Fellow moms, mamas-to-be and future mothers, this one is 100% worth a read or a pin for safekeeping. Not only is this family shoot from Brumley & Wells absolutely breathtaking, but the words from mama Ashley Summers of Ashley Nicole Events will tap into the depths of your heart. As beautiful as motherhood is and as much as we hear about ‘the glow’, the reality can be a whole lot harsher at times and it’s easy to get down on ourselves. Read on for Ashley’s inspiring and encouraging words and for a few tips of our own on how to fully embrace the journey that is motherhood!


From Ashley Nicole Events… When I had my Daughter, Storey, 5 years ago, I never wanted my picture taken. I felt horrible about myself and when I had her newborn photo shoot, I gave the photographer specific instructions on “not taking any photos of myself”. Looking back, I was suffering from postpartum and was extremely depressed. Of course I loved my Daughter and loved being a Mom, but personally, I was not myself. I never looked in the mirror and it took me a long time to see myself as “beautiful”. It honestly wasn’t until a year or two after Storey was born, that I actually “snapped” out of it. I started to realize that I was a beautiful Mother. And the better that I felt about myself, the better Mother, Wife and Friend I was.
So when I was pregnant with Philip, I wanted to really embrace my beauty as a Mother. I was determined to not focus on the negative feelings about myself and instead see the beauty in me as a Mom and really see the beauty in my family! I scheduled his newborn photo shoot weeks before his delivery and now seeing the photos, I’m so grateful that I actually went through with it. Being a Mom is hard, especially when you’re a working Mother, but the reward is my family and actually taking the time to have photo shoots like this, its important. I want to continue to capture these moments with my children. Life gets crazy and hectic but its important to remember these days and to see the beauty in yourself and your children every single day. This is something that I’m still learning… every day.
Communication + Your Partner
Becoming a mother is a true expression and symbol of the love that you and your partner have built. But truthfully, it can be challenging (or nearly impossible) for your partner to fully understand what pregnancy and motherhood is or feels like, down to the core. So, it takes a bit of thoughtful communication on your part to make sure you’re expressing what you need or what you might be struggling with. It is wonderful when your partner can take cues with little explanation, but don’t expect them to read your mind. Talk, talk, talk and talk some more if you need.



Don’t Say Sorry.
Stand tall mamas. Are you someone who finds yourself saying sorry to others for things that really need no apology? All the time? Throw that out the door as quickly as possible. Sure, motherhood might make you confident in a way that you’ve never felt before, but a bit insecure in other ways. You will have bad days, your kiddos will do things in public that make people stare and you will feel judgement in choices you make. None of those reasons ever mean you need to apologize to others for how they react to you. Keep this in mind: it’s none of your business what other people think about how you live your life and the choices you make!
Make Time for YOU.
You can never love your family too hard or too much, but you can forget to love yourself too much. It’s so, so important to take time for ourselves to do our best in every aspect of life, but especially when it comes to motherhood! Make it a priority to plan alone time, a day for yourself or with friends, or simply a few moments to be alone at home. Seriously, mark it on your calendar and stick to it. Mamas need to recharge too.




The Beauty of Motherhood.
Wrinkles? They’re proof that you’ve lived a life of joy and laughter. Stretch marks? Proof that you’ve passed on that same beauty of life to another little human being. No matter what physical changes you encounter through pregnancy, always remember that you’re being too hard on yourself. Plain and simple. Your body might never be the same again, but your heart won’t either. Motherhood will make you take a good hard look at what your own definition of beauty is and you might find that to be the biggest lesson of all.


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