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Romantic Italian Destination Wedding from Daniele Del Castillo

It’s official.  I am getting married in Italy.  Sure, I may not be engaged just yet, but all of you potential suitors out there… take note.  Because this breathtaking day captured beautifully by Daniele Del Castillo? It’s happening.  Right down to the cozy intimate atmosphere, beautiful lavender accents and beyond stunning Rocca di Benano setting.  See every last glorious moment (and I mean glorious) right here in the full gallery.

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From the Bride… Ever since I was a little girl, I always imagined having a wedding in Italy. When I suggested Italy as our wedding destination, Ben was immediately on board. We both love to travel and an adventure in Italy seemed like the perfect way to celebrate our marriage. Better yet, it would be the trip of a lifetime that we could share with our immediate families and our very dear friends, totaling 16 guests. We picked June for the weather and chose the 27th, which was towards the end of our week-long stay to allow enough time for the last-minute details.

Our goal was to keep the wedding simple and intimate. We chose a villa located in the small Umbrian town of Benano. The villa, Rocca di Benano, is a beautifully restored 1,000-year-old hamlet. The rich history of the villa appealed to us, but perhaps it was the Etruscan cave converted into a wine cellar that was the favorite of our guests. Our immediate families stayed with us for the entire week, and the villa accommodated us perfectly.

The villa sits on the town’s piazza, across from which is the small church where our ceremony was held. Ben’s childhood best friend, Caleb, was our officiant. With his thoughtful memories and beautiful words he made the ceremony a truly heartwarming and personal experience. We asked Ben’s Step Father, Don, and my Godmother, Mikki to read a poem at separate points during the service. As two very important people in our lives, it was so touching to have them participate.

Since neither of us have traveled to Italy before, nor did we have the resources to scout out the area with a preliminary trip for planning, we relied heavily on the help and guidance from Karen Smith, one of the owners of Rocca di Benano. Karen recommended our caterer, Doriana Ottaviani from Cooking for You. Doriana and her team took care of the table, chair, and linen rental, along with delivery, set up, and clean up. Communicating via email, Doriana came up with a brilliant menu. Out of all the eating we did in Italy, our reception dinner was, by far, the best. Every course was better than the next and each was paired perfectly with an Italian wine. Instead of a wedding cake, Ben and I opted for tiramisu.

We planned on having lavender for our wedding arrangements, however, it was a bit difficult to find any at the local florist. We really lucked out when we visited Palazzone for a wine tour. They had tons of lavender and were happy let us pick some. The fragrant purple flowers were arranged into simple bouquets and boutonnieres by our mothers.

The burlap decorations, including the bunting, were inspired by projects posted on Pinterest. We kept things simple as to not take away from the charm and ambiance that surrounded us. The reception was held in the piazza and our small group of guests, including our fabulous photographer, Daniele, sat around one large table. It had been quite some time since Benano had seen a wedding and there was lots of excitement from the loving residents of Benano. They were all so warm and inviting, welcoming us to celebrate our wedding in the middle of their town.

So, in a small, Italian village surrounded by over a thousand years of history, amidst the excitement and love of the local neighbors, our dearest friends and our loving family; we got married. It was our dream wedding and, despite the difficulty of planning so far away, everything worked out perfectly.

Photography: Daniele Del Castillo | Reception: Rocca di Benano | Hair Stylist: Amy Marlow of Subculture Hair Design

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Romantic Italian Destination Wedding from Matthew Moore Photography

There are weddings you adore and then there are weddings you ADORE… drop-dead gorgeous affairs that are so utterly beautiful, you are almost at a loss for words.  This is one of those weddings.  A breathtaking Italian soiree featuring a stunning actress marrying her dashing music producer groom, all while surrounded by family, friends and moment after moment of “Miss Havisham meets Florence and the Machine” pretty (YES).  It’s the kind of day that will most certainly go down in SMP history and you can see it all captured beauitfully by Matthew Moore in the full gallery.

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From the Bride… As an actress and screenwriter by trade out in Hollywood it was destined from the beginning that our wedding was going to be a production. Instead of the standard wedding my husband and I were looking to create the set of a movie that would truly transport our guests to another world.

Besides the fact that we are both very artsy people in general, Zach and I are pretty opposite… er, I mean complimentary. Zach is more of a jeans and t-shirt guy. And I am more of a Jimmy Choo and vintage sequined cocktail dress sort of girl. So when it came time to get married, we wanted to find a way to blend our two tastes: him, casual and me, fancy. Him, laid-back and me, dramatic.

We both quickly agreed on a destination wedding since we knew we wanted the wedding to be intimate. And we wanted the event to be more of a collective vacation than some kind of tribute to our coupledom. And I can’t tell you what a perfect decision that was. We settled on Italy, a small town near Lucca called Borgo a Mozzano where I had spent time in college singing opera. (Told you I was hoity toity.) Borgo a Mozzano is in the Garfagna – the wild and untamed mountains of Tuscany.

I’m obsessed with the faded grandeur you can find in Italy – and the villa we chose for the wedding (Villa Catureglio) just embodies it – ivy growing out of the old stone, olive trees everywhere, that gorgeous light that seems to only exist in Italy… To us, there is nothing more beautiful than patina and we wanted to make that the aesthetic focus of the wedding.

To that end, the colors of the wedding are pulled straight from the discoloration in the stone– from salmon to grey to blue to green. There is a whole kaleidoscope of colors just in the stone. We wanted the wedding decor to have an organic feel to it as if it was part of the villa.

The theme for the wedding was Miss Havisham meets Florence and the Machine. The description I like to give is the wedding should look as if it were set up a hundred years ago and then just forgotten. Over the century the elements took over the ivy and moss began to grow over the decor, age faded the tablecloth. And now the wedding has almost a ghostly feel to it. To me there is nothing more romantic than the Havisham tale of a wedding frozen in time. And I love the juxtaposition of beauty and decay.

We obviously had a bit of a challenge pulling off this vision halfway across the world. Also, we wanted to use a more eclectic decorating style than you can usually rent from wedding vendors (especially in Italy where the wedding aesthetic seems to be mostly ‘lets turn the villa into a Miami club!’). So we had to get creative which is where we had so much fun. My mom and I, along with our wedding planners, combed through different thrifts stores in Florence collecting (at quite a reasonable price) fabulous antiques that we used to decorate throughout. We found gorgeous old mirrors that we hung in the limonaia. We went to an old fabric warehouse in Prato and had curtains made for the chapel and elsewhere. We also found fabric there to make our beautiful burlap lace tablecloth! Its amazing how if you’re willing to hunt, you can find amazing things at quite a discount. Combing through Italian thrift stores may not be heaven for everyone but for me and my mom it truly was!

Zach, of course, provided the music, which was a mixture of current indie music along with music from the 1920′s for the dinner to reflect our desire that the wedding feel both vintage and indie. We ended up having 55 of our closest friends and family and it couldn’t have been more perfect. We all spent a few days together before the wedding.

The wedding started in the private chapel on site: a gorgeous, small stone chapel we turned into an ethereal jewel box. We bought some gorgeous velvet and floral silk fabric from a warehouse in Prato that we turned into romantic drapes to dress the windows. The chapel was filled with Kartell Louis ghost chairs in keeping with the somewhat ghostly feel of the wedding.

The bridesmaids walked down the aisle in beautiful navy, 1930′s inspired David Meister gowns as our indie rock musician friend (my cousin) serenaded us with acoustic versions of our favorite songs (“You’ve Got the Love” by Florence and the Machine, “First Day of Our Lives” by Bright Eyes, etc.) It was so unbelievably special to have my cousin sing for us.

I wore a Reem Acra gown (the Olivia) in flowing ivory with silver beaded cap sleeves. My mom and sister and I got it at Kleinfeld at a trunk show. The look was very early Grey Gardens 1930′s glamour. Think Little Edie when she was young and beautiful and full of promise. Or Miss Havisham in her youth.

Once married, we moved into the courtyard of the villa for cocktails and hors d’oeuvres. Here we had a wonderful surprise planned for our guests. In the distance, they started to hear a band playing celebratory traditional Italian music. The music gradually got closer and closer until through the olive tree-lined entrance to the villa appeared a 30-piece marching band (concerto bandistico)!!! Traditionally, in Italian weddings, the village band plays after the ceremony so we had the local Lucca band do just that for us! They are a fabulous group made up of everyone from 8-year-olds to 80-year-olds who play traditional Italian folk music with perfect imperfection.

The look of the aperitif hour was gorgeous! Drinks were served in the Limonaia (where the lemon trees are stored during the winter). The limonaia is honestly to die for – it’s so Miss Havisham/Grey Gardens with gorgeous French doors opening into this magical space covered in ivy and other hanging vines. Additionally we decorated the walls with a mish-mash of gorgeous, gold antique mirrors we bought at different consignment stores around Florence all in different sizes and shapes– including one gigantic antique mirror (6 feet tall) which rested on the floor. We asked the florist to bring even more ivy to add to the walls and weave around the mirrors to make them feel as if they have been there for centuries. I’m sure I am the only bride who asked the florist to make the venue look more decrepit, but honestly, they did the most magnificent job. Tuscany Flowers (the best!!!) did the flowers.

Decorating the interior of the limonaia were antique chairs and couch purchased at the Lucca antique market. We ended up turning the limonaia into a grand and formal living room that had been over-taken by the elements. The juxtaposition of the antique furniture with the rustic limonaia and its earthy dirt floor is exactly the kind of contradiction we played with throughout the whole wedding.

After the drinks came dinner. Our guests walked through the villa – out to another beautiful courtyard lined with olive trees decorated with hundreds of hanging candles. In between the trees, was a long table covered in a gorgeous burlap lace we had made into a tablecloth from fabric we bought from a wholesale warehouse in Prato. The table was decorated with antique candelabras and vases, filled with romantic and untamed flower arrangements overflowing onto the table, as ivy climbed up the candelabras. Kartell ghost chairs line the table– interrupted only by the occasional antique chair at either end – and a vintage love seat in the center of the table for the bride and groom. Truly the table was a masterpiece. And as the guests ate, we had 1920s music playing which just added to the ambiance.

Instead of a catering company, we were lucky enough to find (thanks to our wedding planners) a famous chef to cook the meal for us. She’s basically the Paula Deen of Italy and she did an impeccable job. We presented her with a bit of a challenge, since we wanted an entirely vegetarian meal. But she pulled it off beautifully!!

After dinner the cake was set up in the grand hall of the villa surrounded by gorgeous moss and placed on an antique base with a stunning patina – we purchased from a nearby salvage yard. The cake was inspired by Wedgewood with intricate ivory detailing on each tier complete with cameos handmade by our master cake artist, Melanie, and topped with a vintage-inspired crown. It truly was BREATHTAKING. (And tasted amazing as well!)

After eating, we walked down a candle-lit walkway, down the property to the loggia (a covered porch of sorts) – made of ancient stone. We transformed this room into cigar/grappa room. We wanted to contrast the simple and masculine stone with feminine and soft decoration. We draped the open windows with rich velvet fabric. And we purchased an assortment of antique furniture from consignment stores to dress up the space as gorgeous chandeliers hung from the ceiling.

Then onto the dancing. We converted the old stone barn into a dancefloor/club – complete with photobooth! Here we had the most fun juxtaposing the modern with the old. A glowing bar with wrap around one of the central columns of the barn as the bartender served us drinks. Crystal chandeliers hung from the walls. We decorated the barn with simple and modern decorations – clean white modern sofas – all white decor against the stone – as we danced into the night. One of the premiere lighting designers in Tuscany lit the space in blues and purples to help complete the transformation.

Our wedding was really the most magical night ever. Our photographers, Matthew and Katie did such an impeccable job capturing the beauty and feel of the event. 

Photography: Matthew Moore Photography | Florist: Tuscany Flowers | Wedding Dress: Reem Acra | Cake: Melanie Seccaini | Event Coordination: Weddings International | Hair + Makeup: Katie Moore of Matthew Moore Photography | Venue: Villa Catureglio

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Amalfi Coast Wedding from Forever Photography Studio

Ever since my sister’s engagement in Italy, I’ve been shamelessly begging her to return to the Amalfi Coast for her Big Day.  Sure, a stateside wedding would be beautiful, but wouldn’t it be sooo much fun to say “I do” in the very spot they pledged their eternal love?  I think so.  And now, thanks to the ever-wonderful Forever Photography Studio, I have a little something special to help me in all of my persuading; a little something I like to call the world’s most perfect wedding.  It’s an Amalfi Coast masterpiece, complete with one of the most stunning bride and grooms you ever did see.  Click here for all of the pretty.

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From the Bride… I had always dreamed of a beach wedding as my love of the sun and beach aren’t exactly hidden facts; however, as Doug and I were relaxing on a beach in Maui thinking it might just be the perfect spot, I saw something in a “Travel and Leisure” magazine that captured my attention. It was an advertisement for a Mediterranean cruise. I said to Doug, “Let’s just get married in Italy!” Doug had proposed to me on the beautiful Isle of Capri in Italy on October 6, 2009, and we both agree it was the most scenic and romantic spot… along with the wonderful memories we have of the evening we got engaged. That day, we had visited the famous La Grotta Azzurra (Blue Grotto) then headed to Piazza Vittoria where we took the Monte Solaro Chairlift, reaching 589 metres above sea level, to the highest part of the island with wonderful views of Capri and its Faraglioni up to the Gulf of Naples and the Isle of Ischia. It’s really quite breathtaking! That evening we had dinner on the beautiful terrace of the Capri Tiberio Palace Resort and Spa where we enjoyed a candlelit dinner alone as we were the only couple enjoying the beautiful fall evening, which in Italy felt more like summer. Doug asked me to marry him that evening and of course I said “Si” or yes! With all of our special memories of Italy and especially Capri, we knew that we wanted to return to the Amalfi Coast for our wedding.

We planned our wedding for the picturesque town of Positano on Italy’s beautiful Amalfi Coast. For a US citizen to have a legal wedding in Italy, one must first go through “hoops” (too detailed to explain here) and then it must be done in a “Comune or Town Hall.” The Comune di Positano is a panoramic terrace overlooking the sea, which is why we selected it over Capri or the other towns along the Amalfi Coast. We flew our photographers out from Austin, Texas, Jerry and Jona Blackwell of Forever Photography Studio, to capture every special moment of our celebration. It started with a bridal session the day prior to the wedding at Villa Rufolo in Ravello. You honestly can’t imagine how stunning this villa was– vibrant flowers, beautiful trees and did I mention outrageous views?!

Our wedding day itself was beautiful and the bright blue Mediterranean Sea sparkled behind us as we said “Si lo voglio” (I do) to each other. Linda Gatto, our wedding coordinator had truly created our dream ceremony. The floral garlands were beautiful, the music from the harpist was very elegant and I know she made a special request to “Mother Nature” for us, as the weather was divine. Rosa, our celebrant, was the “icing on the cake” as her warmth, personality and passion for her work led to the most wonderful ceremony we could have hoped for. She put so much joy and spirit into the poems I had selected for her to read in creating a personalized ceremony. She led us graciously through our vows and exchanging of the rings. It was truly the happiest day of our lives and we are so grateful to Linda and Rosa for providing exceptional service. We love you both and are so glad that we have two wonderful friends now along the Amalfi Coast!

Following the ceremony, we again headed to Ravello and made a quick stop at the historic town square with all its charm for a gelato and caffé. Then it was on to Villa Cimbrone for additional pictures. Once again, this villa will leave you speechless! Countless gardens, statues, colorful flowers and the Infinity Terrace surround you, which alone would be reason to visit. It is stunning! We ended the evening hosted by Antonio Mansi at Hotel Parsifal for an intimate candlelit dinner on a terrace with amazing views of the Amalfi Coast and sea. I have come to the definitive conclusion that the Italian translation for “hospitality” is “Antonio” as I’ve truly never witnessed a more welcoming and hospitable man. He truly made our evening special and the perfect ending to our fairytale wedding. I can’t possibly recommend Antonio enough and the next time we visit the Amalfi Coast, we plan to stay with Antonio and his brothers at Hotel Parsifal, where our beautiful centerpieces are waiting for our return.  Hopefully Antonio will be putting them to good use until then creating magical evenings for others to enjoy!  Grazie mille Antonio!  I have to say though that one of the funniest and most memorable events of the day was our car ride back to Positano. Picture an entire hour (at least) of Doug and Jona belting out the greatest hits all the way from the 70s to the 90s. It was hysterical!  Even if Jerry and I had tried to join in, we would have been no match for the combined talent of this dynamic duo! Honestly, next time we see them, I want to see Doug and Jona sing together in a Karaoke bar!  I think the driver must have thought we were all insane… but good times it was!

But wait, it wasn’t over yet! For the following day and our after session, I arranged for a private boat trip over to Capri with Michele of Amalfi Yachting Charters, who gave us the boat ride of our lives!  I highly recommend a trip with him!  After arriving to Capri, we once again took the chairlift up to Monte Solero, the highest point on Capri and Anacapri, only this time in our wedding attire! We then made our way to the town square where we were surrounded by a circle of both locals and tourists cheering “Auguri” (congratulations) as we danced and Doug serenaded me to “Your Song” by Elton John, which is our song. We then visited the exact spot where Doug had proposed a few days shy of being exactly 3 years prior. It was truly the wedding of our dreams! It was very small as not many were able to travel to Italy, but it was the most magical, memorable and beautiful experience we could have hoped for… and thanks to Jerry and Jona, we have beautiful pictures that captured every special moment to share with our family and friends. 

Photography:  Jona and Jerry Blackwell of Forever Photography Studio | Wedding Planner: Linda Gatto, La lampada di Aladino S.r.l. | Officiant:  Rosa Paola Pauli Luypen | Hair + Makeup:  Enrico Avitabile of ArtColorFashion | Wedding Dinner: Antonio Mansi, Hotel Parsifal | Silk Bridal Bouquet: Kim Terry of Alexis Grace Design | Wedding Announcements: Ginger with Serendipity Designs | Bridal Boutique:  Wedding Treasures

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