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Your Visual Playbook to a Luxe Parisian Wedding

Paris is a city where some serious wedding magic happens. Especially when MC2 Mon Amour, Tuan Nguyen Films, and Greg Finck are involved. Consider this inspiration shoot an ode to their beloved city, ready to inspire the most glamorous of days.

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From the planner, MC2 Mon AmourParis is a symbol of romanticism and elegance so we took the time to contemplate the beauty of our city. At the heart of the most famous monuments of the world, the Shangri-La Hotel, Paris allowed us to create a luxury atmosphere and a perfect wedding day.

The bride is getting ready in the Suite Shangri-La to become “Madame” while admiring the “Grande Dame”. The groom has just some few minutes to wait in the secret garden of the Shangri-La Hotel, Paris to discover his bride, more gorgeous than ever. They climb together the “Escalier d’Honneur” stairs, enjoying every moment spent in the palace at the heart of the most beautiful city in the world.

They discover with admiration the amazing work done by the artisans for their big day!

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Photography: Greg Finck Photography | Cinematography: Ping Pang Films | Event Planning: MC2 Mon Amour | Floral Design: Vella & Bret | Wedding Dress: Printemps | Stationery: Atelier Preszburger | Bride's Shoes: Printemps | Hair + Makeup: Harold James | Suit: Printemps | Venue: Shangri La | Bride's Bouquet + Buttonhole: Floraison | Print: Atelier Stern | Wedding Ring : Bucherer

A Simply Sweet Addison Park Wedding

Silly, simple, and sweet – these are the words this couple uses to describe their relationship. After reading their engagement story (it involves silly dancing – read about it below!) and seeing their classic nuptials photographed by Amy Rizzuto, we have to agree! This is one pretty gallery you won’t be able to get enough of.

From Amy Rizzuto PhotographyAfter meeting through mutual friends on a night when neither were originally planning on going out, Amanda and Steve quickly began to discover how much they had in common. Amanda shares, “Steve graduated and was friendly with my older brother, and I graduated and was friendly with his younger sister. We still laugh about that night because of Steve’s corny pick up lines. It’s like we both just knew instantly that something good was going to come out of us meeting. We went out on two formal dates the following week, and the rest is history!”

Steve proposed to Amanda on the first evening of a trip to Punta Cana. They were out on the balcony in their pajamas watching the hotel entertainment from above. Steve was trying to copy the Latin dance moves as Amanda watched, laughing hysterically. Before going inside, Steve pulled the ring down from a corner of the balcony where he had hidden it earlier and said, “Marry me, baby.” Amanda agreed, and that was it!

When Amanda and Steve tied the knot, I couldn’t have be happier for them! This sweet couple was married at St Robert Bellarmine Catholic Church before heading to Addison Park for an incredible evening of delicious food, dancing, and the type of laughter that makes your cheeks hurt in the best way. Besides the ombre cake, surprise guest book canvas that included their dog, and the cascading flowers around the sweetheart table, my favorite part of the evening was watching how their two families melded into one.

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5 Bold Alternatives To The Mix-and-Match Bridesmaids Dress Trend

For quite a few years now we have seen many bridesmaids dancing down the aisle in a variety of mix-and-match dresses. But, if you are on the hunt for bridesmaids dress options that make a statement, but aren’t sure the mix-and-match trend is for you, look no further! Here are five bold, beautiful options for your bridal party less often thought of and as unique as you.


1. Sassy Separates

Rather than play mix-and-match with each bridesmaid, opt for separates that can be combined in a unique way. Choosing to dress your girls with individual pieces gives you the freedom to combine lace and satin, sequins and tulle, patterns and solids or those two beautifully complementary colors you couldn’t decide between. The sky is the limit and perfectly paired camis and skirts provide a fresh take on bridal party attire.


2. Dressed in White


Who says only the bride can wear white? If you are a little less traditional or you just love a clean, crisp look that sways more modern, then perhaps you are bold enough to go completely monochromatic. White can be an elegant and surprising color choice for bridesmaids and, as long as the bride’s wedding dress differs in silhouette from her party, she will still be the standout.

3. Unexpectedly Bold Hues

Blush and champagne have long reigned supreme when it comes to weddings, with a particular stronghold in the bridesmaid dress department. And while these two ethereal colors are a go-to for good reason, choosing a bright, bold color that compliments your palette, like dark berry for Spring or emerald green for Fall, can give your bridesmaids that fun flair you’re after. Bonus points if your pop color of choice is combined with an eye-catching fabric or lace details.


4. Lovely Textures


It might be that you can’t walk away from that tried and true blush shade, but you are still itching for a fresh take. Try adding dimension by seeking out dresses with obvious texture, like larger, scalloped laces or hand beaded floral patterns. You can keep your color subtle, but still pack a pretty punch.


5. Shimmer and Shine

Metallics are an effortless way to turn up the volume on any bridesmaid’s dress, while giving a unique feel than the ever-popular sequin. For more subtle glamour, you can choose a neutral metallic, like champagne, or you can go full show-stopper with dark-hued navy or merlot shimmer. Either way, your ladies are sure to shine.

Above all, remember that there are endless ways to outfit your bridal party that will make the statement that is right for you, so shop around and have fun trying on loads of dresses with your best girls!

Style Me Pretty Contributor – Katie Patton is merchant and freelance writer from Ohio, currently residing in Celebration, Florida with her fiancé. When she isn’t working you can find her sipping and snacking on a patio, traveling to see her friends and family, endlessly scrolling Instagram or Pinterest and, of course, planning her own upcoming wedding!

No Passport Needed For These 5 U.S. Honeymoons

Ready to book that honeymoon but don’t want to add passport applications to your mile-long to-do list? Or maybe you’d rather skip the long, expensive flights. While your Instagram feed may be filled with Italy and Greece, there’s actually a long list of amazingly romantic honeymoon locales that won’t require a passport. Whether you want the exotic feeling of an uncharted land, or to explore a familiar part of the country in a new way, read on for 5 spots you may not have considered.

Instead of: The Bahamas
Go Here Instead: US Virgin Islands
One look at a picture of these islands’ turquoise waters and lush green landscapes and you’ll want to book the next flight down. The other wonderful secret about these islands is that depending on which spot you visit, you can have a totally different experience, including luxurious resort lounging, rum distillery tours, golf, scuba diving and hiking. In fact, if you have the time, why not island hop?

Instead Of: Switzerland
Go Here Instead: Park City, UT
This might be an obvious choice in the winter if you’re a skier, but did you know the mountains actually make a wonderful summer retreat as well? You’ll find a charming historic downtown area, national parks and trails, cute shops and a whiskey distillery. Find yourself a gorgeous resort, schedule yourself some spa treatments and hikes, and leave plenty of time for lounging by the pool or having breakfast in bed with sweeping mountain views.

Instead Of: Tuscany
Go Here Instead: Sonoma, CA
Wine, charming B&Bs, perfectly mild weather—need I say more? While known for its vineyards, Sonoma is so much more than just wine – you’ll have access to redwood forests, hiking trails, adorable villages, Michelin-starred restaurants, and even the Golden Gate Bridge if you fancy a little city time. You can fill your days with activity or relax poolside (or why not both)!

Instead Of: Cuba
Go Here Instead: Puerto Rico

For a small island, Puerto Rico is jam-packed with culture and adventure—you’ll feel like you’re in another world after a short flight from Miami! Strolls in historic San Juan, swimming and water sports, walks in gorgeous natural settings like rainforests, rum tastings—this place has something for everyone. In the mood for adventure? You’ll find ziplining, jetskiing, kayaking, surfing, the list goes on. For those in the mood to relax, you’ll have luxury beach resorts and urban AirBnBs at your fingertips.

Instead Of: Reykjavik
Go Here Instead: Nantucket, MA
For a completely different kind of island escape (and one shockingly close to the continental United States), try Nantucket. This spot is oozing with charm—you can stay in darling B&Bs, take long walks on the beach, shop in unique boutiques, and eat leisurely meals on sunny porches. Their perfect summer weather is also a plus; there’s something so cozy about still needing to grab a sweater at night and pulling up a chair around a beach bonfire.

Style Me Pretty Contributor – Chloe O’Sullivan is a freelance writer and sales director based in Washington DC (soon relocating to Northern New Hampshire). When she isn’t writing, she can be found trying new restaurants, planning her next trip, or hiking with her soon to be husband.

A News Anchor’s Stylish Elopement

You already know we’re obsessed with elopements – especially when there’s a level of style involved to stop us dead in our wedding-loving tracks. So allow me to introduce this Santa Barbara affair that did exactly that. As a morning news anchor, the bride wanted an intimate celebration out of the public eye, so they found the perfect venue plus the perfect vendors – looking at you Tenth & Grace, Shark Pig, and TEAM Hair + Makeup – and soaked up every second of their big day made for two.

From Tenth & GraceWhen you live in the public eye, the thought of planning a huge wedding in front of hundreds of people can be pretty overwhelming. That’s exactly why our bride – a popular morning news anchor – wanted her wedding to be small and very private. The couple decided on an intimate elopement at Belmond El Encanto in Santa Barbara with only their photographer, videographer, and officiant in attendance.

Belmond El Encanto is the perfect venue for a romantic elopement – it is private and secluded, tucked above in the hills of Santa Barbara with sweeping views down to the ocean. After getting ready in their suite, the bride and groom exchanged vows on the terrace. The couple took additional portraits at Butterfly Beach in Montecito before enjoying their private dinner back at the hotel. All the details that they planned came together perfectly, and – most importantly – their day was just about them!


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Photography: Tanya Menoni | Videography: Sharkpig | Bride's Shoes: Badgley Mischka | Hair + Makeup: TEAM Hair and Makeup | Venue: Belmond El Encanto | Bridal Gown: Nha Khanh

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Proof an Anniversary Session Is Always a Good Idea

Exactly two years after Gabe Aceves Photography captured Eden and Brandon on their wedding day at Pippin Hill Farm and Vineyards, he photographed this beautiful couple once again on a Virginia hilltop during the golden hour. Just like with their classic wedding, this gallery is filled with photo after photo of sheer perfection. If you’re debating an anniversary session, scroll on for proof that it is always a good idea!

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Photography: Gabe Aceves Photography

A Dramatic Cliffside Wedding With Just Nine Guests!

In front of just nine of their closest family and friends, these two said “I do” beneath a gorgeous floral arbor on a dramatic cliff hanging over the Blackfoot River. Rebecca Hollis Photography captured the intimate celebration, and every photo in the gallery makes my heart skip a beat. From the stunning views and the rustic, horse-drawn carriage to the bride’s bohemian gown and wildflower bouquet, this Montana beauty cannot be missed.

From the Bride… George and I frequently drive up to a river called Rock Creek outside of town. It was a warm Saturday in June when George asked me if I wanted to pack a lunch and visit Rock Creek for the afternoon. We hopped in the car and drove with the windows down, parked the car, and started changing into fishing waders. George kneeled down as if he was helping me tie my boot and pulled a box out of his pocket. As he opened the box holding his grandmother’s ring, he asked me to marry him.

An intimate, cozy, and romantic autumn day under the Montana sky with our immediate family members and our dog felt like the most fitting way to spend our first day as husband and wife. It was the first time our family really got to know each other, and experiencing this day together formed a bond between the 11 of us.

The ceremony spot was on a dramatic cliff hanging over the Blackfoot River decorated with a gorgeous arbor covered with eucalyptus and soft, fall-colored roses. The bridal bouquet had burgundy foliage with woody stems, local Montana wildflowers, roses, and sage greens which gave it a whimsical look and feel. Our guests stood around us during the ceremony while our dog chased squirrels down the mountain. My dad acted as the officiant, which made it even more special as he was able to share personal stories about both of us as well as things we had shared to him about the other person.

After the ceremony, we enjoyed drinks, appetizers, and s’mores around an open fire in a field of hills followed by a horse drawn carriage ride to dinner. An acoustic guitarist/singer played music as we ate dinner next to a fire at a gorgeous table with lots of candles. A few songs by our favorite band, Phish, were played as a surprise to us from my mom.

The Chicago Cubs were playing in their final game before they made it to the World Series that night. Naturally with a table full of Chicagoans, there were constant updates of the game during dinner before we decided to move the cake cutting to the rustic bar on the ranch. We ate cake, drank, and watched our team win while we celebrated the night away.

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Photography: Rebecca Hollis | Floral Design: Habitat Floral Studio | Wedding Dress: Daughters Of Simone | Invitations: Noteworthy Paper And Press | Necklace: St. Raine Jewelry | Hair: Boom Swagger Salon | Ceremony Music: Pam Hillygus | Venue: The Resort at Paws Up | Bridal Boutique: Bash Bozeman | Desserts: Black Cat Bake Shop | Earrings: BHLDN | Reception Music: John Floridis

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A Multicultural Summer Celebration in Tuscany

With a Dutch groom and a Vietnamese bride living in Switzerland, this Tuscan destination wedding is truly a blend of cultures! The bride and groom enlisted the help of Trouwen in Toscane and FunkyBird Wedding Design to create their big day, and they incorporated each country represented in the couple’s love story. From the ancient Italian hamlet which served as their venue to the pops of red – a lucky and celebratory color in the Vietnamese culture – in the floral arrangements, FunkyBird Photography captured these special details. See them all in the Vault!

From Trouwen in ToscaneAlthough Nhi and Wesley are a Dutch/Vietnamese couple, they’ve lived their happy lives in Switzerland for years now and planned their Tuscan wedding from there. We guided them through the choice of the wedding venue and the wedding location, as they where not able to come to Tuscany to venue shop as most couples do, due to their busy jobs. As Borgo Petrognano is one of our favorite venues, it was the one we recommended to this beautiful couple along with the chapel of Semifonte, located just one kilometer from this ancient hamlet, which was the perfect location for the civil wedding. We feel really lucky to have know this fantastic couple, and we ere really happy that they trusted us to organize their whole wedding from a distance.

From FunkyBird Wedding DesignI love when a couple gives importance to the floral arrangements – in the end flowers really do make everything look so much more beautiful and richer. For the floral arrangements, Nhi and Wesley wanted a combination of lilac and peach with some brighter pops of color. The blossom bubble spray roses seemed like the perfect choice to start with. They’re such delicate little garden roses, but at the same time they will bloom for quite a long time without water, making them a great choice for bouquets and accessories.

For the boutonnieres and corsages, we paired lilac lysianthus with small peach rosebuds. Whenever a couple wants a lilac/purple themed wedding, I think clematis flowers. Since they’re climbers, they give lovely movement to any type of arrangement.

Clematis looked perfect in the bouquet, and we decided to add some miss piggy and peach avalanche roses. Since red is considered a lucky color in Vietnamese culture and is used for most celebrations, we added beautiful crocosmia stems to the ceremony arrangement and table flowers. Crocosmia has a golden yellow/orange base flowing into bright carmine red tips. Each stem has a lot of small blossoms and looks very cheerful yet delicate. 

Tall white candelabras with full arrangements on the top and glass vases at the bottom with flowers and candles were provided for each table at the reception. All together, we created a gorgeous and elegant look.

From FunkyBird PhotographyIt was really great and easy to work with Nhi and Wesley, especially because Nhi worked as a model in the past. The time passed quickly while photographing the two of them! This part of Tuscany is my favorite because there are so many places where you can take pictures, plus the lighting during late summer afternoons is beautiful and puts everything on an even higher level.

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Photography: FunkyBird Photography | Event Planning: Trouwen In Toscane | Floral Design: FunkyBird | Cake: Il Paese Dei Campanelli | Catering: Il Paese Dei Campanelli | Hair and Makeup: Lara Navarrini | Venue: Borgo Petrognano | Music: Gianluca Baroncelli

Windswept Romance Set on the Irish Coast

Every pretty moment of this shoot plays off Irish lore and symbolism, and it’s that attention to detail we can’t get enough of. The amazing Sophie Kaye Photography partnered with Kate Deegan and a whole team of vendors to showcase the beauty of Irish romance, and the result is nothing short of stunning. Head right this way for so much more.

“Tri na haoiseanna, thar am, mo ghrá. Throughout the ages, beyond time, my love.”

From Sophie Kaye Photography Inspired by a windswept, romantic Irish bride, I created this editorial shoot in stunning County Clare alongside planner Kate Deegan. We pulled in historic Irish details such as a blue wedding gown (a sign of purity in ancient times), a silk handfasting ribbon, and a perfect gold Claddagh promise ring, keeping the styling based on Irish lore and symbolism.

We began our shoot at Gregans Castle Hotel, a beautiful luxury venue tucked away in the prettiest valley and surrounded by green rolling hills. Our second location was Corcomroe Abbey (Mainistir Chorco Modhruadh), built in the 13th century. Noted for its beautiful sculptures and stunning details, we wanted to include the incredible history with the Abbey and our wandering bride, maybe taking a walk before heading to our third location – The Cliffs of Moher – to meet her groom.

Our last space was incredible, with a sea the color of her gown and gold sunlight. While we primarily focused on portraits and letting her and the spaces intermingle, it was wonderful to feel like we were standing on the edge of the earth and imagining her waiting for her husband to be. We wanted each of our spaces to feel painterly, antique, and ancient – involving emotion and beautiful images of a bride about to begin her new life with her love.

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Photography: Sophie Kaye Photography | Floral Design: Victorian Posy | Gown: Milamira | Invitations: Lazywood Lane | Jewelry: Petal And Stones Accesories | Makeup: Elaine Flaherty Smith | Hair Stylist: Gemma Treacy | Venue: Gregan's Castle Hotel | Crown: Anna Marguerite | Model: KT Geoghegan | Planning: Coordination Made Easy | Ribbon: Nettle Textiles | Veil: Anna Marguerite

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How to Design a Teeny Tiny yet Crazy Stylish Nursery

This adorable nursery is the living proof that sometimes really stylish, insanely cute spaces come in small packages. Designer Meg Lonergan had two goals in mind while designing the room…not too girly and not too babyish. The result is a chic mix of designer pieces and store bought details that make for one of the most stylish nurseries in all the land.

Designer Meg Lonergan worked with a close friend on this nursery design as they were pregnant at the same time. In a historic 1920s home, they created a classic, timeless space that didn’t feel to ‘girly’ or ‘baby.’

Lonergan sourced catalogue items, like the lamp from Pottery Barn, paired with custom touches, like the Raoul Textiles drapes and added an antique dresser as the changing table and art by Lulu DK. The result is a warm and cheery room.

 

Interior Design: Meg Lonergan | art: lulu dk | bunny lamp: Pottery Barn Kids | drapery fabric: Raoul Textiles

As if You Needed One More Reason to Fall in Love with Cherry Blossoms

There is a reason Spring is such a popular season for weddings… the blooms! And cherry blossoms are at the top of that Love of All Things Florals list. See how this team of creatives were inspired by that pretty blushing branch with a stunning flower filled shoot including design by Type A Society, florals by Wild Green Yonder, and imagery by Angela Newton Roy. Plus, find even more of that crazy gorgeous dress right here!

This beautiful springtime editorial was inspired by the entrance of spring in the Washington DC area marked by the epic Japanese-gifted Cherry Blossoms to our city. We wanted to give our spring brides inspiration to work into their bridal portraits, invitations, tablescape, and hair + makeup. We have all seen the traditional engagement cherry blossom session, but we wanted to show brides how to do something a little different and get creative with the blossoms by bringing them indoors and utilizing them in the tablescape, styling, and even having them mirrored in the gorgeous Gossamer dress we used on our model. Springtime blooms and branches are a such a unique way to bring floral into your wedding table. Building the arrangement directly on the table giving the illusion of branches organically growing up from the center made the arrangement feel like it was part of the table. I think my favorite part about styling this editorial was the Gossamer dress that literally looked like it was pulled from a cherry blossom tree. The floral applique details were perfection mixed with our beautiful model’s perfect skin tone- made for some stunning portraits.

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Photography: Angela Newton Roy Photography | Floral Design: Wild Green Yonder | Wedding Dress: Marchesa | Wedding Dress: Gossamer | Shoes: Bella Belle | Creative Direction & Styling: Type A Society | Hair & Make Up: Anna Breeding | Menu Cards: Smock | Model: Cima Talent | Paper Suite: Written Word Calligraphy | Rentals: Something Vintage Rentals | Veil & Crown: Twigs & Honey

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Beautiful, Breezy Summer Rehearsal Dinner Outfits

Summer is nearly here, which means wedding season is full speed ahead and warmer temperatures are here to stay. Whether you are the bride, the groom, a member of the bridal party or an honored rehearsal dinner guest, you will need an ensemble that is equally cool as it is fabulous.

Look no further—here are 10 beautifully breezy outfits to inspire all of your pre-wedding summer evening festivities!

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Style Me Pretty Contributor – Katie Patton is merchant and freelance writer from Ohio, currently residing in Celebration, Florida with her fiancé. When she isn’t working you can find her sipping and snacking on a patio, traveling to see her friends and family, endlessly scrolling Instagram or Pinterest and, of course, planning her own upcoming wedding!

A Bridal Luncheon to Inspire All Your Summer Soirées

Since Memorial Day is the unofficial start to summer, what better way to kick off the season of outdoor events than with a pretty, al fresco bridal luncheon? Inspired by the feminine blue and white china she observed at a coffee shop, Drewe Smith, Editor-in-Chief of Focus on the Coast Weddings, worked together with Salt Harbor Designs and Theo Milo Photography to create a beautiful feminine fête at Airlie Gardens. Between the flowing gowns, summery menu, abundant florals, and romantic blue tablescape, this gallery will surely inspire all your summer soirées.

From Drewe Smith… When I traveled to Chicago last spring for a girls’ getaway, I had just started planning the newest issue of Focus on the Coast Weddings. When I walked into The Allis one morning, I was more in search of an iced coffee than editorial inspiration. Little did I know, I would find both. One of the first things that caught my eye was the blue and white floral china my breakfast was served on; decidedly French and feminine, I knew I had to have it. Within a month, my new dishes had arrived, and with them, the beginnings of the photoshoot you see here.

I knew I wanted to feature a bridal luncheon in our newest issue, so as soon as I set foot back in Wilmington, NC, I contacted Theo Milo of Theo Milo Photography and Jennifer Rose of Salt Harbor Designs. We sat down together and envisioned a soft palette of blues and simple, classic details with a touch of romance. Airlie Gardens pergola was the perfect place to shoot, embodying the rustic formality of gardens in the French countryside, complete with a bubbling fountain (which Southern Bee Designs incorporated into the invitations).

The bridesmaids were dressed in flowing gowns of complementary shades from Tusc Boutique. The bride-to-be, outfitted in our signature blue, wore a delicate wrap dress that highlighted the refined jewels provided by Melissa Tyson Designs. Classic wedge shoes from Soul Shoetique completed the outfits. I wanted the theme of understated sophistication to be consistent, so we kept the bridal parties hair and makeup subtle. Beauty Bar Boutique did a fantastic job of channeling the effortless, French cool-girl look by using muted pink tones and giving our bride-to-be a messy chignon.

Choosing the food wasn’t a difficult task. What could be more French than baguettes, oysters, and macarons? Pinpoint Restaurant, one of our personal local favorites, crafted elevated dishes with floral embellishments on sterling silver serving platters and simple wooden cutting boards. Salt Harbor Designs brought the table to life with their arrangement of ranunculus, garden roses, delphinium, parrot tulips, lilac, and privet berry, channeling the color palette of the afternoon.

With the table all set and the glow of flickering candles illuminating the setting, the bridesmaids sat down to celebrate the bride-to-be and their longtime friendship, surrounded by the simple, beautiful things in life. Staying true to our classic theme, Theo Milo used film to capture the essence of the day. C’était magnifique!

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Photography: Theo Milo Photography | Event Design : Salt Harbor Designs | Floral Design: Salt Harbor Designs | Cake: PinPoint Restaurant | Invitations: Southern Bee Designs | Shoes: Soul Shoetique | Jewelry: Melissa Tysons Designs | Catering: PinPoint Restaurant | Hair: Twist & Pin | Hair and Makeup: Beauty Bar Boutique | Venue: Airlie Gardens | Concept + Model Styling: Drewe Smith | Dresses: Tusc Boutique | Fashion Consultant: ADG Fashion Styling | Film Processing: Richard Photo Lab | Models: Christie Doolittle, Kayleigh Winslow, Kenzie Hansley | Produced for: Focus On The Coast Weddings | Rentals: En Vie Interiors

5 Steps to Curating a Wedding Ceremony That’s Perfectly YOU

Having a friend or family member officiate your unique wedding ceremony is personal, fun and, oh — it’s a lot more work. Don’t worry, we’re here to help. Follow these steps to curating a non-traditional wedding ceremony that stays true to you.

STEP 1: LAY THE MUTUAL GROUNDWORK

Before you do any ceremony planning, sit down with your fiancé and have a discussion about what your “ceremony style” will be. Essentially, you have to go on a date to your favorite restaurant to discuss which direction you want to get the ball rolling in. Call this your prescription for wine, pasta, and ceremony planning. How traditional do you want it to be? Maybe you want to do a traditional processional but you want to play your favorite song during this moment instead of the classic one. Are you going to incorporate any religious traditions into the ceremony?

STEP 2: DO YOUR RESEARCH

Grab a cup of coffee and get cozy on your couch—it’s time to get inspired. Books on relationships can serve as useful tools. If you are incorporating religion into your ceremony, look into that religion’s common practices for wedding ceremonies. You can also draw inspiration for ideas from wedding videos online. Any parts of the ceremonies that give you “all the feels” for people that you don’t even know probably should make the cut for your own ceremony!

STEP 3: START BUILDING

There are tons of poetic and beautiful meanings behind many of the unity ceremonies. You can do a sand ceremony, hand ceremony, unity candle, time capsule—the options are endless! Have your officiant explain the symbolism behind the ritual so that your guests can really connect with what you are committing to.

STEP 4: WRITE YOUR VOWS

Now that you’ve selected what you are going to do, you need to decide what you are going to say. If you are writing your own vows, you should start a few months before the wedding. You want to take your time writing your vows so that they feel authentic to who you are, what you feel and what you envision for your marriage. You should discuss the general format of your vows with your partner. This is your chance to use your own voice to share how you feel so just be yourself and speak from your heart.

STEP 5: FINALIZE THE TIMELINE

Before the big day, you need to sit down with your officiant and plan the order of events for the ceremony. Use this time to keep your officiant in the loop about who is doing readings and who will be walking in your processional. Discuss exact wording with your officiant. Do you want him/her to say “you may now kiss the bride” at the end of the ceremony? How should he introduce you before the recessional? Get everything on paper so there are no surprises.

Once the big day arrives, you will have a ceremony that feels authentic to you, your partner and the beautiful love between the two of you.

Style Me Pretty Contributor – Carly Ellentuck is a freelance writer and blogger bride. She is a gal behind the Cozy Curator, a blog that features life + style. Carly lives in Hoboken, NJ with her fiancé. This summer she is getting married on LBI, a small island off the Jersey shore.

Ceremony Music for an Unforgettable Walk Down the Aisle

Your ceremony playlist is the opening to your big day. Your music sets the tone – whether it’s sweet and romantic, fun and playful, or traditional and elegant, the song you walk down the aisle to will be engraved in your mind forever! There’s no right or wrong to ceremony music, make it your own! But if you need a little something to get inspired by, Elevated Pulse Productions is here with the ultimate ceremony playlist. Of course, no matter which songs you choose, the moment your guests and future husband see you for the first time will be unforgettable.

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THE PLAYLIST

“I Wanna Dance With Somebody” by Matt Alber

“Nothing Really Matters” by Mr. Probz

“Quieter Is Louder” by Above and Beyond

“Say You Won’t Let Go” by Pia Toscano

“Ocean Eyes” by Billie Eilish

“Never Gonna Give You Up” by Hannah Trigwell

“Bloom” by The Paper Kites

“Theme from ‘The Search for Everything'” by John Mayer

“I Get to Love You” by Ruelle

“Inside Out” by Madilyn Paige feat. John Allred

“Gold” by Matt Hartke feat.Maggie Peake

“Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic” by Sleeping at Last

Playlist: Elevated Pulse Productions | Cover Image Photography: Vasia Han Photography

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Bachelor Star, AshLee Frazier, Finds Her Happily Ever After

First came the Bachelor and then the Bachelor in Paradise for AshLee Frazier, but it wasn’t until she returned home to Houston that she found her happily ever after. Set on the Groom’s family estate, this day is a gorgeous version of a classic, tented affair planned by Two Be Wed, with florals by Gallery Flowers and imagery by Ashley Streff. Click through the gallery of images for even more of this glamorous day.

From the Photographer… This brides love journey was in the public eye for the last few years through her time on the Bachelor and The Bachelor in Paradise. It wasn’t until AshLee returned to her hometown city of Houston, TX that a friendship blossomed into her true love. Aaron, quickly became her dream man. The love and respect was felt all day. The wedding took place at Aaron’s family’s private estate in the Woodlands overlooking a beautiful lake. This wedding showcased AshLee’s upscale style. Beautiful white flowers highlighted the estate, leading you down the isle and to the reception. A lounge placed in a garden overlooking the dance floor was an elegant touch for those who were looking to relax while still not missing a step. The heart felt speeches were made with sentimental gifts passed between the two and love, laughter, and happiness seeped into the night air. AshLee and Aaron dance was dreamy over a black and white checker floor. As he spun her around, you could see the joy on AshLee’s dace, she truly found her Prince Charming.

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Photography: Ashley Streff | Event Planning: Two Be Wed | Floral Design: Gallery Flowers | Wedding Dress: JLM Couture | Stationery: Wedding Paper Divas | Catering: The Posh Affair | DJ: Avalon Music | Groom's Tux: Hugo Boss | Private Estate : Private Estate | Second Shooter: Live Love Lyke Photography | Tent, Lighting & Rentals: Aztec Events | Wine: Melville Winery

Part Modern, Part Classic This Inspo Session Has Something for Every Bride

Between its historic, neoclassical Water Works venue and the bridesmaids in light blue attire of different styles (including a jumpsuit!), this Philadelphia wedding inspiration shoot reimagines traditional elements by giving them an unexpected twist. A team of local vendors – including Rachel Pearlman Photography, Trousseau Style, Cottage Flowers, and Laurel and Elm – created this masterpiece, which is one part modern and one part classic. So whether you’re a modern or a traditional bride, visit this stunning gallery for endless inspiration!

When the opportunity presented itself to shoot at Philadelphia’s Water Works, our vision of reimagining traditional elements with a fresh, modern twist using a local team of talented vendors became possible.

The Fairmount Water Works, historically and architecturally speaking, is a classic and unique venue, famed for its neoclassical style and its location with views of the city and the water. Our aim was to create something that was one part classic and one part modern, appealing to both the traditional and modern bride. By changing either the color or the design of an element, we demonstrated multiple ways that brides can easily recreate this look on their own. We also wanted to highlight in the design the blues seen in the skyline and river, and our bridesmaids’ gowns by John Paul Ataker were the perfect way to do this.

Clear details like vellum pieces for the invitation suite and handwritten calligraphy by Lewes Lettering Co. on acrylic slabs brought a freshness to the overall vision. For the jewelry, L. Priori mixed timeless jewels with contemporary pieces. The bride’s classic, six-prong solitaire was made new with a v-shaped wedding band and mixed metals. Her right hand sparkled with estate pearls worn with an edgier pinky ring. The bridesmaids wore a mix of heirloom quality estate pieces and modern jewels – we think that family jewels look coolest when styled with fresh diamonds!

We concentrated on having all of our metallics match perfectly, so the flatware, napkins, and centerpiece vessels were all the exact same shade of gold, as if they were all from someone’s personal collection. As a rule of thumb for real weddings, according to Laurel and Elm, never have the linen color match the bridesmaids’ dresses to allow your special guests to truly stand out when seated for dinner! Since all of the bridesmaids were in different dress styles of the same color, we planned to make blue an accent on the table. The color looks like it belongs there, but it doesn’t overwhelm. Pops of soft blue in the floral design also help to tie in the color of the skyline, the water, and the bridesmaids’ attire.

Incorporating soft and natural elements is something that will always be timeless, and we continue to see these elements in lots of modern designs today. The natural leaf place card and the watercolor plates were a great way to join those two worlds – modern and timeless! The traditional layout of the table and shape of the centerpieces mixed with the faceted vases (a nod to the geometric bridesmaid’s dress), modern flatware, and unique salad plate also worked to balance our theme well while keeping everything looking cohesive.

For ​the florals,​​ Cottage Flowers focused on bright colors and fresh designs that blended traditional elements – think classic gold urns filled with punchy pinks and ​standard whites and ​greens​. ​To go with the acrylic chivari chairs, a sweet collection of cascading greenery (mixed with pinks and blues), tied everything together. To add a modern look to the tabletop, geometric pieces accented with floral elements were used as decor. We complemented the classic jewelry created by L. Priori by adding some gorgeous florals to the gold cuffs, mirroring the bridesmaids’ bouquets!

​Hair and makeup for our bride was classic, but a poppy pink lip elevated the look and blended with our bouquet perfectly. Each bridesmaid showcased a different, yet tailored beauty style – from the bridesmaid wearing the geometric gown to the bridesmaid wearing the pantsuit​​. ​

We hope couples will continue to incorporate a mixture of styles – from classic to modern – to make their day as truly unique as they are!

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Photography: Rachel Pearlman Photography | Event Planning: Laurel & Elm | Floral Design: Cottage Flowers | Wedding Dress: Anna Maier | Cake: Queen Bee Pastry | Bride's Shoes: BHLDN | Jewelry: L Priori Jewelry | Hair and Makeup: ONLO | Invitations and Calligraphy: Lewes Lettering Co. | Men's Attire: Commonwealth Proper | Venue: Cescaphe Event Group | Bridal Boutique: The Wedding Pavilion at Van Cleve | Film Processing: PhotoVision Prints | Stylist: Trousseau Style

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A Dreamy Charleston Engagement With the Cutest Ever Pup

Feast your eyes on the cutest ever couple, second only to their adorable puppy. I’m sorry but the minute someone pops a floral collar on a fur baby, I’m a goner. With the beauty of Charleston as a backdrop and Julie Livingston behind the lens, this shoot is a vision of light, airy romance. See even more right here!

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Photography: Julie Livingston Photography | Floral Design: Wildflowers Inc. | Engagement Ring: Croghans

Midwestern Vineyard Wedding with Rustic Chic Style

Amanda and Craig’s wedding might look straight out of California wine country, but this special day actually took place at a charming Wisconsin vineyard. Photographed by Kate Weinstein, the celebration included a handmade pergola for the ceremony plus an evening of dinner, dancing and food truck fun. Take a peek at all the pretty waiting below!

From Kate Weinstein Photo... Who says you need to head to California to get married in a vineyard? Amanda and Craig’s wedding day took place at Over the Vines, a Wisconsin vineyard situated between Milwaukee and Madison. Guests were seated for the ceremony overlooking a beautiful and serene field and Amanda and Craig were married under a pergola garnished with flowers. The groom, Craig, and his father hand built the pergola. Amanda wore a unique peach dress that was custom designed just for her by Monirose Bespoke Designs.

Midwestern Bride styled the day to perfection and pulled together a dream team of Wisconsin vendors. Milwaukee Flower Co. designed the bouquets and floral decor and greenery. The desserts were created by Yield Bakehouse and A La Crate and Event Essential provided the rented decor. The invitation suite and signage was designed by Coqui Paperie.

After the ceremony, guests enjoyed cocktails on the lawn before heading to the barn for dinner served by Carrotbomb Catering. After dinner, they all danced beneath the stars to the Michael Walters Orchestra and enjoyed late night creative dumplings from SoHo Gourmet Cuisine’s food truck.

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Photography: Kate Weinstein Photo | Wedding Planning + Design: Midwestern Bride | Floral Design: Milwaukee Flower Company | Bridesmaid Dresses: Show Me Your Mumu | Catering: Carrot Bomb Catering | Makeup: Haute Blow Dry Bar | Band: Michael Walters Orchestra | Venue: Over The Vines | Cakes + Desserts: Yield Bakehouse | Paper Goods + Invitations: Coqui Paperie & Gifts | Rentals: A La Crate Vintage Rentals | Rentals: Event Essentials | Wedding Dress Designer: Monirose

Weekending Like a Palm Beach Local with this Mini City Guide

If I am being really honest, I never ever go on a trip without first reading each and every city guide I can get my hands on. Because the only thing better than being a local is getting recs from the natives. And that is just what Liz Martin of The Charleston Weekender did. On a recent trip to Palm Beach she went right to the source, a.k.a. this little map of gems from the ladies of Palm Beach Lately. Follow along on her adventures captured by Rachel Red and grab tips for what to see, eat and sip on should you find yourself in the land of palms.

From Liz Martin of Charleston Weekender… Finding great city guides through blogs is usually my version of using a travel agent. I find the best Instagram-worthy coffee shops and discover stores I wouldn’t otherwise have heard of. While in Palm Beach for a work trip, I figured who better to turn to for the best of the best of this fun Florida City than Palm Beach Lately.

Beth of PBL met me at The Colony Palm Beach and dropped off one of her adorable maps from her online shop. After that, I was off to explore the city, which was really walkable/bike-able from the Colony to Royal Palm Way and back. I love exploring a city on foot, because it always leads you to other hidden gems you might not have otherwise discovered. Here are a few of my favorites!

Shop Til You Drop

You definitely have to see Palm Beach’s version of 5th Avenue, Worth Avenue. Even if you’re just going to window shop, it is quite a street. One of my favorite stores is The Island Company, a little more casual than the other kids on the block (i.e. Tiffany and Hermes). This place is all about living that Island lifestyle, and it even has a bar inside. The best part, though, is the back of the store leads out into the most adorable outdoor area. You’ll find more shops, sculptures, and a cute cafe enclosed in a European-style courtyard.

Cocktails With a Side of Ambiance

The Brazilian Court has the most lush oasis feel about it. The clean white furniture really complements the gorgeous greenery in the courtyard, making this the perfect place to have a serene happy hour. I haven’t tried the food, but the drinks were pretty darn delightful! I would have been pleased with just about anything in a gilded pineapple, and my friend really enjoyed her cocktail presented with a frozen orchid.

Delightful Dinner Spots

I have to admit, I ate more than one meal at Imoto while I was in town for the weekend. They have sushi staples and some great dishes like a cauliflower and cashew appetizer. If you don’t want to try just one place, Buccan is right next door. I think it’s really fun to do a little progressive dinner between the two places. Go early to get a good spot, or sit at the bar to chat up the locals.

I saw so many gorgeous sites and foliage along the way. Beth & Danielle’s Palm Beach Lately city guide was so spot on, it even inspired me to create my own city guide for Charleston vacationers! I hope it will inspire you on your next visit to the Holy City.

Photography: Rachel Red Photography | hotel: Colony Hotel | map: Palm Beach Lately | travel blogger: Charleston Weekender