6 Cute Ways to Ask Your Flower Girl
February 22, 2018
You've said yes. You've asked your bridesmaids. But there's still one important ask to be made. If you have a little girl in your life who you'd love to see as your flower girl, make her day by asking her to be part of your wedding in a special way!

Here are a few ideas to get your wheels rolling. Don't forget — always ask her parents first!

Gift her a piece of jewelry. If she's the type of little girl who loves to play dress-up, she'll feel incredibly grown up. Bonus points if you give her something she can wear on the big day! Etsy has tons of great options.


Curate a fun party box. Similar to the bridesmaids trend, you can create a box for your flower girl with things like candy, glitter, and a fun picture book.

Write her a letter. Go the sentimental route by putting into words why exactly she means so much to you and how honored you'd be to have her by your side on the most important day of your life.


Create a personalized puzzle. This would be such a sweet way to make the ask! You'll never forget her face when she realizes what it's revealed.

Take her out for a special one-on-one ice cream date. If she's someone you're incredibly familiar with, like a cousin you've babysat since her birth, treat her to a special dessert and make the ask in person.

Ask her and the ring bearer together. If they're in the same area, see if you can snag both the little girl and little boy for the big ask. It will be so cute to see them get excited together for their big moment!

Style Me Pretty Contributor - Claire Swinarski is a writer and podcaster based in Wisconsin. When she isn't writing, she can be found obsessing over football, eating a burrito bowl, or hanging out with her husband and son.