Today’s Bali destination wedding certainly pulled out all of the stops when it came to the details, with the help of planner, Bali Wedding Paradise! From elaborate florals by Rose & Willow to a traditional Chinese tea ceremony to the intricate table designs for the intimate guest list – not a detail was missed. The bride who wore multiple gowns for every part of the day describes the vision and how her city girl background mixed perfectly with her hubby-to-be’s country side to make for the perfect day, all captured by Angga Permana! Take a look below and read all about the planning and the big day!



From the Bride…Jian and I met each other for the first time in a hospital on our first day of work (How unromantic!) — It’s our little inside joke on how we are a classic couple of country boy meets city girl so when it came down to our wedding, we knew we had to incorporate this part of our story into our wedding.
Our wedding took place in the cliffs of breathtaking Bali — The beautiful island nestled between our homes of Australia and Malaysia. We knew right from the start that we wanted an intimate but personalized affair — Our wedding brought together 25 of our closest & dearest with us (We were told later that we had a team of 88 people who brought our wedding to life — It really does take a village!)



For the theme of our wedding, we dug deep into our roots as we wanted every bit of our wedding to have a piece of our story in it. We incorporated rustic foliage to reminisce Jian’s childhood of growing up in the plantations of Cameron Highlands and we added modern elements of crystal chandeliers to represent the big city girl in me (I am also well-known as being a magpie because of my love for sparkly things!).
Our welcome dinner took on a lush & luxurious tropical theme with animal accents with velvet tiger cushions, tropical monkey table runners and calligraphed tropical leaf place cards. We amped up the colors of our actual reception theme for our welcome dinner — From blush to fuchsia, greenery to emerald & jade with accents of gold — Styled entirely by my sister-cum-maid of honor who also happened to be a wedding stylist (Yay, lucky me!). She took it in her hands to design an entire invitation suite and had a larger-than-life floral crown made just for me, just like a tropical princess.



Our invitation suite was designed to give our guests a sneak peek into our wedding, EVERY SINGLE DETAIL WAS HAND-PAINTED. We had our wedding crest which illustrated the exact aisle I will be walking down with our initials. The main body of our invite incorporated lush foliage & chandeliers with an iconic view of our colonial wedding villa. Our envelope liner was one of my favorite parts of the invitation suite — An illustration of the exact view of our ceremony which is right on the clifftop overlooking the expansive sea. We also included an illustrated map of our favorite haunts in Bali as we hope our guests will learn to love Bali as much as we did.
We then kicked start our wedding day to a traditional Chinese tea ceremony whereby we serve tea out of respect & gratitude to our parents for their years of love & care. I had a traditional cheongsam made in a deep shade burgundy (Red is considered auspicious in Chinese culture), with a detachable cape to cater for Bali’s weather — The detachable cape was made to resemble butterfly wings to match my Sophia Webster butterfly heels. My decorator from Rose & Willow subtly added butterfly elements to the rich hues of a red backdrop, set against ocean view. The biggest surprise came when all our guests arrived in traditional costumes.



There were many favorites on our wedding day but our private first look session where we read each other our first letter as soon-to-be man & wife takes the deal. Happy tears ensued when Jian read to me ‘With you, home went from being a place to a person.’ I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to steal a private moment with just the both of you amidst everything.
For our ceremony, our guests were welcomed with refreshing tropical coconuts embossed with our initials (The exact same script on our invites!). We included interactive touches for our wedding such as a Floral Confetti Bar for our guests where we had customized ‘To Have, To Hold’ pouches for the confetti. We chose a lush floral arch with hanging chandelier, perfect juxtaposition against the cliff & rolling waves. Our wedding vow books read ‘With My Whole Heart’ and the other ‘For My Whole Life’, which really struck a chord with me.



I walked down the aisle to ‘La Vie en Rose’ which was actually the song we heard a street performer played (while we danced to ourselves on the streets of Paris as though no one was watching) minutes before Jian proposed to me in the city of Paris. It was so surreal when we were pronounced man & wife at the edge of the cliff facing the endless sea, with all the people we love behind us — It was a moment that neither of us will ever forget in this lifetime.
I loved the idea of an all-white bridal entourage. My bridesmaids wore boho dresses of their own choosing, with layers of fringe and tassel, a contrast from my Monique Lhuillier beaded trumpet dress with a detachable overlay tulle skirt (I eventually changed into a white jumpsuit at night for our first dance reusing the exact same Monique Lhuillier detachable overlay tulle skirt!!). Rose & Willow made me the dreamiest bouquet with my favorite florals to match our dresses — Peonies and cascading pale pink orchids.



Our wedding reception started with a sparkler welcome as we danced our way through a floral tunnel adorned with crystal chandeliers to The Best Day of My Life by American Authors. Our decorator went above and beyond for our reception — We were greeted with lush hanging garden dripping with crystal chandeliers over every reception table, set against sunset hues overlooking the sea. Our dance floor had our initials hand-painted on, again with the same script from our invitations. We had a 4-piece live band playing our favorite songs and it was hilarious when my mom stole a moment to herself on our dance floor. Our wedding favors were luggage tags to celebrate our love for traveling — We had a live customization booth for our guests to initial their luggage tags. Again to celebrate our love for traveling, we named our tables after our favorite cities.
The craziest thing I did for my wedding would definitely be having my 3 designer wedding dresses made in 3 different countries — The fitting schedule was insane, I was always flying between Australia, New York, Singapore & Indonesia!! And if that wasn’t crazy enough, I decided at the 11th hour that I was wearing a gorgeous fuchsia crochet lace dress from Marchesa for our welcome dinner and another white jumpsuit for our first dance. In saying that, I wouldn’t change A THING as it was truly the best day of our lives.
Final piece of advice — No matter how hard we planned, there were bound to be surprises — My grandparents had to cancel their flights last minutes, the closure to my wedding dress snapped before I was about to walk down the aisle and a stranded guest but the biggest advice I can give is to kick back, soak it all in & laugh over the mishaps as you are already walking away with the biggest prize — Your man!



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Photography: Angga Permana | Videography: Balimetro | Event Planning: Sinly, Bali Wedding Paradise | Floral Design: Rose & Willow Weddings | Wedding Dress: Monique Lhuillier | Cake: Ixora Cakes Bali | Reception Venue: The Ungasan Clifftop Resort | Engagement Ring: Tiffany & Co. | Bridesmaids' Dresses: ASOS | Catering: The Ungasan Clifftop Resort | Calligrapher: Crafted By Day | Calligrapher: Pi Calligraphy | Wedding Favors: Rove Gifts | Bridal Robe: Amanda Barden | Bridesmaids' Robe: Homebodii | Decorator: Rose & Willow Weddings | Make-up & Hair: Yenny Gunawan | Qipao: Stella Lunardy | Reception Dress: Jessicacindy | Rehearsal Dinner Venue: Cuca Restaurant | Veil: The White Atelier | Wedding Band: Akustika Bali | Wedding Conceptualizer/Stylist: Soiree Lab | Wedding Heels: Sophia Webster | Wedding Heels: Chanel | Wedding Heels: Christian Louboutin | Wedding Ring: Cartier | Welcome Dinner Dress: Marchesa
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