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Spring Park Wedding in NYC

For all those couples who find themselves wanting something a bit more out of the box. Or for the bride who considers her nuptials one big art project rather than a formalized affair…this wedding, sweet ones, is for you. It’s a simplified – yet totally stylish – approach to the New York affair, and Isabelle Selby captured it all right here.

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From The Bride…Justin and I got engaged in Ditch Plains, Montauk, while we were out on a hike. It was the first place we had ever gone on a couples trip. It was drizzling and I didn’t feel well but he insisted we go on a hike. Needless to say, I did not see it coming and wondered why he was so nervous all day. He got down on one knee, ring in hand and just called my name, nothing else. I was too busy taking pictures of rocks to turn around but when I did, I was so shocked all I could do was cry. After calling our families, we got back to the house and celebrated with friends.

Initially I wasn’t very into the whole wedding planning process. I didn’t consider myself a “bride-y” girl. As a child I never dreamt about what my wedding would look like. So when we got engaged I didn’t know where to start. We considered eloping but couldn’t imagine not sharing such a special day with our family and friends. When we decided to have a wedding, we both knew we wanted a small gathering, only close family and friends. First thing I did was try on dresses without much expectation because I wasn’t into bridal wear. To my surprise I ended up at the perfect place because the hardest part of my dress process was choosing between Jenny Packham gowns, as all her dresses are so beautiful and so special. However after trying the dress I would eventually choose (the second dress I tried on) I couldn’t stop thinking about it. It just felt comfortable, easy.. just perfect!

Justin and I had a long engagement; we figured we’ll be married for the rest of our life’s and really wanted to enjoy being engaged. A year before our wedding we started to look at venues. The second we found New Leaf we knew it was perfect. Aside from how beautiful the Cloisters and Fort Tryon park are, I grew up playing there so it had special meaning to me. We also loved how it felt so far away from the city while still being in the city. Once we confirmed the venue, everything else fell into place. I envisioned our wedding to be effortless, elegant, simple and romantic. I really wanted the focus to be on us and our love, no other fuss.

I did a lot of research on vendors, my thing was quality over quantity. I was very specific about my vision and what I wanted. “less is more” were words I lived by, which in the wedding world can be harder than you’d think. Justin’s mom is a master gardener and tremendously creative, so she helped with so many things- from the favors (honey, candle and soap) which she handcrafted from her beehives, to the plate cards, to the arbor. As you can imagine, her garden is phenomenal. Every spring we go through her garden and pick out bouquets of wild flowers to bring back with us to the city. I really wanted our flowers to look as if they were effortlessly picked from her garden.

All in all our wedding felt like a big art project and I found myself really enjoying the planning process. I now joke that I enjoyed it so much I should change careers paths and become a wedding planner. We were so happy with all of our vendors, everyone really did a great job even when faced with every wedding day’s worst fear- rain! It stopped raining for just enough time to have our ceremony and a beautiful light cracked through the sky as we said our vows. The rain actually enhanced the mood because it gave us a beautiful, moody and romantic lighting. It was truly a magical day. We even had a rainbow to prove it!

Photography: Isabelle Selby Photography | Wedding Dress: Jenny Packham | Invitations: Hartford Prints! | Ceremony: Grand Ferry Park | Reception: New Leaf Restaurant | Bride's Shoes: Tabitha Simmons | Engagement Ring: Polly Wales | Makeup: Katherinna De La Cruz | Hair Stylist: Fredrick Fekkai | Favors: DIY By Groom's Mother | Groom's Suit: Paul Smith | Arbor: DIY By Groom's Mother | Bar And Cocktail Area Flowers: DIY By Groom's Mother | Bar And Cocktail Area Votives: DIY By Groom's Mother | Bride's Earrings: Bianca Monros Gomez | Bride's Jewelry: Cat Bird | Escort Table Branches: DIY By Bride | Floral Arrangements: Sprout Home | Flower Girl Crowns And Baskets: DIY By Bride And Groom's Mother | Getting Ready: The NoMad Hotel | Groom's Shoes And Tie: Thom Browne | Photobooth: Photobooth Planet | Plate Cards, Table Numbers And Escort Tags: DIY By Groom's Mother | Programs: Hartford Prints! | Save The Dates: DIY By Bride And Groom | Wedding Band: Satomi Kawakita

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Rustic-Glam Brooklyn Wedding

When you pair a rich purple + sparkling gold palette in a city chic setting, pretty thing are bound to follow. Just take these NYC nuptials captured by Brklyn View Photography. Think an edgy take on urban romance with pin-able moments all along the way. Grab your coffee, dive in and enjoy.

From Brklyn View Photography… When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible”. It’s probably the most famous quote from “When Harry Met Sally” (an all-time favorite of mine) and sums up the love between Adrienne and Steve perfectly. These two are meant to be together. The happy couple included this quote as part of their vows during their romantic wedding ceremony at the Brooklyn Winery and there was not a dry eye in the room.

From the love and emotion that swept through the winery, you could see their happiness blossom as they became husband and wife. Adrienne looked radiant in her lace wedding gown and intricate gold and crystal headpiece from Twigs and Honey. As a creative couple, Adrienne handcrafted many of the weddings details which included hand stamping the escort cards, designing the invitations and using a few of their favorite movie stars as table numbers. Adrienne & Steve are one of the nicest, sweetest and most thoughtful couples and I’m so honored I could be part of their wedding day. I’m beyond thrilled for them and wish them lots of love and happiness for many years to come. Congratulations Adrienne & Steve!

Photography: Jainé Kershner Photography | Florist: SPINA | Reception Venue: Brooklyn Winery | Brides Shoes: Sam Edelman | Bridesmaids Dresses: Dido Bridal | DJ: Scratch Weddings | Grooms Attire: Men's Wearhouse | Accessories: Twigs & Honey | Brides Dress: Lovely Bridal Shop | Dessert: Peter Pan Donuts | Getting Ready Locaiton: Brooklyn Photo

Lazaro Trunk Show At Bridal Reflections

Brides-to-be, gather round, we’ve got some exciting news to share! On Thursday, August 28th from 4-8pm, Bridal Reflections is hosting an exclusive Trunk Show + end of summer event for the Lazaro Bridal Collection. And get this — you’ll be able to meet designer Lazaro Perez and have him sketch your gown!

This incredible trunk show will showcase the Fall 2014 Lazaro Collection filled with glamorous gowns featuring exquisite beading + embroidery and dramatic silhouettes. Known for impeccable fit and cutting edge fashion, this Lazaro collection is something seriously special.

The trunk show will run from August 28-30th at the Bridal Reflections Carle Place salon (80 Westbury Avenue, Carle Place, NY 11514). To book your appointment, call 516.742.7788. Special pricing will be available during the show. Happy dress shopping, my dears!

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Manhattan Rooftop Wedding at Tribeca Rooftop

Equal parts elegant, chic and stylish, this Tribeca Rooftop wedding is everything I hope for when I lay eyes on a NYC wedding. Everything and more. It’s timeless yet packed with this couples’ personality, leaving us with a gallery captured by Lauren Gabrielle Photography too fabulous to miss. 

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From The Bride…From the moment we were engaged we both knew that we wanted a signature NYC wedding! We envisioned a very modern and intimate wedding, but with our own personal and traditional Greek touch.

Once we visited Tribeca Rooftop, we knew that was it! The skyline view was magnificent- I mean being able to have a rooftop wedding was a sure plus! The entire view of NYC just never gets old, and we knew all our local guests and of course out of towers would surely be blown away!

Right away my Pinterest-ing and blog hunting skills went straight to work! Style me pretty was one of my top favorites, which luckily brought me across our extremely talented photographer, Lauren Gabrielle and cinematographer, Tweed Video.

We had the greatest experience working with Lauren. She was such a pleasure to work with and share our special day. She captured all our amazing moments, including the tears, laughs and everything in between. We are able to relive our wedding each and every time we look through our photos.

Of course the same feeling goes across to Tweed Video! Their work is outstanding! The sneak-peek of our wedding in the amazing mini video had gone viral among all our friends and family, before we received the real deal. The entire wedding video captured the true essence of our day, from beginning to end.

The staff at Tribeca was extremely friendly and reliable, specifically Mark and George. They were available to answer all questions and concerns for the party, including being able to add personal touches to the room. As an anxious bride hoping to have everything fall into place nicely, the staff did everything they could to make sure of that! From the beginning of the night, all our guests were able to taste our wonderful signature drink. The end of the night was perfectly set up with our Greek sweets buffet table for all guests to taste and enjoy the many different homemade treats.

With all these planned elements, the beautiful sunny weather while surrounded by our most loving and supportive family and friends, our wedding day was everything we wished for, and more!

Photography: Lauren Gabrielle Photography | Videography: Tweed Weddings | Floral Design: Ben's Florist | Wedding Dress: Monique Lhuillier | Invitations: Lion in the Sun | Reception Venue: Tribeca Rooftop | Jewelry: Saks Fifth Avenue | Hair: Charles Elias Salon | Groom's Attire: Isaia | Bridal Shoes: Miu Miu | Groom's Shoes: Prada | Music: Hale Koa phineas Estate

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Upper Story by Charlie Palmer

When it comes to iconic Manhattan locales, the D&D Building is at the top of that list, so when renowned Charlie Palmer Group announced they would be opening Upper Story, a premier private event space in the stunning space in November of 2014, let’s just say we were smitten!

Offering breathtaking views from the 14th story with oversized windows and an incredible, expansive balcony, Upper Story will be a totally luxe + modern space for your next celebration. Perfect for showers, rehearsal dinners, engagement parties and weddings, the space can be split into two separate spaces (accommodating 80 and 100 guests) or can be combined to accommodate up to 180 for a seated dinner! The jaw-dropping venue will also offer couples state-of-the-art audio visual equipment as well as a bridal suite.

Fresh, modern and able to be transformed no matter your style, Upper Story is a brand-new must-see for NYC brides. I’m already thinking up an excuse to have my next party! For more information, head over here or check out Upper Story on Facebook. Happy planning, dears!

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NYC Rooftop Wedding at the Nomad Hotel

Stylish doesn’t even begin to describe this stunning soiree at the The Nomad Hotel captured by L&L Style Photo. Not.even.close. I suppose that is to be expected when a Glamour fashion editor ties the knot, but seriously, it doesn’t get better than this. With a gown that will make your jaw drop and a couple that defines chic, this gallery is beyond.


From L&L Style PhotoWe’d love to share with you to one of our recent NYC weddings. Paula and Henrique live in Brazil but love New York and wanted to get married here inviting their family and friends to a wonderful wedding party which took place on the rooftop of the Nomad Hotel, one of our faves! Paula works in fashion as editor of Glamour Brazil and we were really excited to capture her wedding in style. The celebration was memorable, full of details chosen carefully by the wedding planners and designers. The bride wore a gown by Brazilian designers Patricia Viera and Atelier Maria Mendes and blue Valentino shoes. The overall look was so glamorous we were delighted beyond words… But more importantly is that they looked so happy together!

Photography: L&L Style Photo | Wedding Planner:: Fernanda Monfrinatti Of Help Bride NYC | Florist: Karma Flowers | Hair And Makeup: G Junior | DJ:: Infinity Event NJ | Brigadeiros Wrappings:: Ma Sweet Cases Forminhas | Ceremony And Reception: The NoMad Hotel | Production: Divine Elegance By Deirdre LLC | Sweets Table & Brigadeiros: Sweet Corner | Wedding Designer:: Jewel Georgieff Wedding Design

Fall Hudson Valley Wedding at The Roundhouse At Beacon Falls

Ciro Photography is to thank for filling your screen with gorgeous this morning by way of this stunning fall fête at The Roundhouse At Beacon Falls, and it’s sure to start your week off in the prettiest fashion. It’s a beautiful blend of cozy and chic, which leaves us with a gallery that is just the bees knees.

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From The Bride And Groom…We were extremely lucky to be surrounded by the love of so many friends and family members at our October wedding in Beacon, NY. We met while rock climbing in New York City, and spent many lovely weekends outdoors in the Hudson Valley, so finding a venue that captured the beauty of the area in the fall was wonderful. The setting—the Roundhouse at Beacon Falls–could not have been more lovely. We woke up the morning of our wedding in rooms overlooking the waterfall, did yoga with family and friends, and took photos in one of Beacon’s many parks after getting ready. The extraordinary Catherine Bourdeau from the Brooklyn Ethical Culture Society officiated, and Irene Woodward of True Blooms created the floral arrangements. Of course, Rich of Ciro Photography for capturing these details with heartfelt and beautiful photos.

Photography: Ciro Photography | Floral Design: Irene Woodard | Wedding Dress: Justin Alexander | Reception Venue: Roundhouse | Shoes: Maraisusa | Makeup: Studio At Stephanies | DJ: Scratch Weddings | Grooms Attire: Calvin Klein

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Top of the Rock Engagement Session in New York City

New York City creates the most magical backdrops for session like this one. And when those backdrops are paired with a gorgeous couple and a talented photographer like Abby Jiu, that’s when we hit SMP engagement session gold. It leaves us with a gallery that simply can’t be missed, and you can get lost in all the lovely here.


From Abby Jiu Photography….Katie and Mitch live in New York City and wanted an engagement session to reflect the great times they have had in the city. We chose the Top of the Rock for the amazing view of the beautiful city.

Photography: Abby Jiu Photography | Rooftop: Top Of The Rock

Urban Chic Winery Wedding

I have a little theory that Brooklyn couples have the most style-driven weddings we ever come across. Case in point? This chic Brooklyn Winery soiree shot by Julie Saad that checks every love off the list. We’re talking long, wooden farm tables, textured, purple florals by G! Designs and paper goodies from Lana’s Shop that simply can’t be beat. Dive in here and see the pretty for yourself!

From Julie Saad Photography… Kelly and Jared were married on March 15th at the Brooklyn Winery, a fitting venue for the adorable couple considering their courtship. The Manhattan duo’s first official date was at Clinton Cove, a park along the Hudson River, which features a giant sculpture of a wine bottle. As their relationship progressed, they traveled together to Italy and visited a winery in Tuscany, where Jared proposed. The wedding completed a wine-themed courtship trifecta.

Kelly’s stunning wedding dress prompted her flower girls to proclaim that she looked like a princess. Her groom, Jared, blended an elegant tuxedo with shiny black sneakers. The guests watched the ceremony at the winery and then danced the night away at the reception.

Photography: Julie Saad Photography | Floral Design: G! Designs | Cake: Butter & Scotch | Ceremony Venue: Brooklyn Winery | Reception Venue: Brooklyn Winery | Bride's Shoes: Badgley Mischka | Rings: Ar Morris | Bridesmaids Dresses: Various | Makeup: Perfect Faces By Jessica | Hair: Maria V | Band: The Loyales | Additional Jewelry: Brooklyn Charm | Air Plants For Party Favors: Lazy R's Back Yard Bargains, Assembled By Bride And Groom | Bride's Dress: Rosa Clara | Bride's Shawl: Sew U Designs | Decorative Musical Instruments: Vintage | Flowers Girls' Baskets: Handmade By Mother Of The Bride | Garters: Hanky Panky | Groom's Tie: Calvin Klein | Guest Book: Julie Saad Photography | Invitations, Programs, Table Numbers, Misc. Signage: Lana's Shop | Music: Lucy Music | Wine Charms: Handmade By Bride

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Springtime Wedding in Brooklyn

Spring might be a good nine months away, but the second I locked eyes with this Brooklyn Botanic Garden wedding I’ve been hoping and praying it’d show up a wee bit sooner. With trees in all their fully bloomed splendor, there’s never been a more perfect setting to swap vows, and Rebecca Yale Photography documented the day in gorgeous fashion. Have a peek right here!

From Rebecca Yale Photography Kelsey and Noah’s Spring wedding in the Brooklyn Botanical gardens was a true celebration of Spring and love! After a terrible winter in New York City we felt Spring would never come, but on the day of Kelsey and Noah’s wedding the skies cleared, the sun shined on the newly blossomed cherry blossoms and we were given a perfect Spring day. Kelsey and Noah were married under the shade of a beautiful tree in a meadow in the gardens and then celebrated with their friends and family in the Palm House at Brooklyn Botanical Gardens. The afternoon felt like a joyous garden party and they let the beauty of the gardens and the flowers take center stage, picking up the light pink of the cherry blossoms throughout the day in the details from the bride’s shoes to the groom’s tie.

Light poured in from the glass roof of the palm house giving the laser cut place cards and menus a beautiful dimensionality as it created shadows on the white table cloths. The guests were serenaded by a 3-piece band with oldies, each song hand chosen by Kelsey. Perfectly fitting the garden party motif, the bride and groom gave cans of seeds as a thank you to their guests before making a grand exit through a cascade of yellow and pink rose petals to a vintage yellow taxi.

It was so wonderful to capture genuine moments of love and joy between Kelsey and Noah. I knew they would be so much fun to photograph when we first met and she told me- “We both love the color green, spicy food, and, of course, each other.” Kelsey even had inscribed in Noah’s ring “I love you most” one of my favorite details of the day!

Photography: Rebecca Yale Photography | Floral Design: Seaport Flowers | Wedding Dress: Stephanie Allin | Invitations: The Paper Source | Ceremony Venue: Brooklyn Botanic Garden | Reception Venue: CharlesSallyCharles Catering @ The Palm House | Shoes: Badgley Mischka | Bridesmaids' Dresses: J.Crew | Catering: CharlesSallyCharles Catering @ The Palm House | Makeup Artist: NYC Faces | Groom's Attire: Black Lapel | Groomsmen's Attire: Indochino | Film Processing: Richard Photo Lab | Photography - Assistance: Orange Blossom Photography | Second Shooter: Emilia Jane Photography | Wedding Veil: Stephanie Allin

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Twinkling Summer Wedding Inspiration in Brooklyn

Twinkling market lights, exposed brick, boho-chic gowns from Gabriella Bridal Salon, an array of locally grown treats from Naturally Delicious… it can only be the likes of an artisan-driven Brooklyn fete at The Green Building. It’s a styled soiree that will have your head turning at every beautifully crafted, foodie-loving, glowing moment from Rock Paper Scissor Events and Kat Harris Photography. See it all here!

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From Kat Harris Photography… Summer is upon is, and to me that means late nights on patios with friends surrounded by twinkle lights, good wine, yummy food, and lots of laughter. As I recently moved to Brooklyn from LA I am learning there is quite a “Brooklyn Culture”. Brooklynites enjoy all things artisan. I’ve yet to meet a person in Brooklyn that was not a foodie. The Brooklynite is also passionate about local agriculture and American Made products.

For the Brooklyn Bride and groom there is no better place to experience the perfect mixture of a Brooklyn Artisan Wedding other than The Green Building. Local cuisine extraordinaire Loren of Naturally Delicious is a highly sought afterr caterer for the Artisan couple. A lot of her ingredients are locally grown, and all fresh!

Together we created the ultimate summer wedding for The Brooklyn Bride from: restored wooden tables to Brooklyn made vodka for moscow mules, to twinkle lights and exposed brick to a simple yet unique floral bouquet. The Brooklyn Bride is a foodie, she is a a bohemian at heart yet encapsulated by elegance and grace, she cares about craftsmanship, and the quality of her products, and where they are made. And there’s no better time to celebrate than under the warm blanket of a summer night on the East Coast filled with family, friends, good music, impeccable food, and of course twinkle lights!

Photography: Kat Harris Photography | Catering: Naturally Delicious | Florals Design, Tablescape, Production: Rock Paper Scissors Events | Hair + Make-up: Face Time Beauty Concierge | Model: Brynn Watkins | Papaerie: Swiss Cottage Designs | The Green Building: The Green Building | Wedding Gowns: Gabriella New York Bridal Salon

Bridal Reflections Galia Lahav Trunk Show + A Giveaway!

My dears, get ready to mark your calendars, because Bridal Reflections is hosting an incredible trunk show from August 6-10th, 2014 featuring designer Galia Lahav! Showing a brand-new bridal collection, La Dolce Vita as well as her first ever evening wear collection, Moonstruck, this is a seriously special event you won’t want to miss.

Known in Israel and abroad for her unique and luxe designs, Galia Lahav’s collections are truly spectacular. Focusing on elegant style, incredible European fabrics and beautiful detail work, these fashion-forward dresses are perfect for the modern bride wanting something a little bit different.

To make an appointment from August 6-10th at Bridal Reflections’s Fifth Avenue salon for the Galia Lahav show, call 212.764.3040. OH, there’s more my dears!

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The Prize: A lucky reader will win a $250 gift certificate towards any purchase at any of the three Bridal Reflections salons!

To Enter: Comment on this post with your favorite Galia Lahav gown!

To Win: One winner will be selected at random and announced on WIUP on Friday, August 8, 2014.

Terms & Conditions: Can all be found right here.  Good luck my dears! xoxo

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Bridal Salon: Bridal Reflections  | Gowns: Galia Lahav

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DIY Vineyard Wedding at the The Old Field Vineyards

Monday mornings call for weddings just like this one. A wedding that will inspire you as much as it will make you smile – kicking the week off in the prettiest of fashions. Captured beautifully by Raquel Reis Photography, this entire gallery is worth some serious attention, so grab you cup of jo and join me here


From the Bride…I was drawn to the idea of a “DIY wedding,” but quickly came to learn that I had to be thoughtful about which projects to take on order to maintain my sanity. The key to everything coming together was staying organized and my wonderful coordinator/lifesaver, who set up dozens of boxes worth of decorations the morning of our wedding, along with our dad’s who carried wine barrels to the beach and bravely hung lanterns and signs from the trees on the property.

I used re-purposed frames, windows, and scrap wood to make all of the signs for the wedding, a task that turned out to be surprisingly relaxing during the chaotic days before the wedding. I have to give credit to my mother-in-law, who turned out to be the DIY queen of our wedding. She spray-painted wine bottles gold to serve as table numbers/vases, and also made the menus and place cards for the tables.

We turned to places like Etsy, BHLDN, Pottery Barn, and even IKEA for the rest of the décor. My parents’ basement was stuffed to the brim with bottles, jars, lanterns, luminaries, votives, napkins, straws etc.
One of my biggest projects turned out to be the cigar and scotch lounge on the beach, which was my wedding gift to Joe. Now Joe is the guy that has everything, so traditional gifts were out of the question. A celebratory cigar on the beach with his favorite people is more valuable to him than any physical gift. Also, he is an amazing gift giver and I almost never can pull off an equally perfect surprise gift for him, so I had to take advantage of this opportunity.

As I know nothing about cigars or scotch, I had to do a fair amount of research as to what I should get as well as all necessary accessories. I borrowed wine barrels from the vineyard to serve as a “bar” and added lounge furniture to the rentals. I also got adorable matches that read “Joe’s Cigar Lounge” for him and his friends to keep as favors. I still can’t believe that it all came together and stayed a secret until the wedding!

We chose August 24th for our wedding mostly because I have three weeks off at the end of every August (perfect amount of time to relax, get hitched, and honeymoon). Luckily, I also happen to think this is the best time of the year on the North Fork, when the weather is almost always perfect.

Well, if we were going to get married over the summer, it had to be on the North Fork. Not only does it come alive in the summer, but it’s also where Joe and I met and fell in love. Though we live in Brooklyn, we spend most summer weekends with our families out there – it’s worth sitting through 3 hours of traffic. We chose to have our wedding and reception and The Old Field Vineyards for two reasons. It was on the water and they make incredible wine – two features very representative of the North Fork. I also love the idea of having the whole event at this one location, where guests could enjoy the entire stunning property and flow from ceremony to cocktail hour to reception without a pause in the festivities!

Our ceremony came together last minute, but turned out wonderfully. Our guests were greeted with beverages and simple yet lovely musical accompaniment of a single acoustic guitar. We chose contemporary music for the ceremony, I was able to peek through a trellis to watch our friends and family walk to The Beach Boys’ “God Only Knows” and I walked down the very long aisle with my Dad to the Beatles “Here Comes the Sun.” We chose short but touching vows and managed to get through them without tears or stage fright. By far the most special thing about our ceremony was having friends and family participate. Each of our godmothers did readings (Joe’s sister and my aunt), and we were married by Joe’s high school English teacher. Joe’s younger sister gave the most thoughtful and touching of speeches – she truly had everyone reaching for tissues. At the end, everyone danced down the aisle and onto the bar to Dean Martin’s “That’s Amore!”

Aside from getting married (woohoo!), the most special thing about our wedding was being able to spend some truly amazing times with our favorite people! The week before the wedding was a nonstop celebration with all of our family and closest friends, a wonderful time that we will never forget!

I never would have shopped for a dress if it wasn’t for my mom, who lit the fire under my behind to start the process. We first went to a few boutique salons in New York, where I got a taste of what I liked and didn’t like. I realized that I was not the kind of bride who would have an “Ah-ha” moment when I found my dress. So when my mom begged me to go to Kleinfeld’s, I went in with the mindset “now you have seen everything, so you pick your favorite.” I chose my dress because, as my consultant pointed out, it was the one that I smiled the most in and always went back to. I am so grateful for her advice, because I felt unique, pretty, and most importantly like myself on my wedding day!

I borrowed my Kate Spade earrings and feather clutch from Rent the Runway – a truly no-fail service.I chose 3 styles of long chiffon dresses for my 7 gorgeous maids. I loved how elegant and flattering they were while still being beachy. The girls each accessorized with their own belts, shoes and jewelry to make the dress their own.

We chose black suits for the guys to contrast the pale dresses the girls wore and also because I think that Joe looks oh so dapper in black! Joe’s nieces and nephews served as our adorable flower girls and ring bearers, and wore similar outfits to the bride and groom with blush accessories.

I think that I somehow arrived at my “style” throughout the planning process. I knew that while I wanted guests to feel relaxed and comfortable at the wedding, I still wanted elegance. It was important to me that the wedding to have stylish and beautiful elements without being stuffy or cliche. I went by the principal that, as long as I was choosing everything, it would somehow become cohesive by representing my tastes. It was so fun getting to see it all put together on the day of the wedding! Everything from the bridal party to the tables looked even more gorgeous than I could have ever imagined. In the end, I think we were able to pull off a style that was worthy of a stunning summer night and vibrant party!

It was important for Joe and I to use as many local resources as we could, as the North Fork has so much to offer. We served wine from The Old Field, our amazing florist used seasonal and local flowers, we served locally grown produce and locally caught fish, and we brought in cookies and ice cream from nearby shops.

Photography: Raquel Reis | Wedding Coordinator: Valerie Hallock | Floral Design: Moments in Time Floral Design | Dress: Reem Acra | Wedding Dress: Kleinfeld Bridal | Ceremony Venue: The Old Field Vineyards | Reception Venue: The Old Field Vineyards | Bride's Shoes: J.Crew | Bridesmaids Dresses: J.Crew | Catering: Peter Ambrose Catering | Hair And Make Up: Special Effects Salon & Spa | Suits: Ralph Lauren | Hotel: Greenport Hotel | Tent: The New York Tent Company | Band And Musicians: Current Affair | Brides Accessories: Kate Spade | Ice Cream: Magic Fountain, Mattituck | Macaroons: D’Latte, Greenport | Rentals: Party Rentals Ltd, Bridgehampton | Robes: Plum Pretty Sugar | Stationer: Smock | Stationer: Lion in the Sun | Wedding Rings: Pesselnik & Cohen Inc., New York

Eclectic Urban Wedding at the Brooklyn Winery

Brooklyn Winery seems like a dream wedding location; a little pocket of easy elegance in the middle of a bustling city. And for a Bride and Groom that wanted a wedding centered around relaxed fun – boom. I think this wedding is just what the doctor ordered. The team behind this day is to thank; talents like Denise Fasanello FlowersExquisite Affair Productions and Betsi Ewing Photography. Take a peek at all of their handiwork right here.

From The Bride…We met at a dive bar in NYC. Stephen was with some friends, and Genevieve was with a friend sitting at the end of the bar. Stephen, who was originally standing, eventually sat down and started inching his way over as seats opened up. Genevieve had definitely noticed him but was trying very hard to ignore him. When Genevieve’s friend (a guy friend from college she ran into, used to date one of her friends) went to the bathroom, Stephen swooned in. Guy friend ended up saying goodbye, leaving us alone, Stephen’s friends also left…the rest is history!

Our wedding theme was relaxed and fun. Once we decided on a the location, the ideas and pieces came together slowly as went through the motions…I did not have a defined idea of how it should all finally look, but I did not feel the need to stick to tradition.

My friend did my invitations, we had loads of fun finding the right look and feel. I loved our entire wedding  and having all our friends and family in the same space was amazing. The dress was one thing I spent more money on…could not find anything I liked at all so I had to up my budget. We did save a lot of money on the invitations, my friend did a nice discount.

Herbs, garden roses and others were in my wedding bouquet, I really wanted a natural romantic feel to them. I love peonies but they weren’t too in season and sometimes don’t hold up well.

The only thing I would have done differently is maybe eaten more cake, it was soo good! Chocolate on chocolate!!

My only advice is to have fun! And don’t sweat the small stuff!

Photography: BETSI EWING STUDIO | Coordination: Exquisite Affairs Productions | Floral Design: Denise Fasanello Floral Design | Wedding Dress: Romona Keveza | Invitations: Lauren Cartagena | Make Up: Laramie Glen | Hair: Styles On B | DJ: DJ Small Change | Officiant: Hope Mirlis A More Perfect Union | Wedding Venue: Brooklyn Winery | Getting Ready: Wythe Hotel | Hair Piece: Hushed Commotion | Honeymoon: Italy (Florence, Capri, Ravello) | Save The Dates, Thank You Cards And Place Cards: Wedding Paper Divas | Seating Chart: Type & Love Paperie

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Romantic Hudson Valley Wedding

This gorgeous day hits all of my wedding sweet spots.  The perfect combo of laid-back and totally elegant, it’s a breathtaking Hudson Valley setting mix and mingling with lush florals from Pola Rebisz, crazy gorgeous colors and an 80’s cover band dance party.  Did someone say Journey?  Yes, please.  See it all captured beautifully by Raquel Reis in the full gallery.

From The Bride… As long-time city residents (I’m from NYC and Mat’s from London), we wanted to venture outside our usual stomping grounds for our wedding celebration. The majestic setting of Onteora Mountain House was exactly what we were looking for — not too far to travel for our NY area friends and family, but distinctly non-urban and, frankly, breathtaking. It was more of a trek for our UK based guests, but we knew that they would appreciate having an excuse to get off the beaten tourist track to experience the natural beauty of the Catskills.

We wanted the ceremony to express our personalities, so we didn’t pay too much attention to the conventions of traditional wedding ceremonies. I walked down the aisle to an 80’s classic — Yaz’s “Only You”. One of Mat’s oldest friends officiated (so there was lots of humor), and Mat’s sister sang Elton John’s “Your Song”, accompanied by my brother on keyboard.

The weather held out long enough for our ceremony and cocktail hour to take place outdoors, but drizzle set in shortly after we moved into the rustic pavilion for our party, which — if anything — made the warmth of the barn-like interior even cozier and more welcoming. We partied like it was 1999 to an 80’s cover band, closing out the night with a group-rendition of “Don’t Stop Believin'”. It was an amazing night.

DIY Elements… A friend of ours helped us design our wedding invitations, which we letterpressed ourselves at The Arm in Brooklyn. I also (painstakingly!) handmade the escort cards by embossing our guests’ names on different colored paint chips, and packaged our party favors in mini-brown paper bags.

Photography: Raquel Reis | Videography: Yasuaki Nakajima | Florist: Pola Rebisz | Wedding Gown: Birnbaum and Bullock | Bridesmaid's Dresses: Jenny Yoo | Catering: Blue Mountain Bistro | Graphic Design: Sarah Clingman Perla | Manor: Onteora Mountain House

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A Classic Tented Affair at Glenmere Mansion

A Bride that isn’t afraid to jump on the bed in a gorgeous J. Mendel gown is my kind of girl. She’s also the kind of girl who’s wedding captured by Shawn Connell For Christian Oth Studio is so beyond beautiful. Imagine a weekend filled with a rehearsal dinner as pretty as they come, a ceremony draped in blooms, bocce ball while sipping on cocktails, and dinner and dancing under a glamorous tent. It’s classic as classic can be crafted by Bowen & Company with florals by Lewis Miller Design and you can see it all here.

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From Bowen & Co Elizabeth and Ryan wanted to spend as much time with their family and friends as possible, so they opted for a weekend-long celebration in the beautiful Hudson Valley. Both love the great outdoors and immediately envisioned the festivities taking place outside with water views. After touring multiple venues with the couple, we discovered Glenmere Mansion in Chester, NY. With recent renovations complete, the 1900’s Gilded-Age Mansion has been reinvented as a luxury boutique hotel and spa just an hour from the hustle and bustle of NYC. After strolling the beautiful Italianate villa and expansive grounds, Elizabeth and Ryan were sold. They loved the fact that the 18 guest rooms could accommodate their family, the unique spaces and gardens could host the various events throughout the weekend, and the brand-new state-of-the-art spa would be a destination for guests to indulge in a bit of pampering and relaxation.

All of the guests, even those staying off property, were invited to enjoy the beautiful grounds on Saturday morning and afternoon prior to the Ceremony. The bride and groom lined up plenty of activities to keep everyone entertained, as guests were treated to their own private, luxury resort for the day. Bocce, croquet, tennis, biking, and the couple’s favorite food trucks that drove up from NYC to serve lunch were among the fun activities on offer. Custom blankets, embroidered with the couples’ custom-designed monogram, were also provided to guests as they picnicked on the grounds and took in the breathtaking views from every side.

One can plan every last detail of their wedding, but weather is always a gamble in any season. As a last minute shower moved in to our area for the ceremony, we moved the ceremony from a bluff overlooking the lake to a tented terrace. Here, we maintained the gorgeous views of Glenmere Lake and the fall colored foliage, but guests and wedding party were safely tucked under cover. However, quick thinking was required as our team rallied to shift the floorplan. Luckily, Lewis Miller, one of NYC’s top designers, was on hand and had the brilliant inspiration to move the chuppah to the center of the tent with all guests seated around the couple. We began to lovingly refer to this set-up as “chuppah in the round.” Positioning the chuppah this way made for a more intimate and personal ceremony, and as the ceremony came to an end, the clouds parted, revealing a dramatic sunset for the happy couple.

Since these concert goers love music and Ryan is a musician, great music was a must when planning the wedding. The entertainment throughout the evening consisted of a string quartet (the bride actually walked down the aisle to Beethoven), jazz trio, 14 piece band, DJ and percussionist. They chose a playlist that would appeal to guests of all ages. A lively, swing dance set beckoned guests into the dinner tent, with a variety of standards from the American Songbook during dinner, and an after-party ensued with today’s pop hits.

Elizabeth and Ryan wanted to make sure their guests were well fed and fueled up all weekend long ,so they provided custom tote bags filled to the brim with their favorite indulgences. Items included black and white cookies from William Greenberg Desserts, pretzels from Martin’s Pretzels Union Square, and BBQ Pop Chips. Each item was branded with designs that were cohesive with the look of their save the date and given a new name in their romantic theme. An emergency kit filled with aspirin, 5-hour energy, and other boosts bore the message “To keep you healthy and strong and dancing all night long.” Lastly, they included a weekend schedule so guests wouldn’t miss a beat of this amazing weekend.

Elizabeth and Ryan wanted something that screamed romance, and I think their wedding did just that. Lewis Miller used soft and pale flowers such as English roses and Dahlias with pops of greenery to create a lush bouquet for the bride. The centerpieces were comprised of mismatched vessels and candles so that no two tables were exactly alike. There was tons of candlelight, lanterns suspended from the fabric-draped tent canopy, and sparkling silver which made the tent twinkle.

Having incredible food was essential to the couple, who cook often and enjoy the vibrant NYC restaurant scene. The wedding menu was inspired by their love of comfort foods such as mac and cheese, braised short ribs, and pumpkin whoopie pies.

The dual-flavor cake was designed by Nine Cakes. It was comprised of chocolate and vanilla cake with white chocolate buttercream, plus the groom’s favorite coconut cake with coconut buttercream. The cake was on display during the reception but was given to guests as they left the post brunch as a sweet take away.

Photography: Christian Oth Studio | Videography: Films by Francesco | Event Planning: Bowen & Company | Floral Design: Lewis Miller Design | Wedding Gown: J. Mendel | Cake: Nine Cakes | Cupcakes: Baked By Melissa | Stationery: House & Paper | Reception Venue: Glenmere Mansion | Bride's Shoes: Jimmy Choo | Bridesmaid Dresses: Morgane Le Fay | Catering: Laurence Craig Catering | Lighting: Luminous Designs | DJ: Generation Events | Band: Hank Lane Music | Favors: La Maison Du Chocolat | Rabbi: Tom Weiner Of Congregation Kol Ami | Tent: Stamford Tent & Event Services | Beauty: John Olavarria | Blankets: In 2 Green | Bride's Veil: Tia Mazza | Custom Tote Bags And Luminaries: Henya Direct | Directional Signs: The Freckled Owl Studio Etsy | Floral And Decor: Lewis Miller Design | Groom's Tux: Z by Zegna | Rentals: Party Rental Ltd.

Boho Montauk Rehearsal Dinner + Wedding

Every day is a pretty-fest on this corner of the blogosphere, but when our friends at Christian Oth Studio stop by for an all day recap of their loveliest weddings of the season? Well, that’s something worth celebrating. With not two, not three, but four weddings on the agenda, we’re in for a serious treat and it all starts with this Montauk stunner brought to life by Sofia Crokos Events and Sag Harbor Florist. First up, the rehearsal dinner and keep scrolling for the gorgeous big day.

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Without further adieu, Katie and John’s gorgeous wedding…

Makeup by Dani Levi Beauty

From Christian Oth Studios… Katie and John were married September 28th at Crow’s Nest in Montauk, NY. The rehearsal dinner and after party were at Surf Lodge which is also where the groom and groomsmen got ready. Katie’s dress was from Stone Fox Bride and the silk slip dress that she changed into at the end of the night is actually her senior prom dress.

Photography: Christian Oth Studio | Videography: Hart Pictures | Cake: One Girl Cookies | Makeup: Dani Levi Beauty | Hair: Regina Carter | Lighting: Matt Murphy Event Lighting | Wedding Venue: The Crow's Nest | Event Planner & Designer: Sofia Crokos Events,LLC | Paper Design: Bliss & Bone | Rehearsal Catering: La Brisa | Rehearsal Floral Design: Sag Harbor Florist | Rehearsal Venue: Surf Lodge | Rentals: Party Rentals Ltd | Wedding Catering: Nick And Tonis | Wedding Floral Design: Raquel Corvino | Wedding Tent: The New York Tent Company

Modern NYC Loft Wedding

The modern design lover in me is geeking out and it has everything to do with this Manhattan “I do” captured by Robert And Kathleen Photographers. Of course, the pretty comes as no surprise when the Bride happens to be the floral genius behind The Mini Rose Company. She brought on Mary Bradley Events to help design the day, and results are a gallery of clean lines and minimalist perfection.

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From Robert & Kathleen PhotographersThinking about how weddings should look is something that comes naturally to Samantha. An incredibly talented floral designer, she knows weddings inside and out. They are, quite often, her job. But knowing how they should look and experiencing how they feel for the bride and groom are two very different things. A complete Type A personality, Samantha thought of every detail and made sure everything was in the best hands with event coordinator Mary Bradley, so that, once she was in her gown, she could stop planning the details and start living in the moments.

When the final buttons we fastened on her gown, Samantha stood still, looking radiant bathed in the light of the large loft windows. A stillness came over the room for a few seconds, an acknowledgement of the significance of the day that was about to unfold. Then, there were some tears and a few excited hugs from her very best friends. All that was left to do now, was wait. Wait for the man who had changed Samantha’s life simply by becoming a part of it, the man who made her happier than she ever could have imagined. The man who, in a short time, would become her husband. She was placed in a seat of honor and with the women she held dearest in her heart by her side, and she waited for him. The room filled up with friends and family greeting her and holding her hand as she offered them blessings.

When the music shifted, she knew it was time. She heard the singing first, the sound of men’s voices together in song getting louder as they got closer. They were in a circle, surrounding Myles. When they were nearest to her, the circle opened. There he was. In keeping in tradition, Samantha and Myles had not seen each other for a week before this day, and the looks on each of their faces said that the wait was well worth it. Myles was speechless, gazing with wonder at the gorgeous woman before him. Samantha was beaming, the joy and excitement radiating from her face. The room grew quiet as Myles walked over to her. He whispered in her ear and, ever so gently, placed her veil over her face. She held back the tears as she looked up at him smiling, knowing that in just a few short minutes she would see him again at the front of the aisle.

Throughout the ceremony and reception that followed, one thing was made unmistakably, undoubtedly clear: if there is one thing Samantha is even better at than floral design, it’s picking a husband. And that’s saying something. As you’ll see from the stunning arrangements of vivid blooms, flowering branches, and soft candlelight, Samantha knows how to make a wedding beautiful. But what’s even more evident when you see the way she and Myles look at one another, is that Samantha knew just how she wanted to feel on her wedding day – the way she does every day when she’s with Myles.

Photography: Robert & Kathleen Photographers | Event Planning: Mary Bradley Events | Floral Design: The Mini Rose Company | Shoes: Vince Camuto | Caterer: Oasis | Hair: Marina Vance | Band: Nafshenu Orchestra | Venue: Studio 450 | Make-Up Artist: Olga Shikhris

Whimsical Manhattan Wedding

There are a lot of reasons this wedding is completely awesome (the forever smiling bride and groom, the vibrant color scheme, the amazing florals from Sweet & Flower), but if I had to pick a favorite moment, it’s the crazy cute trio of musicians totally rockin’ post-ceremony.  I mean… is this the most adorable way to celebrate you’ve ever seen?  (Answer: YES.)  See it all captured by Ciro Photography right here.

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From the Bride… Tad and I wanted a wedding that was quintessentially New York, because it’s the city where we met and live. Once we saw the Bryant Park Grill in midtown Manhattan, we knew it was the right place! The wedding day was a beautiful sunny warm spring day, perfect for a rooftop ceremony and cocktail hour with sunset pictures in Bryant Park.

The style of our wedding was shabby chic. We wanted to add in a lot of personal details and styling to make it our own. We wrote our own vows, made photo booth props, built our own wedding website, served signature “Mr.” and “Mrs.” cocktails, and even blinged out the bridesmaids shoes with Swarovski stones that matched their belts. Kim from KTorres Designs did an amazing job incorporating our whimsical NYC theme through the entire wedding. We took the sketched skyline from the invitation envelope liner and had it printed on the thank you canvas bags.

For our color theme, we picked romantic peaches grounded in a sophisticated gray with accents of citron green and hot pink. Our talented florist, Kea from Sweet and Flower took this color palette and used it to create a floral ivy wall as a backdrop to our ceremony as well as organic centerpieces. She even decorated our simple white fondant chocolate cake with a few flowers which complimented the dessert bar that was filled with delectable cake pops, mini pies and macaroons made by Anne Marie Noonan of the Bryant Park Grill.

Inspired by the wedding scene in “End of Watch”, Tad and I took dance lessons from NY Wedding Dance to create a choreographed number that weaved together a classic slow dance with a hip hop ending. We surprised everyone when we busted out into a little MC Hammer “Can’t Touch This” number halfway through our wedding song “Crazy Love”. This really set the mood for what we wanted — a lighthearted wedding filled with lots of fun and laughs with our favorite people. DJ Accurit from Scratch Weddings had the versatility to provide classic pieces for the ceremony and cocktail hour, as well as modern hits to keep everyone on the dance floor during the reception. We were having so much fun that we extended the party for another hour!

One of the best decisions we made was choosing Rich of Ciro Photography. He has an incredible gift for capturing real and beautiful moments as they are happening. We are so glad that we have his work to remind us of our amazing day for the rest of our lives!

Photography: Ciro Photography | Floral Design: Sweet & Flower | Wedding Dress: Anna Maier | Shoes: Aruna Seth | Makeup: Julianna Grogan | Hair: Helen Reavey | DJ: Scratch Weddings | Hotel: Bryant Park Hotel | Venue: Bryant Park Grill

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So we all know planning a wedding takes a lot of time and care. And you want to remember it! Which makes choosing who will be there to capture the most intimate and magical moments of your day kind of a big deal. So we’re here to introduce you to Marissa Decinque, wedding photographer extraordinaire. Keep scrolling for a peek at her catalogue.


From Marissa Decinque Photography…  Specializing in retro romantic style of images, my favorite weddings are inspired by old-fashioned romance set in vintage style locations. I love the fairy tale side of the wedding day and look to capture all of its detail and beauty. I’m great at working with couples and  helping them feel comfortable in front of the camera. I also  use natural light when ever possible so images feel real and elegant. As a photographer, knowing when to let things happen and when to make things happen is the secret to great wedding photography.
My team and I work seamlessly  and unobtrusively throughout the day so you can enjoy the moments as they unfold. We take ordinary things and use light and style to make them extraordinary.

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Welcome to the family Marissa Decinque! xoxo