covid tested to ensure a safe celebration and our vendors who made our wedding day a memory we will cherish forever.

Photography: The Ganeys | Event Planning: Riley Loves Lulu | Floral Design: Apis Floral | Cake: Icing On The Cake | Jewelry: Joe Escobar Diamonds | Catering: Heirloom Catering Company | Hair and Makeup: Hair and Makeup by Moni | Favors: Gracious Bridal | Groom's Attire: Indochino | Venue: Private Home | Bridal Dress: Amsale | Bridal Shoes: Loeffler Randall | DJ & Live Stream: MVMNT DJs | Film Lab: Richard Photo Lab | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Monogram Napkins: The Robin's Next Embroidery | Neon Sign: Neon Pilgrim | Rentals: Hensley Event Resources | Ring Box: The Mrs Box | Styling Mat: Locust Collection | Vow Books: Kelsey Malie Calligraphy | Watercolor Crest: Sterling Design Studio

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Did You Get Engaged Over The Holidays? Checkout Why The Bouqs Co. Might Be The Vendor For You!

With the Holidays behind us, we know a lot of you may be newly engaged (congrats, we’re popping the champagne for you!) and beginning your wedding planning! If you’re at the flower stage (or even if you aren’t) The Bouqs Co. offers luxurious and beautiful florals of the highest quality! Offering both pre-arranged and DIY packages, they have options to fit any vibe from classic and chic to whimsical and wild. Their team is knowledgeable, friendly, and heartfelt, and ready to help you piece together your perfect day! Check out their offerings to learn more below!

Pre-Arranged Package: The pre-arranged packages can be a true time-saver for the couple willing to pay a bit more. They let couples focus on other planning aspects leading up to their big day! The options are endless and customers can tailor them by theme, color, and the number of pieces wanted without sacrificing quality!

DIY Package: The DIY Packages are fun and easy and can be personalized to every bride and groom’s liking – the sky’s the limit! If you are the hands-on type of couple, this is the package for you! Couples often really enjoy putting the flowers together with their friends and family as an opportunity to connect before the wedding…and it aligns with most budgets! Another plus, The Bouqs Co. team provides step by step instructions to make the process seamless!

Why The Bouqs Co. Weddings?
The benefits of working with The Bouqs Co. Weddings are the personalized touch, the freshest florals, easy-to-understand pricing, and customization options. A team member will help you every step of the way and the flowers are shipped directly from the farm, so they arrive in the freshest form for your wedding day! They also offer their new Micro Weddings package for smaller, more intimate events…which is perfect for, ya know, the current times!

If you aren’t sold yet, The Bouqs Co. is one of the safest ways to book wedding flowers in these uncertain times. They offer flexible booking options and because of their farm-direct sourcing, they can guarantee that every couple will get their wedding flowers on their big day, despite changes to Covid-19 restrictions. Safe, affordable, and beautiful – the perfect 2021 wedding flower combo! What more could you ask for!?

Floral Design: Bouqs

Intimate Ceremony at The Fairmont Grand Del Mar

This intimate wedding ceremony will leave you speechless. Naya and Jordan exchanged vows in a private courtyard surrounded by blooms at the elegant Fairmont Del Grand, while guests watched from a safe distance on their balconies. They even had champagne and cake delivered to their rooms! The couple worked with Lavish Wed to create an unforgettable day full of special touches and swoon-worthy details. Natalie Bray Studios captured the charm of the day to perfection. Visit the full gallery to watch the wedding day unfold.



From Lavish WedNaya wore a slip dress from Grace loves Lace that had an elegant floral design for a romantic touch. The bouquet was bright and vibrant with stunning orchids and garden roses as the feature. Jordan chose a wonderful light mauve for a modern groom look.



The ceremony design circled them with luscious blooms from Eucharis Studio that was a modern take on a circular ceremony design. Since the guests had a view from above, we wanted the ceremony to be beautiful at all angles. During the ceremony, Amy Serrano played her electric violin for a memorable walk down the aisle.



All the guests cheered and clapped from their beautiful suites and were delivered cake and champagne to enjoy with the couple right after the ceremony. It was a beautiful day not to be forgotten!



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Photography: Natalie Bray Studios | Cinematography: hello darling films | Event Planning: Lavish Wed | Floral Design: Eucharis Studio | dress: Grace Loves Lace | Stationary: Luxe Marie Stationery | Ceremony Venue: Fairmont Grand Del Mar | ceremony: Fairmont Grand Del Mar | shoes: Christian Louboutin | tux: The Black Tux | Flat Lay Mat: The Flat Lay Styler | Music: Amy Serrano | linens: APR Event Rentals | models: Naya and Jordan | styling board: V Party & Event | veil: Jana Ann Couture

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A Chinoiserie Office Makeover in Connecticut

Spring arrives and all of a sudden we’re ready to redecorate. Does anyone else get that fever too? Well, designer and photographer Erin Kestenbaum found herself doing just that and decided it was time to overhaul her home office! Looking to mix a touch of chinoiserie with a few modern touches, Erin turned to a few of her favorite vintage sources to blend old with new. The office was yet another DIY makeover Erin embarked on in the colonial Connecticut home she shares with her husband. We chatted with Erin about her design philosophies and the vision behind her home workspace.

Tell us a little about yourself and your business?

Two and a half years ago, my husband and I bought our first house: a 1940’s Colonial in Coastal Connecticut that needed quite a bit of love. We have been spending our nights and weekends bringing character to the home, with the goal of using our DIY skills to create spaces that are elevated and look professionally executed. Additionally, I shoot interiors photography for designers local to NYC and Connecticut, capturing their own projects alongside my own, and also work in Marketing for a NYC-based retail start-up.

What’s a typical work day for you like?

While I don’t work from my home office on daily basis, I’m typically working in my office during nights and weekends on editing photos, creating design schemes, and blogging about the progress we’re making on our home projects.

How do you blend your love of interiors with photography? 

Every time I’m designing a space, my first consideration is how the room will photograph: what are the key angles of the room, where is there opportunity to craft a shot, and how will people interact and experience the space. Once a project enters an execution phase, I’m shooting photos in the middle to identify what the space might be missing or identifying visually the opportunities to push the space further. And then finally, once a space is completed, I’m capturing the photos of the space. By working with local designers, I’m also able to assist with styling to capturing other incredible spaces, and sharing that love of both interiors and photography with my clients and the homeowners.

Take us through your office, what was your vision when designing the space? Is it in line with the decor of your home or is this room a little different?

When designing the office, my first focus was on the function of the space and laying out the room to allow for more organization and better flow. By moving the desk to the wall most visible from the hallway it created a natural opportunity for a focal point. I had been obsessing for months over this theme of modern chinoiserie: combining a traditional chinoiserie wallpaper mural with more modern furniture and accessories. In every room I design, I’m looking to infuse modern and traditional design together, and I wanted this space to continue that theme. Once I found this epic Tempaper Chinoiserie Wallpaper, it became an anchor for the room, and all the other pieces fell into place. I like to think of the rooms in my home as siblings and not twins: they all share traditional moulding details (like crown moulding and ceiling medallions), immersive wall treatments, modern lighting and vintage casegoods, and the office fits in perfectly without being overly matching to the other rooms.

What are your must haves for a home office – especially for those that spend most of the time working from home?

My essentials for working in an at home office are a comfortable desk chair (this CB2 one was a huge upgrade from my previous very uncomfortable vintage chair), ample task lighting, window treatments to control glare, and a large monitor for editing photos.

What is your favorite thing about the space? (an item, section of the room, etc.)

This is a toss up between the wallpaper mural – the detailing in the printing is so incredible and the metallic sheen is gorgeous, and the vintage Chinese Elmwood desk that I won at auction – it’s from the late 1800’s and was constructed using only dowels with no nails or screws. It’s an amazing example of craftsmanship that you rarely encounter in new furniture.

Did you go totally DIY on this project or did you have a little help?

We DIY-ed this entire project, from hanging the crown moulding, refinishing the floors, hanging the wallpaper, building the window bench and painting the entire space, we did it all.

For someone looking to revamp their office, where should one start?

Start with your functional needs, because without storage, it will quickly look cluttered and be somewhere that you don’t feel inspired to work.

What are your favorite places to shop for pieces? 

I love vintage furniture and spend lots of time scouring Facebook Marketplaces, Craigslist and estate sales for one of a kind treasures that are both unique and also very budget friendly. I also love working with vintage rug vendors that I’ve discovered on Instagram, like Zartiques, for rugs that bring instant patina, warmth, and character to any room. For non-vintage finds, I love CB2 for modern, clean lined furniture and affordable accessories.

What’s on your home ‘wish list’ right now?

Right now, I’m on the hunt for statement-making outdoor dining chairs, lots of planters for our patio, and a great outdoor rug.

What is one piece of advice you would give to someone embarking on their own DIY home project?

Document everything! There are so many process photos that I wish I had taken in order to properly share exactly how others in my shoes can accomplish the same project.



Photography: Erin Kestenbaum | Interior Design: Erin Kestenbaum

From Kindergarten Classmates to Husband & Wife! See Their Ultra Chic Wedding at Pelican Hill Resort

Today’s adorable couple tied the knot under the iconic Rotunda at Pelican Hill, complete with hundreds of flowers by Bloom Box, romantic drapery and sweeping views. I mean… does it get any dreamier than that?! Lynden Lane left no detail unturned and kept the festivities going off without a hitch, while the couple and their guests danced the night away in an indoor reception dripping in chandeliers. Read on to learn about their love story (they unknowingly were in the same kindergarten class!) and head on over to the full gallery to see all the steal-worthy details – captured by Feather & Stone!

From the couple… The bride and groom both grew up in Seattle nunknowingly were in the same kindergarten class. Aashima’s family moved away and they wouldn’t meet again until Aashima traveled back to Seattle for a work trip. They met again and fell in love. They took their adventures together to San Francisco and started their lives together in the city. The details of their wedding weekend were extremely and they wanted to give their guests a destination and a wedding experience to remember. Looking up and down the coast of California they landed at the beautiful Pelican Hill Resort. 

Next came the design and the transformation plans! As both the bride and groom were full time professionals working in the city they knew that they wanted to be hands on, but needed to work with a team that could completely create, design and plan the wedding of their dreams. Working with the Lynden Lane Co. They focused on really curating items and design elements that would make their guests feel like the event about their experience. Lynden Lane Co suggested that we work with the impeccable Simone Le Blanc to create custom welcome bags with all of our favorite items, but still with the look and feel of our wedding. 

We worked with Yonder Design to create really beautiful invitations, menus and signage that represented the cohesive botanical evening theme of the event. Lynden Lane worked with the Amber Event Production team to create custom valanced drapery and chandeliers that were different than had ever been done in the ballroom. 

Really focusing one unique, but classic fabrics we tried to create a space that felt true to us, but made the guests feel like they were entering a chic dinner party. We danced the night away to the James Gang Band from West Coast Music and David even touted his DJ skills with Red Shoe La at the after party. It was really the best night of our lives.

Photography: Feather & Stone | Event Planning: The Lynden Lane Company | Floral Design: BloomBox Designs | Entertainment: West Coast Music | Wedding Venue: Pelican Hill Resort | Custom Furniture: The Ark Event Rentals | Lighting & Draping: Amber Event Production | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Paper Gods: Yonder Design | Rentals: Theoni Collection | Tabletop: Casa de Perrin

“Crazy Rich Asians” Director Marries His Dream Girl At An Inspired Garden Feté

The wedding in “Crazy Rich Asians” was spectacular, so it comes as no surprise that the movie’s director would have an equally stunning soiree! Jon M. Chu and his bride Kristin teamed up with A Good Affair to create a garden party in Napa Valley full of classic-meets-modern details. Meaningful elements were the focus of the wedding weekend, like choosing the venue Meadowood Napa Valley due to its beautiful trees that share a name with the couple’s daughter, Willow. You won’t want to miss a single detail beautifully captured by Brandon Bibbins Photographhy and Meg Sexton Photography, from the cozy-chic cocktail lounges to the reception complete with a gorgeous greenery installation. Visit the full gallery for a closer look at this unforgettable event.



From Natalie at A Good AffairJon and Kristin came to me wanting to create a unique wedding that would bring together all their loved ones for an unforgettable destination wedding experience. The couple wanted relaxed elegance with white delicate blooms and lots of natural greenery.



On the wedding day, guests arrived on the croquet lawn at Meadowood greeted with artisan cocktails. Jon had this amazing vision to have a children’s gospel choir dressed in all white singing and escort the guests over to the ceremony. They performed during the ceremony and we were all moved to tears.



We created an incredible design with an al fresco tent for the reception. The highlight of the wedding reception was surprise performances from Jon and Kristin to each other. We worked with each of them to plan the elaborate performances choreographed by So You Think You Can Dance star Christopher Scott. They were both so surprised by one another and guests loved it!



Photography: Brandon Bibbins Photography | Photography: Meg Sexton | Event Planning: A Good Affair Wedding & Event Production | Floral Design: Amy Burke Designs | Reception Venue: Meadowood Napa Valley | Lighting: Twilight Design | DJ: Uptown live Band | Band: Uptown live Band | Tent: Zephyr Tents | Beauty: Professional Makeup Artistry | Paper Goods: Bijou Creative | Rentals: Found Rental Co.

Old World Charm Meets Modern Inspiration At The Swan House

Old meets new at the Atlanta landmark, The Swan House. The venue’s neutral tones made for the perfect complement to a colorful mid-summer inspiration shoot. Krissy Campbell worked tirelessly to create a design that mimicked the couple’s full of life and laughter personalities, and the result is a bright and vivid dream come true. You’ll fall head over heels in love with each inspired image by Bonphotage. Take a peek at the full gallery for all the picture-perfect details.



From BonphotageWe were so excited to use brighter color in a meaningful and timeless way while still adhering to the organic, outdoor elements and Old World, timeless elegance of the property. We chose warmer tones in the paper that helped pull out the soft pinks and neutrals of the architecture and kept the floral within the warmer and deep tones to pop off the cooler velvet Mist Blue table linens.



We chose cleaner lines, neutral colors, and modern elements for the contemporary couple through the beautiful clean white china, gold flatware, candle stands, and clear textured glassware from TableMade. Each guests’ name was scripted on soft paper name cards tied with ribbon, and every menu was handpainted with a delicate script and design.



We hope the laughter, life, color, and romance of this day inspires other couples and professionals to continue to have confidence in the details of their story and personality. We love being able to showcase that these customized and fun details can still within the timeless and elevated spheres of design.



Photography: bonphotage | Cake: cake envy | Stationery: Erin Braun Design | Rings: Mineralogy Design | Tuxedo: Commonwealth Proper | Venue: http://www.aAtlanta History Center: Swan House & Grand Overlook Ballroomtlantahistorycenter.com/ | Day of Coordination: Ashlie Muller Celebrations | Floral: Bouquet Atlanta | Gowns, Shoes, Veil:: Claire Pettibone | Linens: I Do Linens | Planning & Design: Krissy Campbell | Tables & Chairs: Peachtree Tents and Events | Tabletop Rentals: Table Made Co. | model: justin burgess | model: jasmine raiford

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This Champagne Cocktail is the Only Rhubarb Recipe You Need to Try

This, my friends, is the only rhubarb recipe you need to make. Add a little bubbly and suddenly even the most anti-rhubarbian will be converted. Promise. Crafted by The Coastal Table, styled by Abby Capalbo and snapped by Erin McGinn, this sip puts a fresh twist on the classic French 75 with the addition of this season’s it girl and it’s perfect for warm weather sipping. Give it a go with the simple how-to below!

From Abby Capalbo… With the perfect hue of pink, this happy little cocktail is as delicious as it is pretty. Pour it in your favorite coupe to serve on girls night or make it the signature cocktail for your next soiree – you can’t go wrong with the The Rhubarb 75. It’s such a fun little twist to the always classic and bubbly French 75.

The Rhubarb 75
prep time
20 Minute/s
cook time
15 Minute/s
total time
35 Minute/s
Serves 1Ingredients
  • Rhubarb Simple Syrup
  • 2 cups chopped rhubarb
  • 1/2 cup sugar
  • 1/2 cup water
  • Ice
  • 2 ounces gin
  • 1/2 ounce lemon juice
  • 2 ounces prosecco, Champagne, or other sparkling wine
  • Lemon slice or twist for garnish, optional
Instructions
  1. Make rhubarb simple syrup. Place rhubarb, sugar, and water in a medium saucepan. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat to low and simmer until thickened, 10-15 minutes. Cool to room temperature. Pour mixture through a fine-mesh strainer, scraping off any syrup from bottom of strainer. Transfer pulp from inside strainer to a bowl, cover, and refrigerate (see cook’s note). Store syrup, covered, in refrigerator for up to 2 weeks.
  2. To make a cocktail, fill a cocktail shaker with ice. Add gin, lemon juice, and 1/2 ounce rhubarb simple syrup. Strain into a flute or coupe glass. Top with prosecco, Champagne, or other sparkling wine. Garnish with lemon, if desired.
  3. Cook’s note: The reserved pulp may be served on top of ice cream or yogurt.

Photography: Erin McGinn | Styling: Abby Capalbo | Recipe : The Coastal Table

DIY Soy Wax Candles

Whether you’re whipping up these little beauties for your wedding favors or for your own home, crafting up candles is pretty much the most perfect quarantine activity ever. With super simple ingredients and a million ways to personalize, candle making has become a hobby that pays off in amazing smelling dividends. We’re currently loving Vanilla & Clove, Beragamot & Plum, Amber & Patchouli and of course Pumpkin Spice…all oils that you can find on Amazon!

Materials

Soy Wax Flakes
Jelly Jar Containers
Wicks
Double Broiler
Glue Dots
Clothing Pins
Spouted measuring cup or bowl

For Wedding Favors:
Vellum Paper
Printer
Scissors or Paper Cutter
Hole Punch
Glue Dots

instructions

Measure out the amount of wax you need by pouring the flakes into your jelly jar (you can use any vessel you want). Multiply this number by 5 or so (you don’t want to melt too much at one time) and place in double broiler. Gently melt over medium heat until liquified.

Let it cool for about 5-10 minutes then add your essential oils. We did about 10 drops for 5 jelly jars worth of wax.

While that is melting, use a glue dot to adhere your wick to your jelly jar base. Make sure it’s in the center because this will help the candle to burn evenly. Set aside

Pour the melted wax carefully into your jelly jars. Use the clothing pin to make sure your wick stays put and in the center.

Let the candle wax solidify then personalize!

We printed calligraphy names onto vellum sheets then used a paper cutter to trim them into 6″ x .5″ pieces. Then, we punched a hole in between “with love” and the names and slid the vellum sheet right over the wick using glue dots on either side to secure.

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Click play to learn how to make our another party pleaser – DIY Wax Luminaries!

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A Micro Wedding at a Historic Landmark Home With the Most Lush, Floral Arch You’ve Ever Seen!

One major perk of a smaller guest count? More of your budget spent on heavenly bloomsToday’s adorable duo will inspire you to splurge in the floral department after laying eyes on their gorgeous day planned by Charmed Events Group. In a romantic palette of dusty pink and white, the two exchanged vows under a jaw-dropping arbor from Janna Brown Designs you won’t soon forget. Later, the newlyweds and their nearest and dearest dined in the coveted courtyard at an elegant long table dripping in roses. Can’t wait to pin every image from this day?! Head on over to the full gallery – captured to perfection by Nadia Hung Photography!

From Charmed Events GroupWhen the pandemic hit, Y+B were steadfast in not only not cancelling, but not postponing their wedding. Their original venue in wine country was no longer available, but they were able to find a historic landmark home to hold their wedding at. With a large adjustment of their guest count, they set out to continue with creating a lush, romantic and beautiful day of dusty rose notes to remember their day by. Even though they had to make large changes to make the day happen, no expense was spared in creating the wedding that they envisioned for their closest family and friends, while their extended family and friends looked on via live streaming. Oh, what a day it was! 

The design consisted of a romantic palette of dusty rose notes, and lots and lots of roses! The first impression the guests received was a beautiful, letterpress invitation we created with Aerialist Press, and we even created the same caliber of invitation for those who got a zoom invite! Guests were welcomed to the venue and were immediately wowed by a lush and romantic floral arch that Janna Brown Designs created. 

This arch was very important to the bride and Janna’s team knocked it out of the park, it’s an arch that we will never forget! After the ceremony, the couple immediately did their first dance under the arch to once again, enjoy the flowers as much as possible. After cocktail hour, guests were ushered to the coveted courtyard of the venue for an intimate and elegant dinner. We created one long table that was oozing with lush flowers and romantic details including lots and lots of candlelight, texture in linens and the most special, personalized menus for guests. The bride and groom enjoyed a magical evening in the beautiful courtyard, surround by family, friends and the magic of a candlelit evening. 

For those that have been forced to adjust and make changes to their original wedding plans, be encouraged by our bride who later said, “I am incredibly grateful that many of the forced changes such as reducing guest count and switching the order of events to accommodate the live streaming experience, were actually a blessing in disguise and offered us a way to be present at our wedding that would’ve been almost impossible otherwise.”

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Photography: Nadia Hung Photography | Videography: Dear Lovers | Floral Design: Janna Brown Design Co. | Invitations: Aerialist Press | Catering: Pascaline Fine Art Catering | DJ: Big Fun DJs | Day of Stationery: Blushtype Designs | Linen: BBJ La Tavola | Lounge: The Copper Rose | Planning and Design: Charmed Events Group, LLC | Private Estate: The Mckendrie House | Rentals: Standard Party Rentals

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Intimate Wedding Ideas You’ll Want To Try Immediately

Bigger doesn’t always mean better! Masi Events created intimate wedding inspiration that is proof that an “only us” ceremony can be everything you’ve ever dreamed of and more. Having to cut down your guest list could be a blessing in disguise. Say hello to a bigger budget for special touches! Just take one look at the elegant arrangements by Julia Rhode Designs, they’re enough to get any bride’s flower-loving heart beating fast. Why not throw in some outfit changes while you’re at it? This bride has not one but three looks that steal the show! The special touches and perfect details were all beautifully captured by Merari Teruel Photography. Visit the full gallery for endless amounts of inspiration.



From Masi EventsThere’s something magical about an intimate, “only us” ceremony. No guest list to worry about, only embracing the traditions that you love (and ignoring the ones you don’t!)



An intimate affair allows you to splurge a little more on things you may not have been able to before, like fashion, decor, or a vintage car! Our bride stunned in three separate looks from The Find Bridal.



The reception space was beautifully styled with tableware in shades of blue from Tavola Tabletop and the night ended with an artful floral cake from Cloud 9 Bakery. Everything came together perfectly to to show couples who are having to downsize that a smaller event doesn’t have to be any less beautiful, joyful or special.



Photography: Merari Photography | Event Planning: Masi Events | Floral Design: Julia Rohde Designs | Wedding Dress: The final Bride | Cake: Cloud 9 Bakery | Ceremony Venue: Nomi Restaurant | Makeup: Alicia Lewis | Hair: Seventh Level Salon | Groom's Attire: Sartori Amici | Vintage Car: Miami Vintage Prop Cars | Rentals: Nuage Designs | Tablescape: Tavola Tabletop

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Every New Bride Needs These Things Right Away, Because Planning a Wedding Is a [Equally Beautiful and Stressful] Badge of Honor

It’s a brand new year, pretties, and we don’t think it would be too out of turn to say that we’re seriously pumped about it! 2020 weddings happened, and they were absolutely stunning (truthfully, we were  – and still are – blown away by how perfect the wedding events and intimate vow exchanges were/are), but that’s a testament to the tremendous talent and tenacity of our industry vendors and tastemakers and, of course, the couples who’ve taken all the lemons (or sour grapes, however you’d chalk 2020 up to be) and turned them into the best small batch lemonade we’ve ever seen (or a glass of Shiraz, because tart but so full-bodied and beautiful). 

Yes, 2021 is here, and while we can all breathe a huge sigh of relief, we’re not totally out of the woods yet, especially when it comes to COVID-related contingencies. It might be a while longer, still, until the wedding world – as ‘it was’ –  is restored, but we’re okay with that, because  – 1) micro weddings are cementing their place in our new nuptials normal and 2) wedding planning might be different and probably will be, but newly-engaged love and a hopeful next step into your happily ever after doesn’t have to be compromised. No one can take those bride and groom titles away from you, so it’s just up to you to make the experience special and put your own stamp on it! First things first, though: stepping into the role of the bride entitles you to ALL the fun things fiancée-ship is good for. So, you won’t want to forget those! 

Photo by Kelsey Combe

From your first wedding planning binder and helpful guidance and inspo to get you there, to the coffee mug you’ll want on hand to perk up those planning decisions or caffeinate that creative energy and the wine glass that will be there for you when likewise happy or stressful crossroads come to pass, Style Me Pretty’s Collection is chock full of all the goods you’ll want to grab as soon as that ring is on your finger. The wedding will inevitably be a beautiful best day ever, but everything that comes before it – all the stamps on your passport to ‘partner in life-ing,’ all the punches on your bride card – from just-engaged to getting married in X (single digit) days – is important too, so why shouldn’t it be pretty? 

Here are our favorites for starting your wedding planning journey, all available to shop now on Style Me Pretty!

Photo by Natalie Bray

A planning guide that’s the GOAT.

Once you’ve found a ring holder for that gorgeous new bling of yours, the next thing you’ll want to snag is a wedding planning book or guide that, simply put, gets you through it. And that’s exactly what we envisioned our Ultimate Wedding Guides doing for brides at every stage in the planning process. 

Highlighting everything you need to know when it comes to booking your planner, finding your dream venue, and securing your spirit animal in a photographer, these digital downloads (yaaas to that, too, because that means you can shop, download, save the PDF, and take your peek at all the intel within minutes #quarantinefriendly) include inspiring images, wow-worthy designs, detailed timelines, and even advice from previous brides! We’ve enlisted the help of our amazing community of Little Black Book vendors to create these educational, step-by-step wedding blueprints and we’ve offered them as individual and bundle-able purchases, which makes skipping around or doing a deeper dive into certain wedding details and decisions so much easier. 

A binder that’ll become one of your prized possessions.

If you’ve got a lot of new reading material on your radar, then of course you’ll need a pretty place to put it all! Our blush and gold bridal planner is total #goals in that arena. Not only is there plenty of room to hold all of your guides, there’s an impressive packette of planning pages (a 12-month calendar, monthly timelines/checklists, budget calculators, vendor contact directories, and worksheets for all the curated event categories: photo and music, cake and flowers, fashion and rentals, etc.) and a sticker sheet to personalize ALL of it. 

A box that will pop up in plenty of places before being passed down.

One of our former brides told us that her ‘bridal box’ was a big part of the wedding planning picture for her. And we SO see her point. If you’re more of a memory box over binder kind of bride (and believe us, we’ve had brides in both camps here at Style Me Pretty), then you’d probably prefer to store all of your important, precious, or sentimental wedding things in something like our Wedding Card Box

Here you can keep your congratulations and best wishes cards, copies of your save the date (when you choose one!), a framed edition of your bridal shower invitation, your shoe bag that’ll hold your stunning stilettos on your wedding day, anything, really, that’s specifically meaningful to you throughout your engagement.

Photo by The Ganeys

And when your big day finally arrives, you can use this velvet-lined box to collect cards and gift envelopes. Not to mention, since it’s so neutral – white with gold hardware and simple ‘our wedding’ lettering on the front – it can be passed down to your sister, cousin, best friend, etc. for their own wedding day. Maybe even a keepsake heirloom for a future daughter! 

A mug and a glass with one mission in mind.

Whether you’re waking up in the morning and starting your vendor research bright and early (easy, breezy, right?) or trying to ease the tension that comes with trimming your guest list (which still might be called for/a best-practice in 2021), if you need some liquid encouragement, we’ve got you girl! 

Whether you’re having a steaming hot chocolate bomb or a light and fruity pour of Lambrusco, sip pretty or go all in on a healthy glass and plan with us

However you start planning your wedding, know that you’ve got a whole hype team behind you here at Style Me Pretty. Shop our Ultimate Planning Guides and don’t forget to indulge in the things that proudly say ‘I’m getting married!!’

Photo by Erica Streelman
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